How are you affording this?

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freakydeaky1

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So out of touch with reality.
whatever makes you feel better about yourself bud.
Perhaps so, just sharing my personal experience and observations, not expecting everyone to agree, and generalizing on purpose.

Appreciate your input tho, very helpful šŸ¤— I’ll fact check the legitimacy of my thoughts and opinion first chance I get.
 

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Personally, I have a 10 year old car that drives great, stills looks good and change the oil on time and check all fluids. Credit card paid off. I don't eat out all the time, but will buy a nice steak now and then. The office building I go to has a gym that I can use for free.

I do see AMPs every 2-4 weeks. I am happy.
 

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What I forgot to add in my previous post above was that I am now debt free. I stayed disciplined towards my spending --- Wants vs Needs --- which this was taught in my business course way back. I guess that stayed edged in my mind ever since then. But, when your single in this city. One has to always be cautious because you never know what might appear around the corner. I have nieces where I splurge which is fine, obviously.

One thing I do sometimes regret over the years here is finding --- or having -- a regular lady to see on occasion since being single. IE... a massage and whatever else included or discussed at the time :cool:;)
 
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I had a university professor in university who demanded we all subscribed to the financial post lol. Read many great things and many investments came from that. If you are current in the news, it’s not really over night success if you knew about it weeks or months in advance.
 
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I don’t want to derail this thread even more but be for real. Are you comparing climate to sex?

It makes total sense for people to move to a different place for a softer weather. Moving to a different country solely for sex is very sad in my opinion.
There are a lot of refugees who come to Canada and ask for asylum because they are member of LGBT community and say they are opressed because of their sexuality . Why are they moving to a different country solely for gay sex ?
 

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Since I stopped drinking, I was able to have more disposable income to see my favorite ladies. Then again, I cut out the alcohol more for my health if anything.
 

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How does one freeze their credit in Canada? In the US I had to do it on Experion + TransUnion + Equifax, but being newish here I’ve not had the chance to do it, and actually have no idea how Canada does credit scoring etc. I guess I can do my own research but thought someone might save me the time….if so inclined ….
TransUnion and Equifax are in Canada also.
 
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freakydeaky1

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Um
Baby Boomers are fond of reminiscing about the good old days and how they had it tougher than the current generation. However, the reality is that their time was marked by many advantages that are no longer available today. For instance:

  • You could get a well-paying job without a high school diploma
  • Regular raises were common
  • Housing was more affordable, often achievable with only one income
  • Life was less hectic and stressful
  • Workloads were less intense, and overtime was paid with extra benefits
  • The cost of important things, like education, was significantly lower
Additionally, credit scores didn't exist, and elected officials didn't prioritize corporate interests over workers' rights. Politicians werent selling our natural resources rights to foreign countries. People from foreign dictatorships werent as easily able to launder their money here and buy up all the resources, land and houses. . Women weren't yet fully integrated into the workforce, which meant there was less competition for jobs and wages. This led to a smaller workforce with higher wages, but once women entered the workforce en masse, wages stagnated and w rates rose.

It's worth noting that Baby Boomers have had to deal with higher unemployment rates themselves, which makes their criticism of younger generations' work ethic seem hypocritical. But why do they refuse to acknowledge these advantages? Perhaps it's because doing so would also require them to admit that they collectively mismanaged the country's economy, leaving a debt burden for future generations. Instead of facing their own responsibility, they'd rather shift the blame to younger generations.

Were there problems when boomers were young? Sure. But boomers made it infinitely worse for everyone after them.
I could go on and on. but you probably will ignore this, and rather pretend you are some financial genius because you know how to invest in the S&P 500.

(btw despite my username, I do not have a trustfund)
Why you mad at me bro? I was merely trying to share how I was able to afford this hobby and my financial decisions that made it possible now, sorry to have triggered you.

To me this feels like quite a leap from the point of my post, but my intention wasn’t to blame anyone for their situation or let anyone off the hook, just sharing my experience and observations.

Also, I’m not a boomer, my parents are, i am gen X, but sure, I suppose every subsequent generation could point fingers at the previous generations for their difficulties.

I wish you luck getting through these tough times and I definitely feel for the younger generation - shits bananas out there.
 

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I am very wealthy unlike my neighbour Nursultan Tuliagby. He is pain in my assholes. I get a window from a glass, he must get a window from a glass. I get a step, he must get a step. I get a clock radio, he cannot afford. Great success!
 

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I dont even understand how you could interpret my comment as me being "mad" or "triggered" šŸ˜‚ its the internet bro chill, I was offering another opinion lol.
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My bad, I totally misread your response, apologies. It was this part that felt personally directed at me and that seemed to presume I’m dismissive to other people’s opinions or viewpoints.

I could go on and on. but you probably will ignore this, and rather pretend you are some financial genius because you know how to invest in the S&P 500
 
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To get back to OPs question. I take the same approach for putting money away for this that I do for retirement. Take a little bit of every paycheque and put it aside. When I have enough put away, I decide who tickles my fancy the most and book a session.

If I ever come into a chunk of money (lotto or inheritance lol) though, I’ll probably go nuts and book a few days to a week with my atf (who has moved beyond my current budget), and also see all the ladies on my ā€œwant to doā€ list and then hang up my spurs and quit this so-called ā€œhobbyā€.
 
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I have a very comfortable life, but this is my only real extravagance.

