Honest question as a guy totally new to this.

[NewDiver]

I will try to make this short.

**Short***
Do I give a bad review to this sp (I have seen nothing but good reviews) she offered "compensation " even though she wasted 2.5 hrs of my time.

Does that get me blacklisted??
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**Long***

So I decided to take the plung. I wanted to start off simple so I booked myself a massage. Well I ended up trying a few times but ended up doing some of the "introductions" wrong so I apologized and moved onto the next one.

Finally got a bite, booked, and the experience was enjoyable. She said she enjoyed our time together and she would be doing FS next week if I was interested (our massage got a little more frisky them normal.. Or she is great up sell).

This all happened on Thursday. So I text her on Sunday to ask questions inregards to services. Again really helpful. So after a few text through out the week we set up an appointment for 11am on friday. She calls me and both vocalize that the appointment was Friday at 11am.

See, I live out in the boonies so it takes a good hour to get downtown. I drive down , get parking and wait outside before I sent a text 15mins before the appointment.

Only to find out that she has double booked a double (thought these took prebooking) while I was waiting outside. Tells me I should wait 45mins for a hh opening... I booked an hour and wanted an hour. Told her I am not going to sit and twiddle my thumbs and push back actual meetings for that day.

So in 5 mins I went from multiple bookings with her to nadda.

So here I sit reading the forums trying to figure this hobby out.

Thanks for reading.

Any tips or SP suggestions would be helpful

 

[Sonny]

It's not really a review since you did not see her, but it serves as a warning for others about this lady's booking habits.
Other posters with similar experiences with SPs have written who they are.

 

[yazoo]

This hobby is full of characters... on both sides.

Some are reliable and honest, and others are a little flaky.

You have to approach things with a sense of fun - you get to meet so many new people who you'd normally never meet. You are going to meet some losers and also some gems. It's all part of the package.

As far as reviews, I'd hold off doing either a strongly negative or positive review until you've got some cred. Otherwise people will just call you names. Although you seem like an articulate writer. If you are willing to defend your review go ahead.

But when writing a negative review remember this is just your hobby, but it is your subjects livelihood. Your review will cost her money. If she is a poor provider then you are helping out other bro's - which is a good thing. If she just made a mistake - and you say she's well reviewed here, then best leave it be.

 

[Pantherdash]

Two words: plan B.

Panther

 

[Dnice]

From what I understand reading your short version, the provider did offer some compensation for the error. You didn't elaborate on it in your long version. I understand your fustration when providers overbook or cancel last minute, I've been there, happens to the best of us. Good providers will try to make it up to you in my opinion, which this one has offered from the sounds of it. You can probably write a 411 on the provider for wasting your time, but ensure that you also mention what compensation was offered to be fair to the provider as she tried to resolve the issue. Then let the readers decide going forward. Maybe this is a common occurrence and others who experienced similar double bookings will chime in.

 

[coinscoupes]

IMHO. Reviews both positive and negative are just and appreciated en-mass. The trick is to be honest and forthwith while being respectful. I base all my business on the experiences of others. I am never a TOFTT hobbyist for obvious reason. Keep it clean, keep it respectful.

 

[Cami Parker]

Always be 100% honest! That's what reviews are for. Doesn't matter if everyone else only wrote good things about her. A lot of girls will offer discounts or additional time/services for positive reviews. You should definitely post your truthful experience, 100%

 

[cherise]

. Good providers will try to make it up to you in my opinion, .

a truly good provider would not double book!

 

[badbadboy]

Two words: plan B.

Panther

Always be 100% honest! That's what reviews are for. Doesn't matter if everyone else only wrote good things about her. A lot of girls will offer discounts or additional time/services for positive reviews. You should definitely post your truthful experience, 100%

Both of these are the right answer.

I found myself in a similar situation recently where I was quite busy, rearranged my day to accommodate the SP's schedule and in the end was stood up by her. No reply, no apology nadda. Total waste of my personal time and it cut into a big chunk of my biz time to make things happen for her own needs.

Panther is right as usual. Always have a back up plan if your time is limited to a certain day and a certain time.

 

[cherise]

i think you meant panther

 

[badbadboy]

i think you meant panther

Thanks babe