....and likely inspired by Dolores O'Riordan....but likely not. It was a touching conversation with a friend who is having the shit times tossed at them....and don't we all have those at times.
So....advancing that slightly....I thought....well, in the world of D/s...there are Tops...and there are bottoms....and there are likely a mix of all that and some take it further than others and blah blah blah.
For me, the beauty of D/s is that the role of each participant is absolutely clear. There is no power struggle. Having lived long enough to watch the struggle for 50/50 put the pale on many a good relationship...I have to think that D/s is the perfect way to go. Pick your role...Top...bottom...then do it well.
So, my question is...and eventually I would get to it....for the Tops who post here..
Do you have...or imagine having...a full time sub? Is that just way too much work? Could a proper sub not make your life easier....and, shouldn't that be the subs goal? Now...lets presume that you wished for that and found that.....what would you do for "equal" entertainment? Would you grant your sub some free time for intellectual discourse to feed your own mind....would you obtain all that elsewhere.....or would it be a combination of those things.
Fuck, I am rambling....I will blame it on having the next FOUR days off and.....Miss Jasmine.....did I mention that I am excited to see her again? And, thank you Miss T and Miss Nina for those little comments with respect to Miss Jasmine way back when....you are and were very prescient. I always wanted to use that word in a sentence....I hope I did it right. Wait, that's not a sentence, it's a continuation of a random thought process preceeded by 4 dots....damn.
most respectful regards,
eddie.
oh gawd....I shouldn't push "post"...but...obviously I will.
So....advancing that slightly....I thought....well, in the world of D/s...there are Tops...and there are bottoms....and there are likely a mix of all that and some take it further than others and blah blah blah.
For me, the beauty of D/s is that the role of each participant is absolutely clear. There is no power struggle. Having lived long enough to watch the struggle for 50/50 put the pale on many a good relationship...I have to think that D/s is the perfect way to go. Pick your role...Top...bottom...then do it well.
So, my question is...and eventually I would get to it....for the Tops who post here..
Do you have...or imagine having...a full time sub? Is that just way too much work? Could a proper sub not make your life easier....and, shouldn't that be the subs goal? Now...lets presume that you wished for that and found that.....what would you do for "equal" entertainment? Would you grant your sub some free time for intellectual discourse to feed your own mind....would you obtain all that elsewhere.....or would it be a combination of those things.
Fuck, I am rambling....I will blame it on having the next FOUR days off and.....Miss Jasmine.....did I mention that I am excited to see her again? And, thank you Miss T and Miss Nina for those little comments with respect to Miss Jasmine way back when....you are and were very prescient. I always wanted to use that word in a sentence....I hope I did it right. Wait, that's not a sentence, it's a continuation of a random thought process preceeded by 4 dots....damn.
most respectful regards,
eddie.
oh gawd....I shouldn't push "post"...but...obviously I will.
