How do you deal with making the same conversation over and over?

[kc124]

I mean when you meet a new SP for example. I just realized, I may have been making the same or similar conversation whenever I am meeting someone new. Now if I am doing it, I can imagine an SP might be retelling the same story or joke since they are meeting new people at a much higher frequency.

Doesn't it get tired making the same conversation or telling the same joke over and over?

 

[Number17]

As an SP, she always has the option to chat less if she doesn’t feel like making conversations. I’ve met a couple of SPs that we make out longer than we chat before I even take a shower.

As a client, you can always see SPs who don’t speak the same language(s) as you if you’re tired of making the same conversation. ?

Jokes aside, for some SPs, they probably want to know you a bit and chat with you to warm up before they get intimate with you. In that case, I don’t know if they would get bored of making the same conversation because it becomes a part of the routine to make themselves comfortable with you.

 

[Beasting]

I mean when you meet a new SP for example. I just realized, I may have been making the same or similar conversation whenever I am meeting someone new. Now if I am doing it, I can imagine an SP might be retelling the same story or joke since they are meeting new people at a much higher frequency.

Doesn't it get tired making the same conversation or telling the same joke over and over?

If you ever have worked in sales, it's the exact same issue. You just smile and deal with it.

 

[blakealridge]

I actually find my conversations are always very different.

 

[Cock Throppled]

Other than answering basic questions, why would conversations with different people be the same?

I've talked to SP's about everything from types of shampoos, to cycling, favourite TV shows, international travel, best coffee shops and their/or my history, etc.

 

[PierreCoeur]

I have many young people who work for me so I am very used to repeating myself over and over again. Now get back to work and quit asking me the same questions everytime you walk into my office.

Sorry but to answer your question seriously without taking it literally, there must be something wrong with you.

I have never had the same conversation with any of the many service providers I have met. I can't imagine how anyone could.

I think if you are having that problem then you aren't really connecting with them individually but seeing them as stereotypes.

Most women will not be having the same conversation with men over and over again either. While you might assume some might think that we all have the same name "John" the more successful and quality women know our names.

 

[kc124]

Other than answering basic questions, why would conversations with different people be the same?

I've talked to SP's about everything from types of shampoos, to cycling, favourite TV shows, international travel, best coffee shops and their/or my history, etc.

I do too. But then when you meet someone new you are cycling similar topics again, or at least I am.

I mean maybe I am wording it wrong, the conversation are not exactly the same, but it always goes back to same topics, like food, travel, hobbies etc...

And when I think about it, there's really only limited amount of shared and common interests and topics. So I am talking about food, travel, and TV shows, most likely the other guys were chatting about the same thing, so then the sp would most likely be having similar conversations all the time. I mean there's only so much you can talk about when you are trying to build that connection with someone new by probing their interests.

For me, it's a little different with regulars because we already had those conversations, so we already built some sort of connection. So then topics vary and are more spontaneous.

The thought never entered my mind and isn't a problem really. I am just curious really because, a couple days ago, I was listening to this girls life story. I mean the story was engaging and interesting and she had good expression when telling it. But then I thought to myself, she must have told this story countless times, and every time she was having the same exaggerated facial expression, while it's impressive, doesn't it get tired retelling the same story, especially having to keep up the same expression every time in order to make the story engaging? She must be sick of the story by now...

And then the thought hits me and makes me wonder how many times I brought up the same topics or questions like asking about their day, hobbies, etc.. when talking to someone new... And then I also realized I am also answering the same questions for numerous times, like what do I do, or what's my plan for later etc..

I mean now that I think about it, I guess it is the same thing as comedian retelling the same joke as well.. They must get sick of it eventually? But because the materials so good, they can't stop using it..

 

[blakealridge]

I guess it’s different for me because 95% of my bookings are regulars. We update each other on our lives, talk about current events, etc...

I like to ask people about their lives. Everyone has a different story and different life experience and I find that fascinating.

One of my favourite things about this job is how much variety there is! The feeling you’re talking about is something I’ve had in other jobs (especially serving) but never this one; even when I was seeing multiple new clients every day.

