Hey Perbs and perbettes HHHHeeelllllpppp

[unlucky]

Hey


I have been debating this for almost a month now and it has really been hellish i went to a MP late august and haven't been back cause of it....

I went in and this young lady brown hair nice body forst time for me being 26 meeting someone around my age doing this wearing a camoflauge outfit greeted me and showed me to the room and well i asked for F/S and she left and came back started out with a nice massage and all we started chatting we both found out we liked the same things ya know sports, dancing, clubing all that and then we did it and afterward still kept chatting like we knew each other from long back. Now this is wierd everytime i decided to go i get into the parking lot and walk to the door and all of sudden i just feel like i did when i first went to the MP and run like hell the other way plus i can't get her out of my head . I don't know weather to ask her out or just stay away.. so i need help in this situation people.. pm me or whatever..

 

[wolverine]

Just go see her for more sessions. She would need to know you better and vice versa, and you must allow more trust to build between yourselves. After a few visits and you still really like each other, ask for her email or phone number. The worst she can say is 'No' - and expect that to be the most likely scenario.

 

[unlucky]

Well i know that not being rude but like i said i get to the door to the place and then run like hell the other way .. i wouldn't know what to say or act feeling the way i do

 

[Pan]

Suck It Up Junior...

You have two very obvious choices.

1. Take Wolverine's sage advice, and get to know her better. You have an in, for Pete's sake... The small talk is done.

2. Don't go through that door, and get on with your life.

Pick one.


I had a friend who was forever falling in love with waitresses, bartenders, dancers and hostesses. No matter how many times we pointed out that they were all paid to be nice to him, he rattled around that rut for years.
I have another friend whose lovely wife is a former dancer, who picked him up in a strip club.
Take a chance, but be prepared to be disappointed. The most professional ladies in this business are the ones who make us all feel special. We call them GFE's for a reason...;o)


Glen Sather once said, "One hundred percent of the shots you DON'T take won't go in."
Grammaticallly incorrect, but good words, none the less.

 

[trawler]

unlucky, both Wolfie and Pan ...

have provided you with good advice. Get on with your life - you live only once - take a chance or move along. Nuff said.

 

[tiger]

Here's an approach. Schedule a session somewhat close to closing time - say a 10:00 p.m. start. Enjoy yourself, carry on with the good conversation, be nice and complement her, and then near the end ask her if she would like to have a drink with you when she gets off. The absolute worst thing that can happen is that she says no, but you have to ask. If she says no, you are in the same spot you are now, no harm done. If she says yes, be polite, have a nice time, and enjoy the social time, it may or may not lead to anything, but nobody gets a hit by taking pitches, you have to swing the bat.

 

[trawler]

tiger, which bat ...

would he be swinging in these circumstances (wink)?

 

[tiger]

trawler...

...I don't care what bat he is holding or swinging as long as it is not mine! LOL

On another note, I have found that sometimes strippers and SP's are some of the easiest ladies to ask out for a drink or lunch, something simple. They generally enjoy some non-hobby related attention and are usually pretty fun. My first apartment out of college, I lived below a stripper, and she kind of introduced me into their culture. Now I find it easy to get plugged into it pretty quickly no matter where I have lived.