Dgodus you are lucky. For me if it is just the act I can go most of the night but I do not enjoy it that much. But when the SP finds the sweet spot OMG I can not control it. Not sure why. I guess like they say it is all in our heads. When I was younger I could do 3 or 4 SPs in a night. Now I am older I get more satisfaction hang out and having the GFE. Signs of getting old I guess.Oh I'm not trying to hold back at all. It's just the way it is. I've had a few long term relationships where condoms weren't used, and now I work out of camps that leave me in the middle of nowhere for days and days on end. Lots of internet porn and a strong electricians grip have left me a little less sensitive than I used to be. What I'm referring to is actually bringing on an orgasm (I cant stop them, nor would I want to lol!). If I'm enjoying my time with the woman I'm all for a break in the action (besides all good sports have intermissions!). And actually when it is time to bring about the orgasm I do tend to slow down - less muscle strain makes it easier to focus on the sensations that matter.
So no I cant stop myself, but I can make myself finish (bet that's a talent women wish they had)
How big is too big?
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I find that because guys either lie about their size or have no idea how to measure, it is pointless for me to tell a lady my size if she asks during pre-booking to make sure it won't be an issue. Everybody is 8 inches. Women overestimate a man's size partly to inflate his ego I suppose but largely because they have a visual of what certain sizes are based on claims from clients or boyfriends that are completely inaccurate.
And of course many say they have never had a problem before and then when you get there, copious amounts of lube is used, certain positions are off limits or deep penetration is not allowed. I understand it should not be uncomfortable for a woman but I would have preferred to know in advance or at least very early in the session.
And of course many say they have never had a problem before and then when you get there, copious amounts of lube is used, certain positions are off limits or deep penetration is not allowed. I understand it should not be uncomfortable for a woman but I would have preferred to know in advance or at least very early in the session.
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You see that is the misconception. Guys think that a big dick is what ladies want but most ladies are turned off by big dicks. Just the private messages I got from ladies not interested in seeing me because of this issue.
I too thought that when they said it was because they were stroking my ego. But I have I have learned more about it. I sent out an e-mail to some of my SPs in Europe and my Hungarian provider has now explained she can only take me once at night. That is the reason she only brings one condom is because she is so raw after she can not do it in the morning. I should have really put one and one together.
One of the ladies say it best it is not the size but how you use it. However size does not mean you are good at sex as I am learning now. So i think that few ladies want to ride the big one.
this experience has really changed my prespective on what I thought about a number of things.
I too thought that when they said it was because they were stroking my ego. But I have I have learned more about it. I sent out an e-mail to some of my SPs in Europe and my Hungarian provider has now explained she can only take me once at night. That is the reason she only brings one condom is because she is so raw after she can not do it in the morning. I should have really put one and one together.
One of the ladies say it best it is not the size but how you use it. However size does not mean you are good at sex as I am learning now. So i think that few ladies want to ride the big one.
this experience has really changed my prespective on what I thought about a number of things.
I learned that some ladies prefer small ones, particularly if they cum quickly. These are the ladies who want to do minimal work and want clients that are easy to please. Many don't want big ones because they don't want to be stretched out if the person they are having sex with is not someone they care about, so it's not worth it for them. Many don't want to feel torn up or bruised, etc., so a big one or one that lasts too long or too rigid, etc., is damaging. In real life I believe most women prefer something average size to above average size, and only some are "size queens". I've been told over and over again it's how they use it that is most important - stuff like rhythm, lasting a decent (but not too long) amount of time, being able to get hard again quickly, etc. Shape of the cock seems to be important too. Some prefer a bigger head, many prefer a curve, or an above average thickness. What seems to be never liked is too thin (pencil dicks) or a big gut no matter what the cock is like.
I truly appreciate the discussion. Very valuable indeed. What surprises me is that no one has tried to put a number on what is big?
It is over 8 inches over 10 inches or over 12 inches?
Where does "BIG" begin.
All points raised are valid about length and girth, foreplay, snug/tight pussy, baby canal etc
I know it is said that an average cock is 5 or 6 inches does that mean over 6 is big .Because most women can handle 7 inches.
Like maybe most guys I know I don't play team sports and after high school showers have not seen other guys ,plus even at that time it is not in the "true" state .
Just for us guys if the ladies could say what length or even girth THEY THINK big begins
that way us guys will kinda know when a SP is putting us on saying oooh you are big.
It is over 8 inches over 10 inches or over 12 inches?
Where does "BIG" begin.
All points raised are valid about length and girth, foreplay, snug/tight pussy, baby canal etc
I know it is said that an average cock is 5 or 6 inches does that mean over 6 is big .Because most women can handle 7 inches.
Like maybe most guys I know I don't play team sports and after high school showers have not seen other guys ,plus even at that time it is not in the "true" state .
Just for us guys if the ladies could say what length or even girth THEY THINK big begins
that way us guys will kinda know when a SP is putting us on saying oooh you are big.
Well I'd be interested in that too, and I myself have asked. However most women I've talked to are not conscious of measurement of cocks in terms of inches for some reason as though such measurements don't seem to apply - even though they know other measurements such as their own chest circumference, inner leg length, waist, etc.
I saw a show once where you would know if they thought you were big.... you take it off for the first time, and they look at it (usually out of the side of their eyes) and the mouth opens slightly and the breath is held temporarily and no sound is made. That's when they think you're a good big size for them and they are probably interested. If they hold their breath and exhale audibly and forcibly, that's when they think its not just big, it's huge. If their shoulders droop (or raise and tighten), its going to be a burden for them. If they brighten up and shoulders rise exhuberently, then they're excited to try you out.
Now the following was not the show I was talking about (I'll try to find it but I'm having difficulty locating it), but this is pretty funny and is pretty typical in a sense:
Has any woman ever told you bigger guys how difficult it is to eat after giving a BJ to someone who is well endowed?
Your mouth and lips get numb from being stretched so far for so long.
When you try to control your facial muscles to take a bite or chew whatever you're eating for lunch afterwards, it feels similar to what you experience when the freezing's just coming out after a visit to the dentist.
I'd like to repeat your request for some specific measurements. And if it's really common among SPs that they have size limits why not advertize them on their websites?
Well, that's not really a lot of help. Are their any objective limits on either length or diameter?
