A friend with benefits pointed out how often I hold my cock before going to sleep. ( She found out while trying to hold it, herself.) Now I've started to notice it too. Usually it's cock holding 101- "place fist around cock. Hold tightly." But sometimes it's a variation like thumb and forefinger around head or thumb and little finger around base of head. I'm not sure what psychological trauma in my past requires me to hold tightly to my Johnson, but is there anyone else who holds on just to make sure it's still there in the morning?
Holding My Own
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fuck, this topic is a tad Ghey....... but yes, I do it too. If I'm sleepin with a lady I tend to like to sleep spoon style, holding her breasts in my hands. It's comforting to me......gravitas said:And here I thought it was just me
Dunno why but some nights when going to sleep I find myself sort of cupping my ball sack.....not wanking as so much as just making sure its there
heh, I do that when I wake up in the morningCock Throppled said:
Well, maybe you are trying to suggest something to your friend with benefits ...
*shrug* I use to have the same "problem" as you (if you can call that a problem).chhaapp said:
But after a couple of sessions with different sp's, I know I can handle the friend with benefit package. The point is you don't have love them to fuck the holy crap out of them ... I like all of the sp's I spent time with, they are all very friendly and nice women but I honestly can say I won't fall in love with them.
here's what you need to do.....have a few relationships (at least three) where you go through the stages of meet, "honeymoon", regular couple, starting to fight, she's an evil shrew and then you'll be sufficiently equiped to fuck without emotionchhaapp said:
First - my prediliction is apart and separate from wanking. Like someone said - just a comfort thing, I guess.
The "friends with benefits" is easy for me. She is an old friend who was once a lover. We broke up a long time ago but stayed friends. When we find ourselves at loose ends and feel the need it's like visiting only better.
The "friends with benefits" is easy for me. She is an old friend who was once a lover. We broke up a long time ago but stayed friends. When we find ourselves at loose ends and feel the need it's like visiting only better.
I roll over to one side of the bed, close to the edge, my back to her. Soon, she snuggles up to my furry back, and reaches around grabbing my cock and holding it there, until I tire and push her back to her side. Two bodies touching generate way too much heat for my own comfort, but that's why she does it. I'm warm blooded, she the opposite. Every relationship I've been in had a similar routine. Dunno why...
a little odd
falling asleep, dick in hand....dudes, that is weird. Falling asleep tits in hand is good. Or my personal fav - after you've fucked her for the 2nd or 3rd time, don't take it out and fall asleep with it in her.......then when you wake up in a couple of hours all hard....it's where it should be! Spoon style is awesome for this.
As for FWB - buddy, if you can't hump them without emotion, get a dog, love the dog and hump your friend - everyone will be happy!!
falling asleep, dick in hand....dudes, that is weird. Falling asleep tits in hand is good. Or my personal fav - after you've fucked her for the 2nd or 3rd time, don't take it out and fall asleep with it in her.......then when you wake up in a couple of hours all hard....it's where it should be! Spoon style is awesome for this.
As for FWB - buddy, if you can't hump them without emotion, get a dog, love the dog and hump your friend - everyone will be happy!!
as long as you're not holding someone else's Johnson there's not a lot to be concerned about ...Cock Throppled said:
