Help a Virgin Out: Best First-Time Recommendations for a Smooth Start?

[SundaysAndCuddles]

Hey Perb! 👋

I’m in my late 20s, and yep, still a virgin—looking to change that by the end of this year! I’d love some advice from the experienced pros here to help me ease into the hobby and make my first time fun, relaxed, and unforgettable.

Here’s where I’m stuck: with so many options, I’m not sure what’s the best starting point for a beginner. Should I dip my toes into the waters of a massage parlor that offers FS (seems like a nice way to get familiar with the whole experience)? Or would it be better to go for someone that offers MSOG? I feel like that could be a great way to blow off any first-time nerves—if I launch one quickly, I can just keep going and “empty the tank”.

I’ve also read that some providers, like ExpCharlee or Ceci 8138, are known for being amazing with first-timers. Do you think that might be the way to go for someone like me? Or would you recommend a few other options to help me gain experience? Ideally, I’d like to start with someone who’s really great for first-timers, so I can get comfortable, develop my bearings, and then check out a few more others. The goal is to eventually gain enough experience to explore some of the regular spots other pooners rave about, like XDS, K604, or Swan Lake, and really enjoy those experiences!

When it comes to preferences, I’m pretty flexible—I tend to lean towards slimmer, petite, or spinner types, but I’m open to someone a bit curvier as well. As for the budget, I’m also quite flexible—probably looking at somewhere between $300-$600/hr to start, and I’m open to going higher if needed to ensure a truly great experience.

Thanks in advance for helping me figure this out, Perb fam! 🙏

Today, I had the absolute pleasure of meeting the one and only Kylie 3611—the queen of BJ, the legendary, world-renowned SP whose reviews light up this forum like a constellation of five-star ratings. And let me tell you, she lives up to every single word of praise and then some.

This is my second session and I decided to go with Kylie, and wow—just wow. It was an electrifying blend of mind-blowing sensuality, seamless emotional connection, and fun, flirty conversation that made the experience unforgettable. It felt like everything you could ever dream of and more, wrapped into one perfect encounter.

As someone still finding my way as a newbie, I thought this would be the perfect chance to share my perspective to help others who might be feeling nervous, uncertain, or still trying to decide who their first SP should be. Whether you’re new or seasoned, Kylie has a way of making you feel like the only person in the world. Let me walk you through what made this session truly one of a kind.

Communication:
Let me tell you—communication with Kylie 3611 is a dream. The moment I saw her ad on Leolist saying she’d be in Richmond, I knew I had to find a way to see her. Skipping work for a few hours and sneaking out? Totally worth it.

She’s incredibly responsive and makes the entire process effortless. I had so many questions (newbie life, you know?), and her replies were so relaxed and flirty that it felt like chatting with someone I’d known forever. She has this way of making you feel like no question is too silly or awkward—just pure ease and understanding.

For example, when I joked about a 60-minute BBBJ session because I’m still new to everything else, she immediately caught on and playfully suggested positions like BLS, Russian, and kissing—simple yet exciting options for someone like me. It’s so rare to feel this level of understanding and accommodation, especially as a first-timer, and Kylie nailed it perfectly.

The flirtiness didn’t stop there. When I told her I couldn’t decide between CIM or COF, her sexy response was, “Why don’t we do a mix of both?” Talk about raising the anticipation! I was already counting down the minutes to our session, and that reply just made it impossible to wait.

Booking a time with Kylie was just as smooth as everything else—completely hassle-free and straightforward.

Rates:
I went with her $300/hour rate with CIM (+$40). She also offers COF and Rimming, both for an additional $40 each.

I think because of the amazing connection we had, Kylie went the extra mile and included CIMSW and some light rimming on the house. I’m pretty sure she did, but my post-nut brain was still in a fog, and I was absolutely riding the dopamine high from our session! 😜

Kylie, if you’re reading this, your generosity didn’t go unnoticed, and I truly appreciate it. I’ll definitely need to book another session soon to properly show my gratitude. And gentlemen/newbies, remember—(YMMV), so don’t go in expecting this and always treat her with the respect she deserves.

