How do you balance your sessions?

[cvalchi]

It’s been refreshing to be in this forum and see people being honest about their experiences and reasons to indulge in this hobby, so I wanted to throw this question out there. I am not very sexually active other than when I go see a SP. And when I do get laid with a civilian, they are never as hot as a SP can be, therefore when I see a SP, I tend to finish too quickly.

I have tried flipping it both ways: Aiming for MSOG when allowed by the girl, or aiming for taking it slowly and enjoying myself longer. Unfortunately, I’ve pretty much given up on MSOG, since it always takes me at least a couple of hours to perform again. And when I try to take it slow it’s good, but I get so carried away that I end up humping my way to an early finish.

A couple of weeks ago I saw Asha from WCA and this time I asked HER to be in charge. I asked her to help me not get my little friend too excited for the first half of our session. It turned out to be an amazing experience! Asha’s an awesome girl and she did exactly what I was hoping for.

So this made me wonder. I’m likely not the only one with this problem. What do you guys do to make the most out of your time with SPs?

 

[MixedDude]

69, cunnilingus, prolonged BJs, sensual making out between rounds, conversation if you have a rapport. It's not always about insertion and thrusting.

 

[Goldcoast2009]

In an hour session, I allocate 20 minutes for massage, 20 minutes for DATY, DATO, DFK and munching her beautiful titties, 20 minutes for penetration.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

First off up your vitamin uptake, eat well and get proper sleep. 80% of your fitness and health lies right there. And your fitness relates directly to you, you manly man, and how you perform as you and your lovely partner work yourselves into a froth.
Lecithin. Some controversy about it, but as a supplement it lowers bad cholesterol gives your cells more oomph to work with, improves nerve ending health and (I swear this is true - for me certainly) it ups your semen production so I have good healthy loads available while doing the wild thing.
For the sessions where I want MSOG which for me as a guy in his 60's is two times, I discuss that first thing, as in first text. Then when I arrive and we work out exactly how this is going to go down, the timing is generally set, so for the most part I have no schedule for my time.
That, maybe, is the most important part of the gig, no schedule, no pressure, I know I am getting laid, blown, big jim and the twins made happy, so the mental side is out the picture. Then its all pleasure baby.
Anyway, this all works for me.

 

[cruefan]

33.3% talking
33.3% foreplay
33.3% sex
?

 

[Number17]

33.3% talking
33.3% foreplay
33.3% sex
?

And you leave 0.1% for shower?

 

[Amerix]

If things get too exciting, another interval of DATY is rarely refused.

Nothing wrong with a little cuddling and even talking afterwards too depending on connection.

 

[PuntMeister]

When I get going on a good rythm and it just starts feeling better and better, it’s really hard to slow down when every cell in my body wants to speed up. Three methods I use to extend the moment without disengaging:
1) think of old people, nuns, and your compost bin momentarily, then carry on soldier.
2) clench your anus muscles really hard for a few seconds if you feel ‘bout to ‘splode. Repeat as necessary.
3) if all else fails, pull her finger. When she farts, you should be good to pound for 3-5 minutes no problem. ?