How do I know who is on the DNR list?
- Thread starter chilli
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Good point. If I go to a restaurant and get a overcooked steak, I'd send it back and give the restaurant a chance to rectify things before I write a bad Yelp/Google review. Jessica James also makes a good point, if you were robbed or abused or something then you should tell people regardless of DNR status.
It's this kind of attitude that seems a little bit off for a review board.
If it's a good review; post it - I'm a great guy and she's a great sp.
If it's a bad review; either my expectations are unrealistic or she had a bad day.
The fact is any business person needs to learn customer service skills; if a sp provider forgets or has become jaded, she needs to find a new career.
If she had an off day as you suggest it's her responsibility to rebook and not take the session. I am not a mind reader. I respect money, I work hard for it and I am not one
to just throw it away so you can "make your book" for the day.
And yes I feel that as I read reviews I should post reviews and "give back to the community" so that others won't waste their money like I did.
And that is a good enough reason for me.
lol some of you guys are seriously delusional...this is sex work, its an incredibly crazy unrestricted, unregulated, lucrative business, NOTHING compared to customer service industries. Most women who do this are desperate and are not thinking clearly. A lot of inquiries from the internet ads are bunk/WOT, this work is pretty much in the same category as drug dealing...not a legitimate business so don't expect that kind of handling you would get from your cell phone provider or restaurant.
Well, I guess you won't be one of the ones providing examples of the positive experience of sex work as we try to avoid the criminalization coming soon from a parliament near you.
X,s 2....POST IT ... dont listen to the likes of AA , as u would wanna be on her blacklist anyways....
this is a review board ,
Why don't you try emailing the lady first to see if she has any "customer service skills". If she does not agree to some sort of restitution or apology on her part, then go ahead and write the review.
If it comes down fast you will know she is DNR. But do not expect to write a nasty review then expect some sort of online apology from the lady, because it seems like that is what you want, or is it that you feel a need to publicly embarrass someone?
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chilli, based on previous posts you have zero credibility in my book. Perhaps you have a legitimate complaint, perhaps you are just trying to exaggerate or stir the pot as per usual. If I had to wager one way or another, it would be the latter.
Do you have a reason to believe that she may be on the DNR list? If she has not explicitly noted in her ads or on her profile that she has requested DNR status, then you could post the review. If it is later removed by the mods or admin, you'd probably have your answer.
VBC I think the word you were looking for was restitution. Retribution in this case would not be a good thing :nod:
I agree with contacting the SP but at this point if she hasn't come up with a "make up" date; it most likely won't happen now. Using the implied threat of a negative review would not go well for either person IMHO.
If Chili feels that strongly, he should post a review as long as it's fair and objective. Where I have had difficulty posting negative reviews is if it's clearly a YMMV scenario where there was no chemistry. That's a tough one because chemistry can be an elusive thing sometimes.
Thanks bbb.
I would not advise mentioning anything of perb if you were to text or email her for restitution before you decide to slag her in a review. Don't forget chili, those ladies who take reviews are in the MAJORITY, so you should not have a problem. If she is a paid advertiser here, if she was DNR it would have to be in her signature, that is what was asked of me by the Mods.
The feeling is very mutual - did your master give you permission to post?
In the absence of a DNR beacon blinking day and night, post away. (perbites coalition for information disclosure)
Having typed that, Punt may have a modicum of compassion for our poor beef and beans peppered member. One negative review can be bad karma. Pooning dicks like us need all the + karma we can harvest. So why sully that with starting a slag thread? I can see "Throwing it out to the Lounge and see what the peops advise". Well, the peops advise that it is your right and duty to post your experience chilli. But to neutralize the negative, just go find a post of the SP in question and tack on to it. That reduces the drama queen factor by six, and automatically balances out perspectives. "Be it better to resurrect an ancient thread and twist is thusly, than to share needles with the poor bastards that shoot anew on Perb" ... W. Shakespeare. But "given the choice between posting in the lounge and posting a review in the reviews section, I notice that gentlement post reviews in the review section" (Mae West). So "get the fuk on with it and post a review, or STFU" (Punt).
Having typed that, Punt may have a modicum of compassion for our poor beef and beans peppered member. One negative review can be bad karma. Pooning dicks like us need all the + karma we can harvest. So why sully that with starting a slag thread? I can see "Throwing it out to the Lounge and see what the peops advise". Well, the peops advise that it is your right and duty to post your experience chilli. But to neutralize the negative, just go find a post of the SP in question and tack on to it. That reduces the drama queen factor by six, and automatically balances out perspectives. "Be it better to resurrect an ancient thread and twist is thusly, than to share needles with the poor bastards that shoot anew on Perb" ... W. Shakespeare. But "given the choice between posting in the lounge and posting a review in the reviews section, I notice that gentlement post reviews in the review section" (Mae West). So "get the fuk on with it and post a review, or STFU" (Punt).
I agree with luv 2 lick pussy ( never thought in my life I'd write that sentence ). Anyways, I hope you write the review Chili, remember, it is most important to speak up when it is most dangerous to do so.
