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How do you tell friend-with-benefits that her BJ isn't very good?

islander1-1

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Oct 9, 2015
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Hmmmm A good BJ.... yes for me the perfect answer to what ails me. A BBBJ has to be on the menu or she better be really special at other things. A 69 is a bonus. My second wife was fantastic at it. She was insatiable. I swear she could suck start a Harley Davidson. The downfall with our relationship is she loved doing it so much, she shared this attribute with too many other guys in the neighborhood. I have no idea how she got so good at it or if she had any previous coaxing or instructions. (this was long before you could google it.) It was pretty good to begin with and with the occasional coaxing and giving clues during, it became almost perfect for me. She also gave me good instructions with oral and visual clues for DATY. I am told I am still pretty good at it at my age. We had a very open and understanding relationship but she just took this too far. Her reputation was getting embarrassing. I have only found one of 2 SPs that can come close to her skills, but then there was this one very young girl just interested starting out in the industry. Second date she asked me to teach her. well hell ir took about 5 min and she was on the game like a duck takes to water. Alas this young lady decided against the business but will make some guy very happy some day. Yes a little coaxing is all it took and she was on her way to being a BJM. I highly recommend coaxing and instructions for her, to any guy who enjoys a good BJ.
 

Damaged

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May 2, 2005
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Hmmmm A good BJ.... yes for me the perfect answer to what ails me. A BBBJ has to be on the menu or she better be really special at other things. A 69 is a bonus. My second wife was fantastic at it. She was insatiable. I swear she could suck start a Harley Davidson. The downfall with our relationship is she loved doing it so much, she shared this attribute with too many other guys in the neighborhood. I have no idea how she got so good at it or if she had any previous coaxing or instructions. (this was long before you could google it.) It was pretty good to begin with and with the occasional coaxing and giving clues during, it became almost perfect for me. She also gave me good instructions with oral and visual clues for DATY. I am told I am still pretty good at it at my age. We had a very open and understanding relationship but she just took this too far. Her reputation was getting embarrassing. I have only found one of 2 SPs that can come close to her skills, but then there was this one very young girl just interested starting out in the industry. Second date she asked me to teach her. well hell ir took about 5 min and she was on the game like a duck takes to water. Alas this young lady decided against the business but will make some guy very happy some day. Yes a little coaxing is all it took and she was on her way to being a BJM. I highly recommend coaxing and instructions for her, to any guy who enjoys a good BJ.

Contact info on the ex?
 

papillion

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Jan 31, 2006
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Pretty much took all the suggestions into account and merged them. Lots of conversation, direction, playing, porn, etc.
It was actually really good.
I am not much of a conversationalist and have been told by more than one woman that I am a poor communicator (yes..I tend to internalize) so I had to work hard to open myself up.
We’re still FWB, still having fun, and actually growing closer as it’s caused me to reveal more of myself to her.

It’s beem interesting.
Thanks to all here for the advice!
In my experience, communication skills are so important for everything in life, including the bedroom.
Glad things are trending better.
 
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