How have your pooning tastes and habits changed over the years?

[VinVan]

And for the SPs, if they care to share: how have your services changed in time?

When I first started going to escorts and AMPs back in the day I equated shots with value, so I pursued the MSOG option whenever possible. But after discovering Perb and reading the wide range of experiences, an evolution of sorts happened where it became less about the destination and more about the journey. There was also a natural maturation process and I discovered the joys of edging, S&M when circumstances allowed, and the occasional foray into group play.

Where before it was always about “my” gratification, in the last years it’s been much more about “us.” I’ve learned to slow down and discover what the SP enjoys and often (but not always) we’ll have a pretty good time. By slowing it down I’ve gone on adventures I never would have in my rabid phase. Lol.

In my younger days I would avoid Asians because of a couple of negative experiences where I felt what was agreed to was not met, or services were rendered with the enthusiasm of a root canal. But through Perb I discovered an entire solar system of amazing Asian providers.

I’ve always enjoyed women of all ages and that remains true now; there is a sexiness that age confers upon a woman that is equal in measure to the innocence of youth. To me sexy is sexy, no matter the age or body shape. That being said I do have my ideal shape, but I’m happy to color outside of those lines when an adventure presents itself.

My sex drive and stamina may have been higher back then, but I’m pretty content where I am now; and I’m pretty sure any SP I’ve been with would prefer the 2024 vintage of me.

Howzabout you?

 

[jeffu]

I think I've grown and matured as a person, and along the way gotten a clearer sense of what I like, more confidence and directness in my communication, and more skill in certain areas. That said, my ideal with a provider has from day one been a passionate and sensual GFE-- I haven't gotten any kinkier in middle age.. In terms of services I don't need much-- just give me the four Ds (DFK, Digits, DATY, DATO) and I'm a happy camper. If BBJ/CIM is in the mix as well that's pretty much an ideal session for me. When I was younger I was more limited in the type of providers I was interested in but over time I've developed an appreciation for different body types and women with diverse cultural backgrounds.

Lately I've really found myself in a place of gratitude. Life is hard, often painful and uncertain... and the world is a mess right now. I for one am super grateful to live in a place where there are so many beautiful women and wonderful providers out there to help make the world just a little more bearable.

 

[Big_Guy_Rye]

Not really.... I'm a guy of simple pleasures, which isn't so simple to obtain since I look to this hobby.

I'm just happy finding anyone who is real, clean, safe, and professional. Any ethnicity, age range between my age and a decade younger....etc... Nothing has really changed in what kind of provider or certain services I request, since I'm pretty much open to anything as I've always been.

I would say that with time dabbling in the scene, I gained some 'street-smarts' to know how to steer clear from all the red-flags. I believe I'm able to think with the big-head long enough to know which girl is a genuine provider and those who are scammers. Like "maybe I should go for the 19yr 'party-girl', and look for someone with experience and a right balance of sophistication and sleaziness'"...

 

[gianni lotus]

I used to go by looks only. It took multiple mediocre experiences with really hot women and some amazing experiences with women who were not conventionally "hot" for me to realize that service trumps looks. It is thanks to this board that I can hear about ladies that provide good service from customers instead of having to rely on chance from ads in the Georgia Straight or the Buy-n-Sell. Good service is sexy. I know that most are performing but there are some damn good performers out there. It is a huge turn off when it feels like the provider is just going through the motions.

My habits have changed in that I am so much better at communicating what I like. I used to just go with someones routine and felt like I was being bossy or pushy to request something. Some providers only want to do their routine. If the routine is awesome I am down for that, but there seems to be a small list of ladies that that check the boxes of what I like in their off the the shelf routine. I prefer providers that communicate and ask what I like and appreciate direction and feedback because they want to make sure you are having a good time. Communication is key for me.

I really like the idea about slowing down suggested by VinVan. I am often nervous with a new provider and can rush things a bit. Going slow is sexy too. I will try that in the future.

 

[Pgup]

Yes, started seeing Trans fem.

 

[white Ninja 74]

I for one am super grateful to live in a place where there are so many beautiful women and wonderful providers out there to help make the world just a little more bearable.

Word !!

 

[white Ninja 74]

When I was younger I was interested in sleeping w as many women as possible and probably walked past someone in the street at least every 10 min that I least kinda wanted to sleep with .

Some of the things that would commonly turn me on were her personal style of dressing, taste in music, what she did for a living or what her degree was in .

I took many beautiful sweet young women for granted and would get bored and break it off in the name of chasing someone new.

In the bedroom itself I liked my sex a little harder and faster ( which I believe is more common ) but was also less comfortable being honest about all my preference that were shall we say outside the lines of modern popular culture .

I couldn’t wait to get someone’s clothes off .
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- Fast fwrd many yrs to the present day .

