Help needed

[soulium]

ok, mating season is officially here, gotta love the girls in booty shorts and tiny tops.

I've never tried to pick up a girl in the day. Need to learn day "game"

So any tip/advice/opening lines would be appreciated.

ladies and gentlemen, plz dont hold back.

P.S. club/bar/lounge pick up advice would also be welcome. you can never learn too much

P.P.S. NO BS or bragging

 

[sexytime]

Throw on the mankini and head to Locarno beach. Bring a portable BBQ; everyone will want your meat.

 

[deathreborn]

ok, mating season is officially here, gotta love the girls in booty shorts and tiny tops.

I've never tried to pick up a girl in the day. Need to learn day "game"

So any tip/advice/opening lines would be appreciated.

ladies and gentlemen, plz dont hold back.

P.S. club/bar/lounge pick up advice would also be welcome. you can never learn too much

P.P.S. NO BS or bragging

rent a bentley for a day. drive back and forth in front of joe fortes. they'll flock to you like pigeons in the park.

 

[hornyhunk]

 

[Brenten]

Be yourself, too many false people out there playing a 'part'. Do things you like to do or are interested in. There you'll meet women, who are interested in the same things you are. Hey! instant common interest-conversation possibility. Ask questions, alot of men are very interested in talking about themselves. I've seen lots of male friends (myself too) shoot themself down dominating the conversation, let her talk. She'll think, "Hey, what a nice guy, he's interested in me"; by the way pay attention. Don't be desperate or obvious. I imagine the club scene is where the one nighters are going to happen. Can't help with the club/lounge not too interested in it.

One last piece of advice. Vancouver women, in my opinion are very unapproachable. In a suit, in downtown Vancouver I've asked for directions and been walked past like I was garbage. In the UK, Europe or the US, in similiar, circumstances I've found women to be very open. An opinion I've also heard from friends and read in media. Hence the importance of common interests.

 

[sexytime]

Only one serious reply, from the kind and patient Holly Taylor. Poor, poor, horny guy. Now I feel like an asshole about starting the Borat references.

* Forget pretty much all you know about picking up in a nightclub or bar. While some of the social aspects are transferrable, it's probably better with a clean slate.
* Only the truly exceptional can view the entire outside world as if it were their bedroom and actually make it work. The rest should not attempt unless you want to look like a creeper.
* Have some kind of reason for going out and doing something other than looking for sex. E.g. go to the beach to actually play volleyball.
* Gather among those with common interests. If you have no interests other than sex then find one, preferably something gender neutral. Making a connection will be more natural.
* There is no guarantee to get laid, but you will at least meet people. And people can introduce you to other people, and so on.
* Don't expect anything to happen as a result of anything you try! Go with the flow.

And at the very, very least, this is what it is to live life instead of trying to fuck it away.

 

[dudeharsh123]

Hahha.. Mating season....

 

[Nathalie Lefebvre]

This thread has a lot of great advice. I agree with Brenten - being able to listen is fundamental to 'picking up' women! Active listening is a skill many people want but don't have. Be genuinely interested in what she's saying and make a lot of eye contact. I agree with Holly as well - I think confidence has a lot to do with being able to attract women. There is a difference between being confident and cocky though. Being cocky and arrogant is a huge turn off - at least for me.

Don't be afraid of saying something stupid or being perceived negatively. The worse thing that will happen is she'll say no to your advances and ultimately, that shouldn't be a big deal. Don't let a stranger damage your sense of self.

I recently walked up to someone in a coffee shop and asked them what they were doing for the next few hours. They replied by saying "I'm meeting my father for lunch in a couple of hours, but apart from that, I'm not doing anything at all". They asked why I was asking and through a little bit of chit-chat I asked them if they would like to sit at the canal with me (in Ottawa), because in that moment I had nothing better to do and didn't want to be alone reading my book. They said yes! I put myself out there in a really random way and I received positive feedback.

Don't be scared, and try to do something outside of your comfort zone!

Best of luck to you!

 

[Pillowtalk]

Be honest, trustworthy most of all be yourself. Don't try and be something or someone your not.

