Help needed

[Soccerbud89]

Hi,

just getting out of a long term relationship. Do you think it’s worth it to see an SP during this time. If so who? And am willing to spend to see one.

I’m on the fence of seeing one as I’m not sure how I’ll feel after and if it’ll be worth it.

 

[squambum]

Don’t do it. I was in your shoes once, and it didn’t fix a thing. If anything, just got bust a nut at an AMP.

 

[Soccerbud89]

Don’t do it. I was in your shoes once, and it didn’t fix a thing. If anything, just got bust a nut at an AMP.

Can I ask why?

 

[blakealridge]

I’ve had several clients who are going through a breakup. I think it can help with loneliness and moving on.

 

[Soccerbud89]

I’ve had several clients who are going through a breakup. I think it can help with loneliness and moving on.

Do you recommend like a MSOG session or just like a go with the flow, and/or how long?

 

[maniacalone]

Can I ask why?

It can mislead you to think there are plenty of the fish in the sea and help convince yourself that you can find another girl that desires you again rather quickly.

The reality is you most likely won’t find someone easily and will fall deep into loneliness and sadness if you don’t try to work it out with your gf/wife. Moreover, if the relationship cannot be saved, you won’t do the necessary work on why it failed and will simply go fuck more and more hookers until you become too warped to return to regular dating.

It’s a Faustian bargain that in place of money, power or success, you simply take the easiest and mostly stress free path to get women.

 

[blakealridge]

Do you recommend like a MSOG session or just like a go with the flow, and/or how long?

It depends what you’re looking for. Companionship? Maybe a dinner date. Something a little chiller? 90 minutes or so.

 

[MikeyLikey99]

Hi,

just getting out of a long term relationship. Do you think it’s worth it to see an SP during this time. If so who? And am willing to spend to see one.

I’m on the fence of seeing one as I’m not sure how I’ll feel after and if it’ll be worth it.

I would suggest you not. Hang out with friends, spend time pursuing things that you enjoy, dabble in self improvement if that’s your thing…but don’t fall into the rabbit hole of paying for sex.

I know I’m a hypocrite for saying it, but it’s a bit of a slippery slope…and can end up as an addictive behaviour quite easily. You see some guys on here falling over themselves to chase the new girl…always chasing the dopamine hit of sex with the next hot girl. It’s also an expensive pastime. Anyways, my two cents for what it’s worth.

 

[Kurtis2015]

I would suggest you not. Hang out with friends, spend time pursuing things that you enjoy, dabble in self improvement if that’s your thing…but don’t fall into the rabbit hole of paying for sex.

I know I’m a hypocrite for saying it, but it’s a bit of a slippery slope…and can end up as an addictive behaviour quite easily. You see some guys on here falling over themselves to chase the new girl…always chasing the dopamine hit of sex with the next hot girl. It’s also an expensive pastime. Anyways, my two cents for what it’s worth.

I can add also not to expect that this will solve your problem(s). It is a bit complicated. It is the same type of question when a non-drinker asks advice what wine he should start to drink in order to get healthy and wealthy. I would respond do not even start.

On the other hand, if you need a relief, you could certainly find a girl (paid or not) because you body and mind need sex to properly function.

You have to get those answers with a grain of salt. I wish you all the best to cope. You have to understand that you need to soldier through life and there is no other way around it.

 

[IvyLane91]

It really comes down to the reason for wanting to book a provider. If you’re looking to just get laid cause you’re horny then yeah I say absolutely go for it, but if you’re trying to fill this hole that this relationship has left then probably not a good idea as as you could potentially end up directing those feelings towards the provider, which is awkward and unhealthy or you could just go down a path of lots of meaningless sex that does neither you or your bank account any good. But at the same time, the companionship can sometimes help tied you over the next relationship if you understand what that companionship really is and don’t turn it into something it’s not.