I waited 18 hours for a reply, I was extremely polite in my initial inquiry and equally so in the follow up. All I asked in the follow up was if she had received my inquiry. Sometimes they go to junk, sometimes lost in the ether, sometimes my draft box. She understood after I explained. The jaded nature of this trade has seeped in and nice guys get the heat for the shit heads. Fortunately we talked and things ironed out. There was a miscommunication on both sides. She is a busy lady and does book a week in advance (which I had no idea).
It sucks that the less evolved knuckle draggers help in causing the occasional negative attitude or response. I try to be the positive opposite and for the most part that works.
To some ladies a text is sufficient to set up an appointment, some want screening, some want social media info, some want a deposit. Some say if you don’t hear back via text to try back in 1/2 hour, some say to wait.
Some even spring last minute deposit surprises. To say I occasionally get confused by how to approach this is an understatement.
I pay attention to web sites, ads and the instructions attached. I fill out the greeting form if there is one. Pay deposit (within reason). I get that people are busy. The web site mentioned being very flexible with booking times and dates. If you don’t want to see someone and you think they are being “pushy” a courtesy reply declinIng might be appropriate. Some girls love to correct on grammar, proper use of pronouns or ladysplain certain things, which is fine. I listen, mostly with a grain of salt with the more activist types, but I hear everyone. Occasionally I like the look of a girl but her politics or wokeness get in the way, that’s ok, there’s someone for everyone.
It sucks that the less evolved knuckle draggers help in causing the occasional negative attitude or response. I try to be the positive opposite and for the most part that works.
To some ladies a text is sufficient to set up an appointment, some want screening, some want social media info, some want a deposit. Some say if you don’t hear back via text to try back in 1/2 hour, some say to wait.
Some even spring last minute deposit surprises. To say I occasionally get confused by how to approach this is an understatement.
I pay attention to web sites, ads and the instructions attached. I fill out the greeting form if there is one. Pay deposit (within reason). I get that people are busy. The web site mentioned being very flexible with booking times and dates. If you don’t want to see someone and you think they are being “pushy” a courtesy reply declinIng might be appropriate. Some girls love to correct on grammar, proper use of pronouns or ladysplain certain things, which is fine. I listen, mostly with a grain of salt with the more activist types, but I hear everyone. Occasionally I like the look of a girl but her politics or wokeness get in the way, that’s ok, there’s someone for everyone.
