This hobby actually let me explore different body types so I can find out what I am into. I do like athletic body type, but am into smaller Bbw's. I have a friend who only likes petite women, whatever floats your boat. A woman who weighs more doesn't affect her sexual prowess, that is one thing I've learned.
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Tons of fun, don't knock it if you haven't tried it some of the best most fun encounters I've ever had were with Supersized ladies. If they are sexy and have the right attitude size is irrelevant, a hot female can get yer motor running no matter what size she is, big has never scared me off!
lol woah, easy there, tiger... remember where you are. Women of all shapes and sizes are in the business just as men of all shapes and sizes see us. SPs use what they've got and there's a market out there for every body just as there are clients from varied walks of life to keep them in business.
“It’s not about seducing men. It’s about embracing womanhood.”
– Dita Von Teese
I know you stated "generally" and "tend" but please clarify your comment. Are you saying society does not view SPs as attractive? Or attractive ladies are not SPs? Or attractive ladies don't have to be SPs? What is your definition of attractive? Or society's definition of attractive?
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A very true statement- a lot of doors get opened further for the "attractive".
I know when I hired a very very attractive cowgirl...the Cowboys already working during the fall gather said " you can't hire her...we will never get any work done" ......when I questioned that I shouldn't hire her because of her looks, I pointed out that may fall under discrimination....I also pointed out that employees don't do the freaking hiring and firing,...that's up too me.
That young lady out worked and out smarted all them boys, when it came to the work around here...
All those Cowboys have wandered to other jobs.....except the cowgirl, she's still here.....and yeah, I broke all the rules.
But that's beside the point.
You raise an interesting point there. I've had to let stellar employees go, not because of their abilities, but because of the disruption they caused to the overall work environment.
Did these people actively or purposely cause the disruptions, or was it just easier to ditch a single in favour of cracking down on the many?
I for one would not let a stellar employee leave because other lesser lights were distracted or there was "disruption".
What does that even mean, anyway? She have a great rack? Wear tight skirts? Others were unable to focus? Workforce too caught up in someone else's shit?
I'd cut one or two of the weaklings from the herd as an example to get the remainder on board with the common goal of the work environment- to work productively as a team for the better of all concerned.
Keep this board honest. Deleting legitimate reviews can create a much bigger problem. If guys can’t trust the reviews than the value of using those reviews as marketing material completely disappears.
You’re actually hurting legitimate sex workers who are working hard & earn the reviews they deserve when you censor the hell out of the reviews. You create an evironment where dishonest people who don’t care about sex workers can thrive.
A set of guidelines for review writing that respects both clients and sex workers is a far better way to go. There’s no reason make someone feel bad because you not attracted to them.
The first logical question that pops into my head, “Why did you stay for a session?”
You’re actually hurting legitimate sex workers who are working hard & earn the reviews they deserve when you censor the hell out of the reviews. You create an evironment where dishonest people who don’t care about sex workers can thrive.
A set of guidelines for review writing that respects both clients and sex workers is a far better way to go. There’s no reason make someone feel bad because you not attracted to them.
The first logical question that pops into my head, “Why did you stay for a session?”
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Weight does not matter at all... I'm 180 and can probably outrun, out dance and out squat many people smaller and larger than myself. Weight does not matter at all, cause I can still fit into clothes I could wear when I was 140. Some ladies are a lot more muscular (especially if they are weight training) and so many folks out there associate weight determining if a person is healthy or height-weight proportionate. I know others who are 180 and 3 or 4 dress sizes larger, and still gorgeous, so the weight does not determine the shape of a person. I think advertising should be accurate though and a true representation of the person...
This review board is to weed out the fakes for you gents who want to have a certain experience and support the ladies who work hard for their guests to create a good positive experience, regardless of their size, if a lady advertises honestly, all the power to her, regardless of her weight or shape. I used to think I could never be a Mistress cause I was too fat, heavy or whatever. I really did think like that a long while ago, that I would never make it because I would never have a 24" waist or be 120 lbs... I would be lucky if I could go to 160 @ this point, there's just way too much muscle, and the more I try to loose the more muscle gets created. I have to be happy with how MY body type is, since that is what it is supposed to be. Some ladies are cute hot & petite spinners... some are snuggly, round and comfy with the right "bounce", some are hard and strong and you feel like you can't break them and give it as hard as you give it... every lady has her qualities, every gent has his preference. Nice observation, but there is something for everyone out there! Kudos to the honest advertisers out there, it takes a lot of courage to put Real pics up online to begin with! Cheers to the OP good discussion!