Incall:
As soon as your session starts, Kylie will text you everything you need—buzz number, floor number, and room number—right on time. Patience is key, but trust me, she’s punctual, and the anticipation is worth it.

When I walked in, I was greeted by Kylie in the sexiest black lingerie, her massive, jaw-dropping tits practically spilling out, and the warmest, bubbliest vibe you could ask for. I told her my hands were cold from waiting outside, and with the sweetest smile, she said, “Let me warm them up for you”—then grabbed my hands and pressed them right to her soft, inviting tits. Talk about the perfect icebreaker!

I gave her a hug, dropped my donation on the table, and since she could tell I was still cold, she helped me set up the shower and adjusted the temperature to make sure it was perfect for me. That thoughtful gesture just showed how attentive and caring she is.

The washroom was spotless and stocked with everything you could possibly need—body wash, mouthwash, towels—everything was ready and perfectly organized. It’s the kind of setup that makes you feel instantly at ease and sets the tone for a premium experience.

Personality:
Kylie’s personality is pure magic. She’s sweet, bubbly, and exudes that irresistible girl-next-door charm that makes you feel like you’ve known her forever. The moment you step into her world, any nervousness melts away—there’s no awkwardness, just a seamless flow of warmth, kindness, and effortless connection.

What truly sets Kylie apart is her rare ability to make you feel completely at ease, as if she’s known you for years. She’s a gifted conversationalist—curious, open-minded, and attentive. Time seems to slip away when you’re with her, and every moment feels intimate and natural, as if the rest of the world doesn’t exist.

Being with Kylie is like stepping into your favorite video game: all your stress and worries disappear, and for that time, you feel unstoppable, carefree, and alive. Her presence makes you feel like the best version of yourself—something words can’t fully capture. You’ll just have to experience her magic for yourself.


Experience:
BBBJ/Facefucking: For my second session, I wanted to keep things light yet intense—focusing on few positions deeply over many positions for a shorter period. We started with a quick, relaxed chat to discuss her boundaries (she has VERY little!) and the positions I had in mind. Kylie, ever the attentive listener, nodded along with her signature warm smile, making me feel completely in sync with her.

When I told her I wanted to start with her legendary, sloppy, messy BBBJ, her eyes sparkled with a knowing glint, and without missing a beat, she dropped to her knees and got to work. What followed was pure artistry—exactly like something out of your favorite porn video. Kylie went all in with an abundance of spit and saliva, her lips sliding with such intensity that it left me hypnotized. She locked eyes with me, her gaze filled with playful mischief, adding a whole other layer of connection.

Her dirty talk was absolutely tantalizing, drawing me deeper into the moment with every lick and every kiss. She teased me relentlessly, whispering things like, “When can I get my treat, Daddy?” and other wickedly seductive phrases that sent shivers down my spine. Her lips wrapped around me with expert precision, gliding with just the right amount of pressure, while her tongue danced along the underside of my shaft, teasing and swirling in ways that left me completely breathless.

And then came the sounds—those unmistakable, cluck cluck cluck throat noises you’ve heard in the porn videos. She made her throat sing for me, the wet, sloppy symphony amplifying every sensation and taking me to a whole new level of ecstasy. It was so sexy, so incredibly hot, that I couldn’t help but lose myself in the moment.

When I felt myself getting close, I asked her to put her hands behind her back. As I gripped her hair, she looked up at me with those seductive, submissive eyes and let me guide the pace. I started facef***ing her, taking complete control of her head and her throat, and she embraced it all without hesitation. Watching her surrender so completely, so willingly, was intoxicating beyond words.

At that moment, I crossed a major item off my bucket list. For a brief, euphoric instant, I felt like I was living out my ultimate fantasy—a porn star dream come to life. Facef***ing her in this way, with her letting me take control so completely, was beyond anything I could have imagined. It was raw, it was passionate, and it was so, so good.


Squirting/Second Shot: After my first intense shot, I decided to keep the rest of the session lighter since I’m more of a one-shot type of guy. For the next part, I asked Kylie to teach me how to please her. She mentioned how easy she was to satisfy and how quickly she could come, which sent a rush of excitement through me.

