How do I find a quality, affordable first time experience?

[DIsOnTheRun]

Hi there PERBians, I consider myself fortunate to have found this site before booking my first experience with a SP. I've spent a fair amount of time reading reviews of escorts and massage services and learning things I never had considered or understood about this line of work from clients and professionals alike and that has really done a lot to make me feel comfortable about exploring this further. I'm hoping I could get some input for you on how to find the right SP for my first time.

I'll share a bit about myself in order to help narrow down the search. I'm a 31 year old caucasian male but I'm partial to any ethnicity. I'd consider myself average looking, 6'4" with a slightly chubby build. I live in Vancouver but have no problems traveling anywhere in the GVRD. I decided to look for a SP because it's been about 5 years since I've been with a woman and I really miss the physical intimacy. I have limited income ($100 is a considerable amount of money to me) so value is very important but I would rather save up and find someone I feel safe and comfortable with. I'm pretty open minded when it comes to sex and enjoy giving as much as receiving and would be up to trying new things like prostate stimulation/strapon, BDSM and just about anything else as well as the standard fare. Full service isn't a requirement, since what I really miss is a woman's touch a relaxing massage would do just as well.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, I hope this turns out to be something I enjoy enough to do on a regular basis.

Cheers,

D

 

[cjac7214]

Sorry to put it this way but these women don't do charity work, and my experience is that you mostly (not always) get what you pay for. A cheap and quick appointment is going to be a cheap and quick experience.

Good advice above - figure out what you can spend, decide on the look you like and the experience you want. Then read the reviews. If you said experienced brunette, I would have one recommendation. If you said teeny, young blonde, I would have another.

Cheers

 

[DIsOnTheRun]

you mostly (not always) get what you pay for. A cheap and quick appointment is going to be a cheap and quick experience.

Yes I get this but I know from working in a service industry myself that sometimes the higher priced services or products are not always better value or quality than what you can find at a lower expense. I understand that going for bargain basement prices will likely give me a session that turns me off of escorts entirely so I'm trying to find someone who offers a good balance between affordability and skill. As I said I'd rather save up a little to get a worthwhile experience.


I'll try to narrow my tastes down but don't feel like you need to cater to them specifically if you know of a good SP who doesn't quite fit the mold. I guess my first visit would probably be short 30min for $ sounds fine I'd be up for more if I was getting something other than a massage with a h/e but I wouldn't want to spend much more than that until I had a few visits under my belt.

This isn't really about release for me, I can handle that on my own, it's really just about intimacy and a female's touch. Ahead of anything else I'm really just looking for someone with a warm, friendly disposition. I'd hate for my first experience to feel like a transaction or have a clinical type of atmosphere. Good English is pretty important, I doubt I could relax without a little conversation. I've always wound up dating tall, fair skinned brunettes who aren't super thin but still have a good figure so I guess I'm partial to that but I can find beauty in most women I talk to. Blonde women who aren't the model type always turn my head as well the occasional Asian and Middle Eastern woman if they look like they would be approachable in a coffee shop or something. Tattoos and piercings are sexy on a woman who wears them well but I like girls without them just as well.

edit: Let me know if there's anything else you'd like me to add. I'll try to give as much detail as you need.

 

[Gentle-man]

One thing I'd suggest is to not make your first few trips so short especially since you say it isn't about just a release, 30 min doesn't give a lot of time for connection... better to have a little more time a little less frequently because chances are you will be very nervous first couple times, having a little more time to get comfortable can help... also let them know that you are newer to the hobby, I think most take pleasure in disarming newcomer nerves.

my 2cents for what it's worth

GM

 

[PlayfulAlex]

I have limited income ($100 is a considerable amount of money to me) so value is very important but I would rather save up and find someone I feel safe and comfortable with.

You might consider looking for reviews here that are specific to first-timers and their recent experiences, such as:

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?158001-PlayfulAlex-3044-Hell-Yeah!&highlight=Alex+3044

 

[DIsOnTheRun]

Thanks GM and Alex both posts were quite helpful. I've entered "first time" into the search field and have a lot of posts to read and you're right 30 min probably won't be long enough for what I'm looking for. Do you think an hour is an appropriate amount of time or should I look into a longer booking?