-Due to the nature of the non shaming environment of this hobby , I’ve become comfortable being honest about everything I enjoy .

-At the same time I also really enjoy slowing things down now . ( Who knows it’s a long life , I may change again )

While I obviously want to sleep w more than one person otherwise I wouldn’t participate in the hobby I also don’t crave new faces all the time anymore .
If I read a review that really catches my eye I may go see someone being open to adding her to the small group of regular if she’s a fit ,

But for the most part I have my small handful of regulars that I know I really enjoy seeing and I enjoy seeing them more and more as time goes on .
Sexual chemistry aside , If I meet a provider who simply gives off a really good vibe , I feel good being around her . She seems like a cool person , then it’s often a good fit .
I also find that often directly correlates to the sexual chemistry .

- I truly appreciate all my regulars and am thankful that I met them.

One last thing is I could honestly just French kiss and grope and grind for hrs on end now and be happier than kid on the last smartie .
I guess my post ended up being how my tastes changed from pre hobbyist to post hobbyist.

 

[Sophia Fae YVR]

What a great thread! When I first entered the industry, I really wanted to try and be open to everything and was really in this place of exploration of myself. I think that I also was less concerned with my own boundaries and more focussed on pleasing everyone. I started off doing a lot of shorter/qv type visits as well.

Overtime as I’ve been in this industry off and on for over 10 years, I have fine-tuned what I genuinely enjoy to give and receive in session, my connection to my boundaries and done away with short services as I noticed that longer sessions are so much richer- the types of clients who tend to book longer sessions also tend to be more sensual and aligned with my vibe too.

So I suppose it’s an overall maturation, less “hustling”, more relaxed. I know more about what I like and I tend to prefer providing services that I genuinely enjoy rather than just providing Services for the sake of more money. Thats not everyone’s interest, but I’ve found that works well for me.

 

[white Ninja 74]

What a great thread! When I first entered the industry, I really wanted to try and be open to everything and was really in this place of exploration of myself. I think that I also was less concerned with my own boundaries and more focussed on pleasing everyone. I started off doing a lot of shorter/qv type visits as well.

Overtime as I’ve been in this industry off and on for over 10 years, I have fine-tuned what I genuinely enjoy to give and receive in session, my connection to my boundaries and done away with short services as I noticed that longer sessions are so much richer- the types of clients who tend to book longer sessions also tend to be more sensual and aligned with my vibe too.

So I suppose it’s an overall maturation, less “hustling”, more relaxed. I know more about what I like and I tend to prefer providing services that I genuinely enjoy rather than just providing Services for the sake of more money. Thats not everyone’s interest, but I’ve found that works well for me.

Thanks for contributing, its really interested to hear it from a providers side .

 

[Dick Ford]

I definitely prioritized looks a lot more when I first started seeing providers. And I thought I wanted nothing but blondes, too, as that was so against my type. Now I know I don't really have a type. It's like music -- younger, know-it-all me used to listen to such a narrow definition of what great music is, but now I have a much deeper appreciation and passion for a broader array of muscial genres.

 

[Gagfactor69]

With the right woman I would like her pussy. But I’ve found that fking escorts is not my thing. I learned that after a few 10 escorts there was no joy in it.

I realized from 2 escorts that deep throat feels amazing also I like certain throat sounds kind of like megumi shino

 

[phukedup1]

It used to be about quantity. Now it's about quality.

 

[Sheen]

I used to do multiple shots now I am one and done

I didnt make as much as a do now so it was once every couple months instead of twice a month.

I used to have regulars as I wasn't to concerned about them getting to know me or be recognized/approached in public. Now I only visit once and hopefully forgotten.

 

[PDV]

I'm in the same boat as VinVan in slowing down. In younger days I would opt for shorter appointments, had less money and less flexible schedules.

Young bull: Let's run across the field and fuck all those cows!
Old bull: Hey, none of that! Let's WALK across the field and fuck all those cows...

 

[Seattleguy425]

When I first started I would to hit up all the amp and high volume sp, now I don’t see as much provider anymore, I am all about quality over quantity. Why? because over the years I realized I only remember a handful of great experiences, and all the mediocre ones are vanish in my memory.

 

[westwoody]

I only remember a handful of great experiences, and all the mediocre ones are vanish in my memory.

It’s better to have a few unforgettable ones , ones that make you smile years later, than a weekly one you instantly forget.
More is not better.
Better is better.

 

[thevalleydude]

I used to only go for younger white or CBC women....now I am fascinated by the excellent service and skills that the.... when I was younger..., maligned and scorned Asian "aunties" possess and am having perhaps the best sex of my life. They may not be as hot but they have learned a lot of tricks along the way to please their clients.