Hiding "your hobby" from Mrs...

[Chantal]

Well I'm divorced and was wondering.If your wife was doing 4 or 5 guys a day while you were at work,would it be cool? I'm not saying it is wrong to poon if you're married,just not sure how guys handle it.
I'm sure some sp's have guys too that they go home to after doing other guys all day.How do they keep things cool at home.
What if you were out with your wife and your favorite sp showed up,and knew your wife???

Well proffessionalism is the "key" I personally have found out the hard way the only way to do this part-time "Hobby" is to stay single secret or no secret.The significant other always have something over your head even when you treat them like"GOLD".To have a man that would totally understand and be able to separate it is almost nil.If a man accepted it,then I would question it?Everyone wants someone to be with till the end of time but doing this "HOBBY" and have another job then a person is self-sufficient..4-5 guys a day is a bit much although the glory of this hobby is learning something new from each person.

 

[bighamsam]

Frankly

Frankly, what I don't understand is you single guys ... hell, there are clubs full of single attractive oversexed gals looking to hook up with someone. What are you doing with sp's??

Tom[/QUOTE]


Frankly, what I don't understand is why Married guys even bother to get hitched if you want to get your rocks off elsewhere.
And if the wife don’t put out then maybe you need to work on being a better lover.
There are books on that you know.

 

[Avery]

Frankly, what I don't understand is why Married guys even bother to get hitched if you want to get your rocks off elsewhere.
And if the wife don’t put out then maybe you need to work on being a better lover.
There are books on that you know.

Every one of us said that exact same thing to older married guys when we were young and single.

They told us, "You'll see!".

They were right.

 

[Chantal]

Bighamsam~Well some people do not have time to go the bar and wine,dine,etc..I can have many men come to me in a period of a evening if they do not rattle my cage "See Ya" so not everyone is going to turn your crank.As far as a "Book" rent a porno it's much easier.....

 

[Hollywood_Dream]

If I'm just out to get laid,why spend money on dinner and drinks for some chick and MAYBE you might get laid.Also I don't want a chick calling me or asking to get together or :Why don;t you call?:.
Theres a reason I'm single,gave away half my shit once already.
SP's are great ,no bullshit,just great sex.Little bit of chat,little touching ,little kissing,and SEX.Isn't that what single guys want when they go to the bar?
Theres just no hassles after.
Can anyone tell me which SP is the best kisser?

 

[logsplitter]

Can anyone tell me which SP is the best kisser?

Willow and Zoe!
Zoe and Willow!

 

[tom25]

Well I'm divorced and was wondering.If your wife was doing 4 or 5 guys a day while you were at work,would it be cool? I'm not saying it is wrong to poon if you're married,just not sure how guys handle it.
I'm sure some sp's have guys too that they go home to after doing other guys all day.How do they keep things cool at home.
What if you were out with your wife and your favorite sp showed up,and knew your wife???

I'm not sure the analogy is the right one. I'm not out doing 4 or 5 girls every day. I maybe poon once a week. If my wife was getting a bit on the side I'd probably be relieved. Maybe we could be more open and get on with things and structure our relationship in way that afforded each of us with what we were looking for.

Frankly, what I don't understand is why Married guys even bother to get hitched if you want to get your rocks off elsewhere.
And if the wife don’t put out then maybe you need to work on being a better lover.
There are books on that you know.

I'm not sure anyone gets hitched thinking ... "right ... bagged this one now I can go fuck everyone in sight." I was 100% faithful to my partner for 14 years. And if someone had ever asked me if I would be pooning back then I would have said "of course not". Shit happens. and relationships develop in ways that you couldn't possibly have anticipated.

work on being a better lover ... o.k. I'll take that under advisement. Maybe I'll see if my fav is available tonight for a little practise session..

Newsflash stud ... its not necessarily about skill, its about desire. And sometimes in long term relationships, esp. with the pressures of parenthood, careers, etc., etc., one party loses that desire. And you can work at trying to restore it as much as you want, but sometimes its just not possible.

Tom

 

[tom25]

Geez Tom- next time wait a few days before "borrowing" my verbiage- sheesh!

Sorry about that ... should have put "another" in front of it. It just seemed so fitting.

Truth be told I'm trying to make ourselves relatively indistinguishable so I can nip in and steal your "tie me up" session with M and K.

Tom

 

[Arizona40]

Considering they haven't responded here to either of us I don't think they're interested in tieing me up.

Thats because Mandy is here sitting on my desk. Hmmm.... nice tan!

 

[Arizona40]

her..... what? Her thighs? Her silky smooth dark tanned well proportioned thighs? hmmm...... I'm lovin it!