how honest is honest ....

[Annalise Lane]

I had a photo shoot done on Saturday on my way to Lloydminster ... Some pictures are incredibly flattering, while others are very honest about my rolls and love handles.

Now before everyone gets up in arms about honesty in pictures - lets remember us ladies are here to make some money, and have some great sex, and some of us are ADDICTED to the strangers we meet.

I know who I am, I am not always proud of where my body has taken me over the last several years. Back in March I had pictures taken and it was really emotionally hard to see myself. Today, however I have some what come to terms with the size I've become, and know I am supplying a niche to the market place for ' hire a girl friend '

While most of you hire a lady for different reasons, the consensus is that men like to have a lady who is in shape, hot model types. Maybe because they would in the civilian world wouldn't give you the time of day, or because you are accustom to the level of looks in your everyday life. Everyone is different for different reason, and there is NOTHING wrong with why we choose what we do.

I once said I wanted to become the most famous bbw in the market place - ha ha - what a joke.

In Edmonton I am doing better then I thought I would considering my physical appearance... Thank the heavens, bow down to love gods, who know and understand sexuality is beneath the service of our skin... and attitude and willingness goes a long long way.

I think I'm rambling to much - So back to my question - how honest should the pictures be ?

 

[planetsmurf]

everybody has bad photos of themselves, and people toss out the bad photos of themselves all the time, as long as its you in the picture then you should be fine

 

[dipitydoo]

well that's sa bit of a strange question you ask...

The pictures should show the potential client your overall appearance. It definitely HAS to be you in the pic, the is no bigger turn off than to feel cheated. Most of the times if that happens, I walk away.
Remember, clients are selfish, and only if you are not being honest in your photos, then the only chance of someone staying or feeling good about it is if you are better in person than those pics.

**Don'ts
- no majour airbrushing, meaning no editing of the photo to remove big tattoos, scars, etc
- no pics that are more than 2 years old or show a completely different physique than what you have now

**Do's
- you can of course hire a great photographer, that will skillfully hide your imperfections using lighting
- use clothing that hides your imperfections and accentuates your pluses
- spend some money and time getting your hair and makeup done by a pro. It does not have to be overdone, just classy and feminine

 

[BS Detector]

**Don'ts
- no majour airbrushing, meaning no editing of the photo to remove big tattoos, scars, etc


**Do's
- you can of course hire a great photographer, that will skillfully hide your imperfections using lighting

So what's the difference? Are they not just two different techniques to the same end. I just can't see a guy who is THAT worried about a scar that he might leave feel cheated if it was airbrushed out but find it acceptable if it was not visible because of lighting.

I know what you are saying in that one makes an effort to 'remove' something that is there while the other only serves to 'hide' it. One is more active and the other more passive but the mindset of the guy will still be that it is not an accurate representation. He may be right too. Personally, I am not worried about scars or stretch marks anyway. I have actually read reviews where guys complain about stretch marks and the thought that always crosses my mind is BFD!!!

Which brings up another pet peeve of mine...Why do people insist on saying "anywayS" instead of anyway???

 

[dipitydoo]

Personally, I am not worried about scars or stretch marks anyway. I have actually read reviews where guys complain about stretch marks and the thought that always crosses my mind is BFD!!!

Which brings up another pet peeve of mine...Why do people insist on saying "anywayS" instead of anyway???

believe it or not BS Detector, Scars and stretch marks are a big deal for a lot of people. Some people don't mind them at all on someone they love, but paying a lot of money to have sex with someone gives you the opportunity to choose, and scars and stretchmarks are rarely deemed sexy or desireable.

To each his own.

 

[BS Detector]

believe it or not BS Detector, Scars and stretch marks are a big deal for a lot of people. Some people don't mind them at all on someone they love, but paying a lot of money to have sex with someone gives you the opportunity to choose, and scars and stretchmarks are rarely deemed sexy or desireable.

To each his own.

Fine but that was not my question. I am asking why is it deemed unacceptable to hide them with airbrushing but acceptable if lighting is used to hide them.

 

[Dakota Wood]

I don't agree with not airbrushing big tattoos

A friend of mine, who is not (to my knowledge) an SP, has a large japanese style dragon tattoo that is very distinctive. She designed it herself. If I saw it in a pic, regardless of her face being blurred, I would know it was her. Sometimes tats are photo shopped out as a matter of privacy. All the SP has to do is explain that she has a large tattoo on her website. If a client is THAT hung up about it, maybe he should look elsewhere for an SP who is tat free.

 

[Discombobbled]

I had a photo shoot done on Saturday on my way to Lloydminster ... Some pictures are incredibly flattering, while others are very honest about my rolls and love handles.

Now before everyone gets up in arms about honesty in pictures - lets remember us ladies are here to make some money, and have some great sex, and some of us are ADDICTED to the strangers we meet.

I know who I am, I am not always proud of where my body has taken me over the last several years. Back in March I had pictures taken and it was really emotionally hard to see myself. Today, however I have some what come to terms with the size I've become, and know I am supplying a niche to the market place for ' hire a girl friend '

While most of you hire a lady for different reasons, the consensus is that men like to have a lady who is in shape, hot model types. Maybe because they would in the civilian world wouldn't give you the time of day, or because you are accustom to the level of looks in your everyday life. Everyone is different for different reason, and there is NOTHING wrong with why we choose what we do.

I once said I wanted to become the most famous bbw in the market place - ha ha - what a joke.

In Edmonton I am doing better then I thought I would considering my physical appearance... Thank the heavens, bow down to love gods, who know and understand sexuality is beneath the service of our skin... and attitude and willingness goes a long long way.