For me it’s always been about living within my means, saving what I can, and knowing the difference between needs and wants. I’ve just always been this way and now I’m reaping the benefits.

I live a very modest lifestyle, no expensive tastes in food or luxury goods, dine out / order food rarely, don’t use any recreational drugs and quit drinking years ago. I enjoy times with friends and have other interests but none are expensive. It always shocks me when I hear what some guys spend money on.

A friend who always complains about the cost of living bought a new high end Polaris sled this winter, even though he’s already got a perfectly good machine. When he told me how much it cost my immediate reaction was to calculate how many girls I could be seeing for that amount of cash. I guarantee I’d get more pleasure, but I can’t show it off to my friends and neighbours.

We all have to decide on our priorities.
"When he told me how much it cost my immediate reaction was to calculate how many girls I could be seeing for that amount of cash."šŸ˜† Love it~

Thanks for sharing lots of different thoughts. I do enjoy & learn something by reading this OP:)
 
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I'm sure for some Perbites, posting multiple "reviews" daily IS their side hustle. One of them recently got banned permanently for trading reviews for discounts and perks. Now someone has increased his already prolific output as if to "compensate"'for the other's absence.šŸ™„
Ain't that the truth! I wouldn't be surprised if they're working in clusters.
yeah I figured … I don’t trust a doggone thing I see on the internet so that wouldn’t be for me, but how could someone trust a bloke on here who they don’t know at all either. Just make sure the link you click doesn’t say ā€œsponseredā€ which means you have to go about half way down the page.
I'm with you 100%. TikTok and other social media platforms are full of misinformation. Movements like the flat Earth theory have gained traction thanks to YouTube and TikTok. Anyone suggesting using these platforms to become financially savvy (aside from becoming an influencer/creator) raises a red flag with me.
I wouldn't advise this tbh. There's plenty of information online ( Google and you-tube) . Watch financial market channels, research online for your needs or simply go see a financial advisor at your bank, or brokerage firm. If one is serious.... the answers are available everywhere. I took courses and then went through a few financial advisors until I found one that I related with. I still do plenty on my own.
Good lord. There's plenty of misinformation and disinformation. Let's not forget the exaggerated facial expressions, and other hyperbole.

Your stance on not sharing financial advice online in forums like this and directing people to social media is seriously flawed. Credible advice on social media is rare especially with hidden agendas and confirmation bias. In your previous post you say you have no bad habits? Claiming to have "zero bad habits" is unrealistic. Everyone has flaws and bad habits, and denying this suggests a lack of self-awareness and a grossly inflated ego. Perfectionism itself can be a flaw, and such claims make one seem less relatable and trustworthy.
But it was and is in BC high schools. I can vouch for the time from late 80's onwards, and my nephews for the current year. It was mandatory to take a personal finance class that explained what RRSP's, savings accounts, tax forms, credit cards, interest rates, mortgages, wills, legal liability, etc,. There was even a class after it for people who wanted to start their own business. Beyond the legal and financial stuff, there were courses in home economics that taught household budgeting, price comparisons, nutritional management. Even how to sew a button. If people paid attention in class, or skipped them altogether is another question.
I can vouch that wasn't the case. It was offered as an "elective", but it wasn't mandatory, at least not in the 80s.
 
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The key to "affording this" is to know your limitations and stay within them. The problem with this and so many other luxury hobbies is that there is virtually no ceiling or limit to how much you can spend. All of us have different realities and financial circumstances to contend with and the trick to staying at this long term in a healthy and sustainable way is to get a realistic sense, say, of how many sessions you can afford, or how much you can spend on each session (daily/weekly/monthly etc.) and stay within that.

my immediate reaction was to calculate how many girls I could be seeing for that amount of cash. I guarantee I’d get more pleasure, but I can’t show it off to my friends and neighbours.

We all have to decide on our priorities.
Love this, and can relate. Honestly at this point in my life there is nothing else I could be spending my discretionary cash on that would give me anywhere near the same level of joy and satisfaction as I derive from meeting and spending time with beautiful women.
 

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Ain't that the truth! I wouldn't be surprised if they're working in clusters.

I'm with you 100%. TikTok and other social media platforms are full of misinformation. Movements like the flat Earth theory have gained traction thanks to YouTube and TikTok. Anyone suggesting using these platforms to become financially savvy (aside from becoming an influencer/creator) raises a red flag with me.

Good lord. There's plenty of misinformation and disinformation. Let's not forget the exaggerated facial expressions, and other hyperbole.

Your stance on not sharing financial advice online in forums like this and directing people to social media is seriously flawed. Credible advice on social media is rare especially with hidden agendas and confirmation bias. In your previous post you say you have no bad habits? Claiming to have "zero bad habits" is unrealistic. Everyone has flaws and bad habits, and denying this suggests a lack of self-awareness and a grossly inflated ego. Perfectionism itself can be a flaw, and such claims make one seem less relatable and trustworthy.

I can vouch that wasn't the case. It was offered as an "elective", but it wasn't mandatory, at least not in the 80s.
conspiracy theorist šŸ˜‚
 

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i'm fortunate enough to be able to comfortably afford my bookings. I don't consider my time with an escort a hobby. I've had too many hobbies that become obsessions and expensive lol. This isn't one of them. Like another poster mentioned-i don't view this any differently than making an app't for a therapist, dental cleaning, actual massage etc. It may have been different 20 years ago with less income and a higher libido.
 
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