how do you feel about your favourite sp leaving town without telling you?

[kc124]

I am pretty new to the scene and have been going to this same sp every week for a 2 hours session for a couple months now. She is pretty much the first sp I saw. I thought we were pretty compatible because we chatted and laughed every session. And I remember in one of our conversation she said shes quitting at the end of march. I even remember in our session last week, we even discussed what we were gonna try this week... I have also been thinking about a longer farewell session before the end of march..

But then when I tried to book a session again today at my usual booking time, I found out she is like gone gone, no longer working after yesterday. I put aside a budget for her and havent even used 1/4 of it. I thought I had more time...

I know sp is not obliged to let you know when they are leaving, but i didn't even get to say goodbye or have a final farewell session. Not sure if I am going to quit the hobby or find a new favourite now...


But, man, Feelsbadman.

 

[VanessainVictoria]

Awww, that is really sweet. Maybe some time will pass and she will miss you too. One day you'll wake up and have a surprise text or email from her.

 

[kc124]

Awww, that is really sweet. Maybe some time will pass and she will miss you too. One day you'll wake up and have a surprise text or email from her.

I doubt it. She shared the same work phone as her duo partner. And they dont do texts. Her duo partner said she thought she was working today, and was surprised to find out she suddenly quit as well.

I told her partner to let me know if she ever comes back. And i would give her a big tip if she let me know. But most likely our last session would be the last time I see her..

In our last session, we had sex for like 90 minutes straight and I was unable to come due to no fault of hers, so I gave up and we chatted for like 30 minutes.. i guess not being able to come would be my last memory i have of her..

 

[VanessainVictoria]

I know you might be sad now, but in the future you will be happy to have known her.

 

[polishp00nee]

Hey made new handle so not new to perb but yes I agree I used to frequent rouge and wca and was sad when some of the Angel's decided to pursue other career paths.. anyone else have any specific sps they missed. We should make a thread

The most missed sps

 

[Bad Santa]

I am pretty new to the scene and have been going to this same sp every week for a 2 hours session for a couple months now. She is pretty much the first sp I saw. I thought we were pretty compatible because we chatted and laughed every session. And I remember in one of our conversation she said shes quitting at the end of march. I even remember in our session last week, we even discussed what we were gonna try this week... I have also been thinking about a longer farewell session before the end of march..

But then when I tried to book a session again today at my usual booking time, I found out she is like gone gone, no longer working after yesterday. I put aside a budget for her and havent even used 1/4 of it. I thought I had more time...

I know sp is not obliged to let you know when they are leaving, but i didn't even get to say goodbye or have a final farewell session. Not sure if I am going to quit the hobby or find a new favourite now...


But, man, Feelsbadman.

It's just the nature of the business. I'm sure it works both ways, as many sex workers probably miss steady clients who suddenly stop visiting without giving a reason. That's how the business works, because it allows both parties to move on without complications. So that's what you have to do my friend, move on. I'm sure there are many fine ladies out there who can help you not "Feelsobadman."

 

[masterblaster]

I am pretty new to the scene and have been going to this same sp every week for a 2 hours session for a couple months now. She is pretty much the first sp I saw. I thought we were pretty compatible because we chatted and laughed every session. And I remember in one of our conversation she said shes quitting at the end of march. I even remember in our session last week, we even discussed what we were gonna try this week... I have also been thinking about a longer farewell session before the end of march..

But then when I tried to book a session again today at my usual booking time, I found out she is like gone gone, no longer working after yesterday. I put aside a budget for her and havent even used 1/4 of it. I thought I had more time...

I know sp is not obliged to let you know when they are leaving, but i didn't even get to say goodbye or have a final farewell session. Not sure if I am going to quit the hobby or find a new favourite now...


But, man, Feelsbadman.

If she left town or disappeared without telling you, then obviously you don’t count for much in her life. Probably went somewhere with her boyfriend.

 

[kc124]

If she left town or disappeared without telling you, then obviously you don’t count for much in her life. Probably went somewhere with her boyfriend.

I think maybe she decided to quit two weeks early sometimes after seeing me last week i guess. Since her duo partner was surprised too and didnt find out until today. i guess i will never really know..

 

[Travel]

It sucks, but it happens. One of my ATFs quit the business and disappeared after an arrest. She was amazingly sweet and fun, so it was tough when she vanished.

 

[chico1]

Sorry, but I really don't understand these kind of threads. I don't see a problem with SP leaving and going on with her life or moving on to a different place.
That is how this business works. No strings attached. You are not buying a relationship with your favourite SP. So this is perfectly normal IMO.

 

[Shisimona]

Not trying to be rude or anything like that, just because you chatted and laughed at every session, doesn't mean you are compatible. Remember, they are Escorts, you are paying them for their services. Majority of them put on an act to make you think that way.

I was in the same situation as you. Booked with one in Jan and had a few more bookings with her. Took her out on Valentine's Day. Then a week later, she was gone. But with this one, if I wanted to I can get in touch with her. But I won't. Because I respect the privacy of her. If we run into each other at the store or something, that's different. But I won't go outta my way to find her.

 

[kc124]

Sorry, but I really don't understand these kind of threads. I don't see a problem with SP leaving and going on with her life or moving on to a different place.
That is how this business works. No strings attached. You are not buying a relationship with your favourite SP. So this is perfectly normal IMO.

Not trying to be rude or anything like that, just because you chatted and laughed at every session, doesn't mean you are compatible. Remember, they are Escorts, you are paying them for their services. Majority of them put on an act to make you think that way.

I was in the same situation as you. Booked with one in Jan and had a few more bookings with her. Took her out on Valentine's Day. Then a week later, she was gone. But with this one, if I wanted to I can get in touch with her. But I won't. Because I respect the privacy of her. If we run into each other at the store or something, that's different. But I won't go outta my way to find her.

yea I get what you are saying. I guess since I thought she was going to leave at the end of the month, I just wasn't mentally prepared for her departure all of a sudden. And just cant help but feel a little bit of pepehands because I missed the chance to say goodbye.

 

[rlock]

My favourite SP did leave town. Communications & booking with her got tougher; frequently I got ghosted.
When she announced she was going to move, I understood that she was going to try something different in life, or at least experience life in a different place. I know I'll miss her, but be glad for her if it turns out positive.
There was never any awkwardness or negativity between us (as far as I knew), and I always tried to put her at ease and be supportive (in my socially awkward way), because I genuinely liked her on just a social level.
Yet even if I know she is very popular, very busy moving, and probably has little time for any casual chit-chat. Still, I will admit, it hurts.

 

[anon1]

"Tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all." Tennyson

 

[girth-brooks]

Things happen - they have things in their lives that you don't know about, even when they share a little. They have to do what's best. I wouldn't take it personally.

 

[D12]

It’s a business both sp’s and clients move on always remember she’s having a good time and laughing with you and all that because your paying to spend time with her. Rule number one don’t get attached to the talent

 

[haigum141]

It’s a business both sp’s and clients move on always remember she’s having a good time and laughing with you and all that because your paying to spend time with her. Rule number one don’t get attached to the talent

Exactly. SP’s care about your money, not about you.

If you encounter some kind of financial difficulty, most couldn’t care less or give you another thought. Until you can pay them again of course. Then they will start laughing and be friendly with you

It’s just business

 

[uncleg]

Very upset, cause it would mean that in spite of what she was telling me, I really wasn't her fav client.....plus it would probably mean never seeing the money I lent her when she ran out at the mall and just had to have whatever it was.