This review board is to weed out the fakes for you gents who want to have a certain experience and support the ladies who work hard for their guests to create a good positive experience, regardless of their size, if a lady advertises honestly, all the power to her, regardless of her weight or shape. I used to think I could never be a Mistress cause I was too fat, heavy or whatever. I really did think like that a long while ago, that I would never make it because I would never have a 24" waist or be 120 lbs... I would be lucky if I could go to 160 @ this point, there's just way too much muscle, and the more I try to loose the more muscle gets created. I have to be happy with how MY body type is, since that is what it is supposed to be. Some ladies are cute hot & petite spinners... some are snuggly, round and comfy with the right "bounce", some are hard and strong and you feel like you can't break them and give it as hard as you give it... every lady has her qualities, every gent has his preference. Nice observation, but there is something for everyone out there! Kudos to the honest advertisers out there, it takes a lot of courage to put Real pics up online to begin with! Cheers to the OP good discussion!
I remember you posting some very similar thoughts in an earlier thread related to body type.
Well said- again.
I also remember someone coming on and nit-picking your photos in the same thread.
Weak.
I hope this doesn't degenerate into the same horseshit.
So much for the kinder, gentler attitude on perb, eh...?
Nah....as I pointed out earlier...I deserved that one.
I can take a punch to the shoulder, just like the next guy.
This is a tough one. I will admit that I've stayed and gone through with a handful of sessions where I was, to put it diplomatically, less than enthused by the looks of the lady that met me on the other side of the door. The first time it happened, it was still fairly early on for me as a client of SPs and I did take a moment to consider what the best way to excuse myself from the situation might be. But she had such a positive attitude and enthusiastic disposition that I stayed and ended up being very glad that I did. So, when I've found myself in a similar situation after that, even after maybe considering leaving, I've decided to give the benefit of the doubt and hope that attitude and enthusiasm will make the time worth it. On only one of those occasions do I think I could have left and I wouldn't have missed out on anything but in that case, it was her personality that I found off putting as well.
Just as an additional point about borderline false advertising, I've experienced at least a couple of times now where an SP will advertise herself as "petite" when they are short but in no other way are they petite. One of the ladies I stayed with advertised as "petite" and the pics from her ad certainly had me believe that was an accurate description. And the pics were definitely her as her tattoos were evidence thereof. So, I can only guess that they were very out of date because she was downright round in person. At the risk of being accused of "body shaming" -- I mean she was built like a beach ball. But her reviews were overwhelmingly very positive and looks were most often rated 7 or higher. I can only recall one reviewer rating her a 4 for looks but he qualified that as being due to all the tattoos. Again, I certainly didn't have a bad time with her and based on her attitude and enthusiasm (and skills
) in session, I was able to understand the positive feedback about her. But her looks were most definitely over rated by reviewers and she was not what I was expecting on the other side of that door.As another side note, I've mentioned this in the past as well, I like to think I generally appreciate beauty in a spectrum of shapes and sizes but if an ad builds a certain expectation about a lady's appearance, then that is probably what I'm looking forward to on that particular day
I have no trouble staying if someone’s honest. I don’t support anyone who’s deliberately using false ad’s to deceive people. It encourages the dishonest practice.This is a tough one. I will admit that I've stayed and gone through with a handful of sessions where I was, to put it diplomatically, less than enthused by the looks of the lady that met me on the other side of the door. The first time it happened, it was still fairly early on for me as a client of SPs and I did take a moment to consider what the best way to excuse myself from the situation might be. But she had such a positive attitude and enthusiastic disposition that I stayed and ended up being very glad that I did. So, when I've found myself in a similar situation after that, even after maybe considering leaving, I've decided to give the benefit of the doubt and hope that attitude and enthusiasm will make the time worth it. On only one of those occasions do I think I could have left and I wouldn't have missed out on anything but in that case, it was her personality that I found off putting as well.