 

[Gentle-man]

Thanks GM and Alex both posts were quite helpful. I've entered "first time" into the search field and have a lot of posts to read and you're right 30 min probably won't be long enough for what I'm looking for. Do you think an hour is an appropriate amount of time or should I look into a longer booking?

I've tried both 60 and 90...
60 is fun...
90 is a better chance to connect
90 is twice the connection for 50% more time for usually a little less than 50% more$

many guys prefer to keep first meetings short in case they don't hit it off... I disagree
do your research to make a wise selection and treat her with respect and it will go well.

-GM

 

[mkpGSL]

I def. agree with GM best to do your research especially if you are new to the hobby. I recommend picking an Independent SP to get started so you dont have to deal with a middle man. If you are looking for a Sp with good english, looks and service $100/30 isnt going to get you very far. In my experience a little extra goes a long ways. For a first time 140/45 or 160/45 should be a good amount of time as well as open up your range of selection by alot.

 

[cloud_9]

I've tried both 60 and 90...
60 is fun...
90 is a better chance to connect
90 is twice the connection for 50% more time for usually a little less than 50% more$

many guys prefer to keep first meetings short in case they don't hit it off... I disagree
do your research to make a wise selection and treat her with respect and it will go well.

-GM

I like to start at a HH but in the OP's case he might want to go a longer route as he wants a connection. Me I can make my connections pretty quickly, actually my ATF started with a HH, now we've hung out for days sometimes weeks. So it can start out with a short visit then work your way up to the longer ones

 

[Holly Taylor]

Hi there PERBians, I consider myself fortunate to have found this site before booking my first experience with a SP. I've spent a fair amount of time reading reviews of escorts and massage services and learning things I never had considered or understood about this line of work from clients and professionals alike and that has really done a lot to make me feel comfortable about exploring this further. I'm hoping I could get some input for you on how to find the right SP for my first time.

I'll share a bit about myself in order to help narrow down the search. I'm a 31 year old caucasian male but I'm partial to any ethnicity. I'd consider myself average looking, 6'4" with a slightly chubby build. I live in Vancouver but have no problems traveling anywhere in the GVRD. I decided to look for a SP because it's been about 5 years since I've been with a woman and I really miss the physical intimacy. I have limited income ($100 is a considerable amount of money to me) so value is very important but I would rather save up and find someone I feel safe and comfortable with. I'm pretty open minded when it comes to sex and enjoy giving as much as receiving and would be up to trying new things like prostate stimulation/strapon, BDSM and just about anything else as well as the standard fare. Full service isn't a requirement, since what I really miss is a woman's touch a relaxing massage would do just as well.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, I hope this turns out to be something I enjoy enough to do on a regular basis.

Cheers,

D

It sounds like you're interested in seeing someone who is sweet, friendly, and will make you feel comfortable while providing you with an intimate physical experience.

I think you should consider Eva Evangeline. I've had the privilege of meeting her, and she has a way about her that makes people feel comfortable and relaxed. She has a gorgeous smile and is super friendly. I know that the recommendation from me isn't the same as the recommendations from the gentlemen, but you can look up her reviews here for their opinions.

The reason I suggest her in particular is because I think her personality/appearance would appeal to you, and because she has varied rate packages that I think would fit your budget (for example, check out her 1 hour Erotic Massage for 160).

Whatever choice you make, I hope you have a very fulfilling and positive experience!

 

[DIsOnTheRun]

I know that the recommendation from me isn't the same as the recommendations from the gentlemen, but you can look up her reviews here for their opinions.

I found your recommendation to be very helpful and since no one else here has supplied me with one I think I'll go with it. Her reviews are great and reading "girl next door type" on her website really sold me.

From reading reviews on this site I was leaning towards a booking with HarmonyBC but now I'll have to try them both with a coinflip to decide who is first.