In life I've found that having a really good sense of humor, and the ability to speak to people about many varied topics has definitely helped in the meeting ladies department.

When I played Junior hockey. There were always ladies around. Some older some younger with only one focus in mind .. YOU!. When I left that I needed to do the same thing you're going through. But I had confidence that I knew would shine through and I met a lot of ladies through a community college I went to.

Take a cooking class, an English or a Psychology course.

Anybody can just throw leg for 15 minutes. Then that's uhhhmmmm about it. You want to meet a special person. Be a complete person yourself.

Honest genuine, confident. with common interests works every time.

Common interests doesn't mean going to a bar to get laid..

Smile, be confident about yourself and it will shine through.

What I got from the OP is he wants one night stands, but in the middle of the day and thinks the pickup lines for daytime/beachtime would be different than what the barstars need. As in what to say to seal the deal in 20 minutes or less when the woman isn't drunk?

My advice would be look for the signals that she isn't interested in being approached in the first place. Women who are alone during the day isn't a signal they are available or single. If she is reading, on the phone, or texting, etc, do not approach. If she is sitting with a friend having a conversation, you could approach with caution. Don't be pervy. Just showing up is usually a signal you are up to something, so you have to be stealthy about it, and not look interested.

This will take time. Believe it or not, most women don't go out in the morning hoping some random dude will come up to them and try to get them to have sex with them. If that is the main purpose of daytime searches, then wait for dark and go back to the bar. If you were interested in something longer term, summer time flings are actually very possible. Someone out of university and time on their hands until fall, someone here on vacation for a week, etc.

And two guys are less obvious than one single guy perving up and down the beach, fwiw.

 

[Mr.]

ok, mating season is officially here, gotta love the girls in booty shorts and tiny tops.

I've never tried to pick up a girl in the day. Need to learn day "game"

So any tip/advice/opening lines would be appreciated.

ladies and gentlemen, plz dont hold back.

P.S. club/bar/lounge pick up advice would also be welcome. you can never learn too much

P.P.S. NO BS or bragging

I'd start by not using terms like "day game" "plz" and multiple ppppppppps's. Then I'd just be cool son... Put it out there and let them come - You got this Solium...!

 

[sevenofnine]

be your self honest and geniune
i have never really understood why but i get along with women.

the comments i get from the women or sps' that like me is that im the real deal. im mean
so many guys are full of shit want to impress them or lie, do anything to hide there weakness there short comings and lie about how such a great guy they are.
trust me any good women or sp has heard it all before, and i guess some women can be conned or lied to but when that happens to them once or twice they fiqure it out.

just be you let it happen or not,
be a good listener like some one said

but speak from emotions, your heart,

there was this dancer a stripper really cute, all the guys were just after her when she came off stage she was fucking hot.
but she knew she was, this wasn't her first rodeo,

she walked by me i said something that stopped her in her tracks.
i said forgive me i enjoyed watching you and i have never seen a women with so much class.
no one had ever told her she had class before, she was a stripper with so much class, she stopped dead and sat down at my table and spent the rest of the night with me,

a women an sp i was seeing she got really run by the guys, she was sort of fat and dumpy, but i liked her, she had such a pretty face with light and warmth and twinkle in her eyes and i told what i thought of her eyes and face,
she just looked at me, she was an escort for a few years by that time, and she said no one had ever told her that, ever,

the lady i see now she is older but like a fine wine that ages, she is used to being told she is pretty cute a milf whatever
again i told her what i saw, the life in her eyes the warmth the fun the amusement the laughter
and i guess some one for the first time who i actually talked to and opened up to about my childhood and my rapist father,
i meant it what i said it came from the heart.
but she took it and felt good inside about herself and what she does.
she says im a special client,
what im trying to say is speak from your heart
look at a women and try to tell her what you feel put it into words and say it.

and not just i want to get into your pants, if that is all you see in a women you have a problem
and its a given im a guy she is a women of course i want to get into her pants da
but don't tell her that.
tell her why she is so dam special.