Just as an additional point about borderline false advertising, I've experienced at least a couple of times now where an SP will advertise herself as "petite" when they are short but in no other way are they petite. One of the ladies I stayed with advertised as "petite" and the pics from her ad certainly had me believe that was an accurate description. And the pics were definitely her as her tattoos were evidence thereof. So, I can only guess that they were very out of date because she was downright round in person. At the risk of being accused of "body shaming" -- I mean she was built like a beach ball. But her reviews were overwhelmingly very positive and looks were most often rated 7 or higher. I can only recall one reviewer rating her a 4 for looks but he qualified that as being due to all the tattoos. Again, I certainly didn't have a bad time with her and based on her attitude and enthusiasm (and skills
As another side note, I've mentioned this in the past as well, I like to think I generally appreciate beauty in a spectrum of shapes and sizes but if an ad builds a certain expectation about a lady's appearance, then that is probably what I'm looking forward to on that particular day
I was really talking about body shaming reviews where guys rip ladies apart without sympathy or mecry. “Why did you stay”, is the first question I’ll ask. You have a guy who just used a lady for sex only to stab her in the back. This happens with ladies posting honest advertiments on a regular basis. That’s a horrific thing to do to someone.
It a case of ethics & human decency. If the only merit for writing a bad review is purely superficial and you chose to stay knowing fully you’re going to write a bad review, then you should’ve done both you and the SP a favour and walked.
I hate back stabbers, I always stand-up to guys who behave that way. It’s not fair to use someone that way. Those types of reviews generally lack integrity.
I know that you and I probably aren't on the exact same page here but I personally wouldn't set out to make arrangements with someone whose advertisements made me think that I wouldn't be attracted to them in person. There are degrees of dishonesty in ads from straight up use of fake pics to the numerous ladies who fudge their stats just a bit or advertise using the most flattering angles to hide their true shape. As has been noted by others in the past, sometimes when you have a good time with someone, they become more attractive to you by the end of the session. But if they start from a point of dishonesty, it's already an uphill climb, and if you don't have a good session, you end up dwelling on the negative aspects of that time. I'm not saying it makes the issue you raise right and, as has also been noted, there are diplomatic ways to note your disappointment in a review but not everyone is that tactful, especially when they may feel they've been duped or worse.
As for walking on a lady, what do you do when she's a seemingly well respected, positively reviewed darling of the forum type? Aren't you more likely to want to give them the benefit of the doubt?
Something to consider when thinking about "society's views of attractiveness" is what images we've been fed. It's no secret that up until VERY recently (like the last 5 years), it was almost impossible to see an image of a fat woman where the intent of that image was to portray her as sexy or loveable or fuckable. The way we understand fat bodies in North America is as lazy, disgusting, unhealthy. That's no accident! Some fat people are those things, and some thin people are those things. It's completely possible to be hot AND fat. Can you think of a single image of a fat person where they aren't a headless jiggle of sad used on the news to caution us against the dangers of fatness? Or think of a fat character in a tv show or movie that was a lead role with complex inner world or a love interest, rather than a lonely girl bullied because of her body or sitting on the sidelines or a punching bag or anything other than a total joke?
Our desires are partly a product of the world we live in, and thin, white, able bodied humans are the thing we're told is attractive. I think it's revolutionary to love fat bodies and to want to fuck them. We are damn beautiful! Soft! Caressable! It feels good to touch us. I think the next step in body positivity is for the mainstream to understand that sexualizing fat bodies doesn't have to be an "i think you're beautiful because you're confident and smart, IN SPITE of your body", it can be "Your curves are incredible and the way you touch me makes me feel alive. I love your fat body"
Seriously. Get with the program.
Our desires are partly a product of the world we live in, and thin, white, able bodied humans are the thing we're told is attractive. I think it's revolutionary to love fat bodies and to want to fuck them. We are damn beautiful! Soft! Caressable! It feels good to touch us. I think the next step in body positivity is for the mainstream to understand that sexualizing fat bodies doesn't have to be an "i think you're beautiful because you're confident and smart, IN SPITE of your body", it can be "Your curves are incredible and the way you touch me makes me feel alive. I love your fat body"
Seriously. Get with the program.
Technically I’m not really a review board member. I just swing by every now and then to chat with few old Edmonton friends via PM. I’m a Twitter guy, Twitter members are constantly exposed and open to a world of possibilities around us that’s quite more expansive than what people are exposed to on the boards.Wow I never thought I would see the day that a man on perb gets how this can feel like being used and back stabbed in the worst way . Like I have always said.... if reviews on perb were a 2 way street, the men would certaininly think before ripping apart a girl , there are a few that seem to just like degrading certain Sps even when they have never seen the woman themselves , it becomes like a DOG pile on the band wagon ... pun totally intended
Twitter is really the best thing to happen to the industry. People’s tastes are evolving being exposed to a much larger SW universe.