She guided my hands to her clit, showing me exactly how to rub it just right. Within moments, she moaned deeply, her body quivering, and then she squirted—hard. It was incredibly sexy watching her let go so completely, her juices soaking both me and the sheets. Seeing her in that state of ecstasy was unbelievably hot, and it left me craving more.

Not wanting to stop there, I asked if I could go down on her and what she liked. She flashed her signature playful smile and said, “Go ahead, do whatever feels good—I’ll let you know if I need something different.” Her confidence and easygoing nature made me feel like I could explore freely.

As I kissed, licked, and sucked her pussy, her moans grew louder, each sound sending waves of heat through me. Her body writhed beneath me, and before long, she squirted again—this time all over my face and mouth. The second squirt left a puddle on the bed, and as a newbie, knowing I had made her squirt twice like that was an incredible ego boost. It wasn’t just sexy—it was electrifying.

After that, we paused for a little chat. Kylie’s personality is so magnetic that I could’ve happily let the rest of the time pass just talking to her. But then she flashed me that mischievous grin and said, “I want to suck your cock again.” How could I possibly say no?

I jokingly said, “We need to get junior hard again,” and she playfully suggested I rub her ass. She oiled herself up, guiding my hands to her curvy, perfect cheeks. I spanked and caressed her as she made it clap against my cock, just like in a music video! The sensation was incredible—hot, steamy, and utterly unforgettable.

Once I was ready, she dropped to her knees and started sucking me off again with unmatched enthusiasm. I asked her to lay on the bed with her head hanging off the edge, and she obliged with a seductive smile. As I took control and facef***ed her once more, the passion and intensity were unmatched.

Though I didn’t finish a second time—it’s rare for me—it was thrilling just to extend the session and revel in her energy. As the clock neared the end, I mentioned taking a quick shower, and she sweetly offered, “I can join you if you’d like.” I opted for a solo shower since I didn’t want to run over time, but if you’re reading this, Kylie—I’ll definitely take you up on that next time!


Goodbye:
As I stepped out of the shower, I couldn’t help but thank Kylie for such an incredible experience—it was everything I had imagined and exactly the way I wanted it to be. I told her I’d definitely be seeing her again, and we shared a quick laugh as I mentioned how much I appreciated her patience and guidance as a newbie in this new adventure.

Before I left, I asked her if she had any tips for me as a newbie, and true to her sweet and thoughtful nature, she happily shared some advice. Also, she told me how much she loves kissing and how it’s one of the most intimate and meaningful ways to connect. Then she smiled and said, “Let me give you a kiss goodbye.”

What followed was a soft, sensual makeout session that was the perfect way to end our time together. I gave her a warm hug, said my goodbyes, and walked out feeling like I’d just experienced something truly extraordinary. And while I didn’t say when, I know for sure I’ll be saying hello to her again sometime soon.


Overall: Honestly, I could go on, but I’ll keep it short: If Kylie lived in my building, let’s just say I’d find every excuse to work overtime—and I’d probably never leave home. I’d have “room service” on speed dial, indulging in her magic every single day like a never-ending fantasy. She’s phenomenal in every sense, and I can’t wait to see her again!


Repeat? Of course! She’s the kind of experience you bookmark, save, and replay like your favorite scene in a movie. If I didn’t plan to see her again, I’d honestly question my own sanity. She’s that addictive.

 

[MikeyLikey99]

Great reviews and it’s nice to hear that you’ve had 2 amazing experiences to get you on your way.

Try Mia Kane if she’s in your budget and thank me later lol

 

[TheHunter007]

Great stuff dude! Glad you are on your way.

One thing I'll say is to start posting your reviews as independent reviews in The "Escort Reviews" Section. Posting here might get you dinged by admin. The 411 is just for questions which is what this thread originally is, and the review threads are for reviews. That way others will find your reviews much easier and greatly benefit from them.

Cheers 🥂

 

[SundaysAndCuddles]

Kylie vs Ceci ? Who is better?

Both Ceci and Kylie are incredible at reading what you want and making the session feel custom-tailored just for you. As long as you communicate your preferences, they’ll both deliver in spine-tingling ways.

But if you’re looking for the TL;DR? Ceci’s got that intoxicating GFE magic. She’s the type who pulls you in close, makes every touch feel electric, and leaves you wondering if you just fell into an actual love story. Kylie, on the other hand, she's a high-voltage, unfiltered PSE. She’s the type to grab you by the collar, pull you into the heat of the moment, and make you feel like the main star of a wild, porn video.

I left pretty detailed reviews on both, so whichever sounds more like your vibe… well, you know what to do. 😉 Either way, prepare to feel like a king!

 

[BB9900]

Does Ceci squirt ?

No

 

[Thebigmeme]

Update! ☺

After reading all the glowing reviews about Ceci 8138 and her warm, patient, and sensual demeanor, I knew she had to be my first. Let me tell you—she surpassed every expectation and left me absolutely buzzing! (This is my first review, so I’m not entirely sure if I’ve done it right—open to any tips or suggestions!!)

Communication: The whole process was seamless. From the moment I sent her a quick message, she replied promptly with an opening in just two hours, and I wasted no time locking it in. When I nervously mentioned I was a virgin, her response? ‘Don’t worry, I’ll take care of you for your first time.’ Those words immediately put me at ease, and she even answered all my newbie questions with such grace and patience.

Rates: I went for the $280/hr option with MSOG (which is included for a 1 hour session), and couldn’t resist adding CIM for an extra $40. Worth. Every. Penny.

Incall: I’ll provide more details here as a first timer that other first timers might find helpful from a sensory perspective. I arrived a little bit early and let her know I was here. I waited outside a bit since I didn’t want to be late and when it was time she greeted me in the stunning black lingerie, exactly as shown in the photos.

As I stepped inside the building it was very clean, organized and smelled very nice. The lights had this nice dim color to them which created a very relaxing environment as if it was lit up by candles to set the mood. She greeted me with a soft kiss and slipped her hand into mine, her touch sending a spark through me as she guided me deeper into her world. The bedroom mirrored the same allure, with warm lighting and music that seemed to caress the air—a soothing, melodic mix you’d expect in a high-end spa or a cozy café. At this stage, I felt a little nervous, unsure of what the next step was supposed to be. Do I say something? Do I make a motion? Should I take the initiative or hand over the donation? My mind was swirling with questions, and I didn’t want to misstep. But there was no rush from Ceci—she intuitively took the lead. Her calm, playful charm melted away my hesitation, and every glance, every move, every whisper from her felt tailored to wrap me in comfort and anticipation, making my first experience feel not just safe, but unforgettable.

Looks: Let me just say—Ceci’s photos don’t do her justice. Her soft, voluptuous curves are the kind you want to explore with your hands, and oh, that ass… hypnotic. Every time she turned around, I had to remind myself to blink. I wanted to go to pound town in doggy style right away but knew I needed to hold myself together. She’s got a good ass! I also found her tits to be quite big and maybe bigger than the photos when I held them in my hand. Her skin is silky, her smile is enchanting, and her presence is pure magic.

Before the action: Once in the room her nurturing demeanor shone. She undressed me with care, guided my hands to caress her beautiful, fit and breathtaking body, and made sure I felt comfortable at every step. We then hopped into the washroom for mouth wash and then showered together. As the warm water cascaded over us, her hands moved with expert precision, each stroke of her velvety skin against mine sending sparks through my body. Her touch was a tantalizing dance, soft yet deliberate, coaxing me into her rhythm. My hands, trembling slightly from both nerves and desire, found their way to her curves—each contour more mesmerizing than the last.

She turned, her eyes full of playful mischief, and arched her back just enough to press her perfectly sculpted ass against me, the heat between us igniting something primal. Junior responded instantly to her sensual rhythm, stiffening with every deliberate brush of her body. She was clearly in control, her every move calculated to tease but not overstep. No BBBJ in the shower, though—I had already confessed I might finish too quickly, and it seemed she wanted to save the main event for later. The anticipation was intoxicating.