I think I'm rambling to much - So back to my question - how honest should the pictures be ?

I generally try to take a concilatory manner about things. We are all human and we all have our faults. But this time I'm gonna let it rip, "Stop being so fucking hard on yourself!! We're all human and none of us is perfect!! Fuck, you look pretty good to me, and if you can pass Discombobbled's standards, you're doing pretty well" . There I've said it, sorry if it was too harsh

 

[Annalise Lane]

I generally try to take a concilatory manner about things. We are all human and we all have our faults. But this time I'm gonna let it rip, "Stop being so fucking hard on yourself!! We're all human and none of us is perfect!! Fuck, you look pretty good to me, and if you can pass Discombobbled's standards, you're doing pretty well" . There I've said it, sorry if it was too harsh

it's all good - opinions are free ~at least something is free in this world ~

 

[georgebushmoron]

Just do a blowjob pic and most guys will ignore everything else.

 

[EnglishGent]

All I can say is the photos I've seen of you look great and we get a real feel for you. I think you have made it very clear that you aren't a 20 year old spinner so nobody should be shocked when you meet them. I think everyone realizes that photos are normally professionally taken so hide a few blemishes but so long as they are reasonably accurate all is good.

Makes a mental note to meet up with Annalise sometime soon!!

 

[curvy_nympho]

Ms. Annalise

As a fellow BBW, an amateur photographer, and someone who has done magazine and other photo shoots (and critiqued many more), you are a beautiful looking woman!

Everyone has their preferences on body type, eye colour, hair colour, tattoos or no tattoos, and so on. There will always be people who find you attractive and others who don't.

But, that being said, there are some people whose faces have "mass appeal". I am quite certain that you will have many people look at you in every day life and take a second look too! (Even people who might normally only look at spinners.) This is because you have beautiful features, you know how to wear make up, you have pretty hair, etc. I think your "aura" and sensuality say a lot too.

I don't believe that every "fat chick" is a BBW (Big Beautiful Woman). That moniker is way over used and everyone who uses it is NOT necessarily beautiful. There are thin women who dress sloppily, don't take care of themselves by doing their nails, hair and make-up just like there are larger women who don't. For those of us who do, we are more likely to attract other people.

I know that when I walk down the street and am feeling saucy, I get checked out all the time. I have had men date me who said that they had never been attracted to a larger girl before, but because I exuded confidence and sexiness, they were intoxicated.

Confidence is sexy. I have been told that over and over through out the years by men I have dated and now men I have met in the "biz".

Be proud that you have developed a client base who appreciates you. Be proud of your curves. Be proud of who you are!

What can I say? I would "do" you! LOL I am sorry we didn't get to meet on that Thursday when you were here in Vancouver.


Bella

 

[BS Detector]

All I can say is the photos I've seen of you look great and we get a real feel for you. I think you have made it very clear that you aren't a 20 year old spinner so nobody should be shocked when you meet them. I think everyone realizes that photos are normally professionally taken so hide a few blemishes but so long as they are reasonably accurate all is good.

Could not have said it better myself. Your pics and description Annalise are totally honest and no should have no fears. If anything, I think you tend to underestimate yourself.

 

[Annalise Lane]

Thanks Bella - and yeah sex with YOU would have been a hoot !! Unfortunately I won't be back to Vancouver, so you'll have to take vacation and come here !!

As for how sexually appealing I am or am not, or how pretty my face is or not... that wasn't the question...

Some of the pictures I have that are new, show every role and bump and hump on my sexy big bod !! These pictures are in question... nothing more.

Part of me wants to post them both here and on my site, while the other part of me knows the dudes are prepared for the lumps and bumps I have and don’t necessarily need to see the REALITY.

I sent the reality pictures through a pm to a gent on this board, I would like to know what he thinks ... along with anyone who is willing to be HONEST in private.

Bella, I think you are right on so many levels about taking care of ourselves, and loving whom we are and whom we might be some day... More woman should visit a spa and buy clothes that suit their personlity... It's easier said then done I'm affraid, but until then I will continue to scoops these poor souls into the closest spa for the biggest reality make over money can buy. ( ha ha ) ~ I wonder what 10 bucks will buy me ~

 

[BS Detector]

Part of me wants to post them both here and on my site, while the other part of me knows the dudes are prepared for the lumps and bumps I have and don’t necessarily need to see the REALITY.

Annalise, Why don't you post the ones YOU are happy with cuz that way you will not spend any time second guessing yourself and if you posted the 'right' ones. I think you will feel better about yourself because the pics YOU like are the ones everyone else is seeing and when you take calls, that confidence will show thru the phone

 

[curvy_nympho]

Lumps and Bumps

I think that anyone who takes "glam" shots for a job like this is allowed to have the scene set with lighting and make up, but also to have certain poses that show off our best assets. (or would that be BOOBsets?) LOL

I know that I always like certain poses of myself better than others. I am highly critical of my own photos and usually take 40 shots to get only one that I like! I tend to focus on every little imperfection. The men who see my photos are drooling at the mouth because they see the "whole picture" and they don't tend to pick apart the tiny details. Hey, how many times do they get to see breasts larger than a D cup?

Again, men will be impressed with your confidence. I have much thinner friends who wouldn't dream of taking their clothes off to have photographs taken because they aren't confident in who they are.

So, that being said. Pick your favorites. The ones you feel good in. I have looked at your website and you are honest about who you are. I don't think any man who decides to visit you, will be as worried about lumps and bumps as you might be.

Bella