 

[kc124]

I guess it’s different for me because 95% of my bookings are regulars. We update each other on our lives, talk about current events, etc...

I like to ask people about their lives. Everyone has a different story and different life experience and I find that fascinating.

One of my favourite things about this job is how much variety there is! The feeling you’re talking about is something I’ve had in other jobs (especially serving) but never this one; even when I was seeing multiple new clients every day.

Yea, I think it does get a amplified in other customer service oriented jobs when trying to make small talks. The appropriate topics are even more limited.

But for example when you talk about current events. There would be a much higher chance you talk about the current hot topics, like covid 19, blm, or even trump. And then you are basically having the same conversation about the same topics, just to different people with different views.

And sure, it's fun when you get the update about their lives, but when they visit other sp, they are updating them with their lives as well, so making the same conversation most likely. You see what I mean?

I mean, it's not a problem so people probably don't realize it. And the thought never even cross my mind until a few days ago.

And don't you have a joke or a story that you just tell over and over as well? Because I certainly have lol

 

[Miss Hunter]

I'm not big on small talk. I'm quite lame and terrible at it.

But thankfully because I chat about more real sort of subjects here or on twitter, or about interests like working out and keto, I attract like minded individuals who are easy to converse with. I'm perfectly happy to discuss the same subjects with multiple clients.

And I sometimes use gags, duct tape gags are my favourite, so while gaged the client has to deal with whatever I feel like talking about, if I'm even in the mood for talking at all.

 

[blakealridge]

Yea, I think it does get a amplified in other customer service oriented jobs when trying to make small talks. The appropriate topics are even more limited.

But for example when you talk about current events. There would be a much higher chance you talk about the current hot topics, like covid 19, blm, or even trump. And then you are basically having the same conversation about the same topics, just to different people with different views.

And sure, it's fun when you get the update about their lives, but when they visit other sp, they are updating them with their lives as well, so making the same conversation most likely. You see what I mean?

I mean, it's not a problem so people probably don't realize it. And the thought never even cross my mind until a few days ago.

And don't you have a joke or a story that you just tell over and over as well? Because I certainly have lol

I don’t think it’s possible to have the same conversation about political issues with people who have different views.

I don’t really have the same jokes, no, I always switch it up. I might have a few snap back sassy comments in my arsenal but when it comes to conversation it always varies.

maybe this is part of the reason I’m so well-reviewed and have so many regulars ? ??‍♀

 

[VanessainVictoria]

I mean when you meet a new SP for example. I just realized, I may have been making the same or similar conversation whenever I am meeting someone new. Now if I am doing it, I can imagine an SP might be retelling the same story or joke since they are meeting new people at a much higher frequency.

Doesn't it get tired making the same conversation or telling the same joke over and over?

I always wondered what it was like for musicians, playing the same songs over and over.

 

[Ray]

I always wondered what it was like for musicians, playing the same songs over and over.

You start to understand why Led Zeppelin absolutely hate 'Stairway To Heaven'.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

The conversation varies depending on which of my numerous personalities I am that day.
Double Naught Spy, Fry Cook, Brain Surgeon, Hollywood Producer, Steetcar Conductor, Millionaire Playboy.

 

[EuroSZabina]

Conversation should be light fun and positive. Try not to bring up sickness, religion and politics.

 

[sybian]

Conversation should be light fun and positive. Try not to bring up sickness, religion and politics.

......or in my case forest fires.
Whenever someone visits my homestead, without exception they will say how lucky I am that part of my ranch survived.
luck.....had nothing to do with it.

 

[taster]

The conversation varies depending on which of my numerous personalities I am that day.
Double Naught Spy, Fry Cook, Brain Surgeon, Hollywood Producer, Steetcar Conductor, Millionaire Playboy.

Pssst... Billionaire Playboy

 

[blakealridge]

Conversation should be light fun and positive. Try not to bring up sickness, religion and politics.

I'm the opposite! I often like talking about current issues and getting different peoples' perspectives.

 

[80watts]

I knew a guy at work who only had 3 stories. So when he started telling one of them again, I finished it for him. Rude, but eventually he got other stories.