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Rillion

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Gearing up for my first time.
So I'm going to give this a shot but I have not been able to find a newb guide.

I'm super concerned about getting burnt and goING to the wrong place.

If someone could post a detailed step by step or do and fonts that would be awesome.

I'll be going somewhere in Vancouver so adice on places to go there would be nice as well.

I have been reading as much as I can bit there are so many posts and so much info.

Thanks in advance.
 

jamasianman

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Find a nice lady who is newbie friendly in the perb advertiser section. Maybe book 2 hours, tell her its your first time. Shower before the encounter, and rinse again when you get there to be nice and clean. Take the mouthwash if she offers it. Be polite, courteous, clean, and quiet. When you buzz her apartment, you dont say anything. you knock lightly at her door, you dont say anything out loud until you're inside and the door is closed. Place the donation in an unsealed and unmarked envelope on the counter or somewhere flat and visible.

Try not to jerk off for 1-3 days before the encounter. Shave your pubes early, not day before. Remember when contacting a lady, be concise and clear. Say your first name, when you wanna book,and what time and length. Don't use slang. Ask her her menu to see if she offers what you want.
 

jgg

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Stick to well reviewed ladies.
 

westwoody

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getting burnt
Risk is always present, things can go wrong due to factors neither of you control.

I used to budget for 10% failure rate. If everything screws up just try again, don't take it personally.

This is like a treasure hunt. Keep at it and you might be very richly rewarded.
 

Rillion

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Thanks for all the tips.

Can anyone recommend a good place in Vancouve. Asian preferred.
 

badbadboy

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Nov 2, 2006
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In Lust Mostly
Gearing up for my first time.
So I'm going to give this a shot but I have not been able to find a newb guide.

I'm super concerned about getting burnt and goING to the wrong place.

If someone could post a detailed step by step or do and fonts that would be awesome.

I'll be going somewhere in Vancouver so adice on places to go there would be nice as well.

I have been reading as much as I can bit there are so many posts and so much info.

Thanks in advance.
Thanks for all the tips.

Can anyone recommend a good place in Vancouve. Asian preferred.
That's a bit of an oxymoron "I'm super concerned about getting burnt and goING to the wrong place." when " Asian preferred" is added to the mix.

There are lots of reviews from guys who have seen some very good K Girls etc.

Why not post a 411 or do some more reading in the escorts and massage area?

BTW, welcome to Perb. I hope it works out for you.
 

Billiam

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First of all, I would recommend going to an AMP rather than a single provider just for the increased options. Ask to see whoever is working, don't necessarily take what is first offered. I would suggest New Star and/or Prosper. Now go do your Perb research and find out who the current lineup is and who may appeal to you. Ask for the all-inclusive price (140-160) and how long that covers (30/45). Don't book any longer the first time(s). And keep in mind that with many girls, YMMV and may improve greatly with repeat visits.
Good luck!
 

mrman848

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Find a nice lady who is newbie friendly in the perb advertiser section. Maybe book 2 hours, tell her its your first time. Shower before the encounter, and rinse again when you get there to be nice and clean. Take the mouthwash if she offers it. Be polite, courteous, clean, and quiet. When you buzz her apartment, you dont say anything. you knock lightly at her door, you dont say anything out loud until you're inside and the door is closed. Place the donation in an unsealed and unmarked envelope on the counter or somewhere flat and visible.

Try not to jerk off for 1-3 days before the encounter. Shave your pubes early, not day before. Remember when contacting a lady, be concise and clear. Say your first name, when you wanna book,and what time and length. Don't use slang. Ask her her menu to see if she offers what you want.

This is a good guide but I would NOT recommend booking 2 hours. You have no idea if you will even like the girl. There might be something off, or a weird smell, or your pheromones just don't match!

Never go to one in a hotel - I've gone to 3 and they all had fake pictures. One wasn't even too bad looking so I asked her why she uses fake pictures when her normal pics would work and she just started screaming 'get out get out get out'. Then I noticed all the fake adds have 'no black gents' which is another warning sign.

After that I found a lady, demanded some way to verify pictures, she sent me to this website. .....couldn't find her name cause she switched cities and she had 2 names. But a couple weeks later I found a review of her on here and I saw her for 15min special. Was a little expensive for 15min but I didn't care because she did not lie.


Honestly if its your very first time I would go for a massage with happy ending. ....I tried to do this but when ever I inquired about pricing and services via text, they were all hush hush, and I do not prefer asians so I found it rather hard to find a good massage place. But if you like asians then its probably worth it.

Edit:
I should mention i am by no means an expert. I've got maybe 2 months more experience than you do.
 

sevenofnine

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don't take this personally but im tired of these.

as a newbi you should hang out on the boards read all the posts. go back in history and search and research ladies, and simply keep your eye on this board or others.
pick the most reputable lady you can find for the fist time research her, here as well as other places.

that is all you kind of need to know. and if you can't figure this much out. well

and you do it what you feel like, if you have deep pockets and are confident, you book a longer session
if your on the timid side, and worried about money, the shorter the better,,, there is no right answer, what ever you feel like,

a reputable lady a good sp, will take care of you, that is a given.
pick the most respected sp you can find, and enjoy.
 

sevenofnine

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Nov 21, 2008
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oh by the way, a good time or not is quite irrelevant

it happens, you get two personalities that rub each other the wrong way, or one of you is having a bad day or both of you are having a bad day.

with even the best sp's and I was a regular, sometimes it just happens, she was out of it or I had a fucking bad day, and I didn't want to cancel on her,
so sometimes the two of you meet, and you go that was a wasted few hundred bucks. it happens. it really does, especially if your a nice guy and don't want to cancel on her because you had a crap of a day.


or she doesn't because she needs the money.

its more about the realization is this for me, or no, I will pass. there is an sp for every taste and desire, its more about
if you and her are willing. or if like I said is this for me.


I was scared shitless my first time, had no idea about anything,
but the sp, I picked was bullet proof and she had other ideas.
I was hooked
 
All first timers & newbies are welcome!!! Xoxo

Gearing up for my first time.
So I'm going to give this a shot but I have not been able to find a newb guide.

I'm super concerned about getting burnt and goING to the wrong place.

If someone could post a detailed step by step or do and fonts that would be awesome.

I'll be going somewhere in Vancouver so adice on places to go there would be nice as well.

I have been reading as much as I can bit there are so many posts and so much info.

Thanks in advance.
Stick to WELL REVIEWED ladies on different review boards within your specific hobby location.
Check SPs websites and make sure they have reviews and good info.
Look for someone who mentions, "Newbies & 1st Timers welcome"
I know I LOVE NEWBIES and I've been told I'm accommodating and friendly.
Depending where you are, I would LOVE to meet you and hopefully start slow and give you an amazing first experience.

I'm visiting and playing in Fort Mac May 4th for 10 days. If you're in that area feel free to come by!
Text me anytime and we can discuss. ALSO etransfer for playtime such as; sexting, facetime, skype is a great way to get to know a lad\ BEFORE meeting her and discussing both of your likes and dislikes sweetie.
All the best, sending you many kisses and hugs,
xoxo Kadie Lux
647 270 1282
 
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