How do you know if you are addicted to Escorts?

[Chessmen]

It's been a few months since my last encounter but I've been still thinking about it. I often went to Clubs like the No5 Orange to get my fill for a cheaper price but it's just not the same.
How often do you have to see an escort before you consider it an addiction?

 

[PuntMeister]

It's been a few months since my last encounter but I've been still thinking about it. I often went to Clubs like the No5 Orange to get my fill for a cheaper price but it's just not the same.
How often do you have to see an escort before you consider it an addiction?

When you need it daily and are living in a shoebox beside a dumpster in the alley behind Hastings, but will blow your next hundred on another fix instead of a place to stay, they, you, my brother, have a problem.

When you are couchsurfing your buddies' places so you can afford weekly poons, that's OK, as long as you make the Kraft Dinner for them on weekdays.

 

[Dnice]

When you find ourself constantly scouring through ers, perb and similar websites... Like me

 

[nickcan]

Once every few months is not being addicted, very good self control if you ask me.
I would say at least once a week to be considered an addict.

 

[peter putter]

1) You find yourself pawning stuff to get money together to see your next lady.

2) You find yourself booking appointments to see ladies weeks in advance so you can set aside the money.

Oh oh....

 

[girth-brooks]

Is it the money spent or the amount of times that would make someone an addict (or both)?

 

[sdw]

Nah, that is just a lifestyle choice. If you are living the life that Punt suggests, as well as robbing the SP's you see every time you think you can take her in order to have the front money for your next poon later that day... Then you might begin to consider that you are starting down the road to addictive behaviour. If at this point you begin to consider either entering politics or becoming a minister of the faith, you should seek counciling because your moral compass has surely been broken.

Ministers and Politicians ever had a moral compass?

 

[Man in Submission]

It's been a few months since my last encounter but I've been still thinking about it. I often went to Clubs like the No5 Orange to get my fill for a cheaper price but it's just not the same.
How often do you have to see an escort before you consider it an addiction?

If it has been a few months then I am guessing you are OK Chessmen! I am pretty sure we all think about it, wish we could do it more often, but if you comprehend that (for most of us) it is not financially sustainable, then you are using proper discretion and therefore not addicted.:thumb:

 

[vancity_cowboy]

Is it the money spent or the amount of times that would make someone an addict (or both)?

neither - it's the degree of disruption to your regular life

 

[87112]

Some things you have to get out of your system. I don't blame any male out there for pooning, in fact its completely healthy and normal.
I blew a shit load of money on this stuff years ago. No regrets really, its male DNA.

 

[Violet]

Addiction is not defined by how often you do it or how much money you spend. It is measured by the adverse impact on your life. Addiction is the continued repetition of a behavior despite the adverse consequences outweighing the positive. If you feel like you genuinely want to stop but you can't control yourself is a good indication. If it is harming your life and bringing you more stress than joy is another. It is difficult to define and the specifics are different for everyone.

 

[johnsmit]

The problem with saying one has a sex adiction.. is that wanting sex is a natural state of human nature..
As single men not in any type of relationship.. most would not get sex on a daily bases.. Which often happen with those in a relationship..
So i am not sure where the adiction would be.. Of couse some one could start up a destructive behavour in their attempt to get sex on a regular bases.. Spenfing money you cant afford to..gambling to get money to see girls..pawning... and barrowing.. all distructive to your ecanomic well being.. Plues the stress of the finantual problems it cause... Is it an adiction.. like drugs..or alcohal..which in its self is a brain chemical inbalance cause the need for those substances.

The wanting of sex ..the desire for sex..the love of sex.. has many other .aspects attached to it..
from the basics.. of.it in our nature to want to reproduce ..And then it in our nature to want companiounship.

 

[luvsdaty]

It's not an addiction until you've sucked a dick to support that addiction!

 

[peter putter]

....
.... most would not get sex on a daily bases...

Just like it is after a few years for married men...ound:

 

[peter putter]

You know you'r addicted to seeing escorts.

1) You set a monthly. $2500 and yearly $30,000 budget for seeing ladies
2) You are upset when due to reasons beyond your control. You don't meet your budget expectations. Then having to ad the money not spent to next months budget. Ie see more ladies
3) You set a reasonable number of ladies to see. Then you decide to go on a quest to see 50 diifferent ladies. You still see your regulars as well.
4) You adapt your quest and make it 100 new ladies after you reach seeing 50 new ladies.
5) You set up duo's and trio's on almost a monthly basis.


Lol.

Oh Oh...:doh:

 

[sevenofnine]

When you felt you have lost control.
Set rules for yourself or a budget but can't keep them.

Want to quit but can't,,

When you risk ruin but still can't stop.

I think bumping up againest is part of it for some of us.
Its the thrill the adrenalin,
I know at times going out I know I never really felt good until I knew I was in shit from my wife out to late spent to much money on dancerss booze etc,
And when I started this it was the thrill of being bad, seeing different girls the risk etc etc,

It was the adrenalin in part I think that is so addicting,
as opposed to a boring ho hum drum life.

But you know even that fades after years of seeing escorts, No big adrenalin rush any more,

Addictions are funny, what exactly are we chasing.

 

[Flybynight]

The problem with saying one has a sex adiction.. is that wanting sex is a natural state of human nature..
As single men not in any type of relationship.. most would not get sex on a daily bases.. Which often happen with those in a relationship..
So i am not sure where the adiction would be.. Of couse some one could start up a destructive behavour in their attempt to get sex on a regular bases.. Spenfing money you cant afford to..gambling to get money to see girls..pawning... and barrowing.. all distructive to your ecanomic well being.. Plues the stress of the finantual problems it cause... Is it an adiction.. like drugs..or alcohal..which in its self is a brain chemical inbalance cause the need for those substances.

The wanting of sex ..the desire for sex..the love of sex.. has many other .aspects attached to it..
from the basics.. of.it in our nature to want to reproduce ..And then it in our nature to want companiounship.

Huh? Ellipses are the last gasp of the illiterate.

 

[Flybynight]

This is pretty well said. This is why I've said gambling addiction is one of the toughest, it's not something that's really easy to prove because you can't exactly run a pee test...

What Violet said is exactly on point in terms of what addiction is. And what does "proving" an addiction have to do with it?

 

[crunkory]

you know you are addicted to escorts when you have first made this enquiry to begin this thread

 

[Dickson]

1) You find yourself pawning stuff to get money together to see your next lady.

2) You find yourself booking appointments to see ladies weeks in advance so you can set aside the money.

Come on Badger my man. I book in advance all the time. I see SPs every few weeks depending on a need for a dinner date or a function. I did go thought Jan and Feb without seeing one but I was just to busy. I find when I have down time I see more SPs. Not sure I consider my self addicted?