Experience:

• Kissing: Lying back on the bed, my pulse quickened as Ceci leaned over me, her gaze smoldering with confidence. “Let’s get your first shot out,” she teased, her tone equal parts playful and seductive. Her lips met me with a softness that sent a jolt through my entire body, her tongue weaving patterns of pleasure that left me utterly mesmerized. She moved with an artistry that was hypnotic—slow, then fast, taking me deeper into a euphoric haze as our mouths danced together.
• BBBJ - First Shot: Her lips wrapped perfectly around junior with a soft grip, her tongue played with junior, and not once did I feel any teeth but pure ecstasy. Watching her devour my hard cock in her mouth—her head bobbing rhythmically, her eyes flickering up at me with a knowing glance—was an experience so vivid and arousing it was etched into my mind instantly. In mere minutes, I felt the waves of release crash over me, my body giving in entirely to her expertise. In just 7-8 minutes, the tension overwhelmed me, and I cummed a big load into her mouth, holding her head until she got every last drop in her mouth. It was so sexy to watch. She cleaned me up with the same care she had shown throughout, and though I technically had another round in me, I could feel deep down that my body was already blissfully satisfied.
• Massage: To give junior a break, I asked Ceci for an oil massage. I believe she’s a professional/licensed masseuse. Her skilled hands moved with an almost magical precision, kneading away every knot and ounce of tension. The massage was both sensual and therapeutic, her soft fingertips gliding over my skin, ensuring every inch of my body was treated with care and affection. For 30 minutes, I melted into her touch, losing track of time entirely.
• Second Shot: When I asked how much time remained, she glanced at the clock and said, “15 minutes.” I was content to wrap things up with a shower since I was fully satisfied, but Ceci wasn’t having it. “Wait—you didn’t get your second shot,” she insisted with a mischievous pout. I reassured her that I was more than satisfied, but she wouldn’t hear it. “No, I want you to try more positions. I want you to have a great experience!” Her determination was irresistible. She coaxed junior back to life with her velvety lips, slipped on a condom, and guided me through an electrifying dance of missionary, doggy, and cowgirl. Her body moved with such passion, her kisses and roaming hands igniting every nerve in my body. Despite her best efforts, a second climax didn’t happen this session—but it didn’t matter. The experience had been perfect, and we both knew it. Ceci’s concern for my satisfaction was endearing, and I reassured her with a smile that I’d be back once my nerves and stamina had caught up with her talent.
• Goodbye: As our time together ended, she led me to the shower, her care never faltering as she cleaned me up with gentle hands. We dressed, and as I stepped to the door, she held my hand, gave me a kiss that lingered, and wrapped me in a warm hug. “Thank you for coming,” she whispered, her smile sending me off with the promise of memories I wouldn’t soon forget.

Overall: Ceci is an absolute gem. She’s warm, playful, stunning, and knows how to make even the most nervous first-timer feel like a king. If you’re new to the hobby or get nervous during intimacy, Ceci is the one to help you feel right at home. 😍

Repeat? Absolutely—but not immediately. I want to explore more of this fascinating world, but Ceci has set the bar sky-high for everyone else. 🥰

Shit got be bricked af while reading

 

[sam4522]

Both Ceci and Kylie are incredible at reading what you want and making the session feel custom-tailored just for you. As long as you communicate your preferences, they’ll both deliver in spine-tingling ways.

But if you’re looking for the TL;DR? Ceci’s got that intoxicating GFE magic. She’s the type who pulls you in close, makes every touch feel electric, and leaves you wondering if you just fell into an actual love story. Kylie, on the other hand, she's a high-voltage, unfiltered PSE. She’s the type to grab you by the collar, pull you into the heat of the moment, and make you feel like the main star of a wild, porn video.

I left pretty detailed reviews on both, so whichever sounds more like your vibe… well, you know what to do. 😉 Either way, prepare to feel like a king!

Where can i find ceci contact?

 

[Mr.Plum]

Thanks for the great reviews @SundaysAndCuddles! I know both Ceci and Kylie already have lots of good reviews. I like the detail you put into capturing for first experiences. Kylie is moving up the list fast! I didn’t know that she sometimes comes out to Richmond so I’ll need to keep an eye out for her ads.

 

[thorthedemigod69]

Glad to see that you had wonderful experiences, I added both Kylie and Ceci to my TDL.
Post a review separately in the reviews section, so that it will help others noobs like you.