I'm left wondering if societies view of what is attractive has suddenly taken a large (pun intended) turn. Lots of larger size women advertising lately, and lots of guys reviewing or inquiring about these heavy set ladies. Please don't take this as judging, just curious what the appeal is because I have always been a slim/ athletic type when it comes to women.
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The best answer I can give you is, “It’s 2018, people are more open to a wider range of experiences than they were 10-15 years ago. It’s a positive change where every sexual desire can be explored. BBW, Tansexual, Pansexual, different fetishes, ect...
There’s something for everyone from every walk of life. The industry has simply become more diverse with a better representation of people from every walk of life.
We’re more open to a variety of experiences today.
There’s something for everyone from every walk of life. The industry has simply become more diverse with a better representation of people from every walk of life.
We’re more open to a variety of experiences today.
I like em' all.....they can be slim or full figured.....if they have the breast/ hip / waist ratio going on.....I'm good with it.
I've posted this one before but....
"9 outta 10 men prefer an hour glass figure.....that one guy, checks out the the other nine dudes....and drives a Ford"
I've posted this one before but....
"9 outta 10 men prefer an hour glass figure.....that one guy, checks out the the other nine dudes....and drives a Ford"
One of the few good things I can say about the Kardashians is that they broadened the scope of body types that our Western Society finds attractive. What was considered a BBW not that long ago, is now considered curvy, feminine and even fit.
I think it is a positive sign that we are diversifying in terms of what we consider sexy and attractive. Perhaps due to similar role models, curvier ladies are feeling more confident entering an industry that can be publicly judgmental and hurtful in reviews regarding appearance.
I think it is a positive sign that we are diversifying in terms of what we consider sexy and attractive. Perhaps due to similar role models, curvier ladies are feeling more confident entering an industry that can be publicly judgmental and hurtful in reviews regarding appearance.
Thanks for the replies, but I think people are getting the wrong image. I'm not talking Kardashian, full figure, curvy, etc... I am talking about no curves, gut hanging, rolls on the stomach and legs, cottage cheese on the legs, etc.. Kardashians are still petite compared to the escorts I see popping up. Think closer to 200 lbs and over. I have a friend who prefers ladies this size. Typically he won't even look at ladies under 200 lbs. But I have never met anyone else like him. Now recently it seems there is a growing (pun intended) interest in these ladies. Good for them, I'm just surprised to see all the interest.
There are lots of guys who like a woman with plenty of meat on their bones. Sure it's not for everyone but there is definitely a market out there for these SP's. I can think of a few who have been actively working in the Vancouver area for years and apparently biz is going strong.
Choice is good for everyone. I can't imagine these guys enjoying the SP's I visit who are more on the fit / petite side.
Choice is good for everyone. I can't imagine these guys enjoying the SP's I visit who are more on the fit / petite side.
I sincerely hope guys are starting to realize body shaming in reviews needs to/has to come to an end. It’s time for the review boards to get with the times. Guys who continue to body shame SP’s in their reviews will find themselves having difficulties booking with any SP’s anywhere.
I would have to agree with you somewhat.....and that's part of the new attitude here.
But....there is always the false advertiser, using the spinners photos.
If she uses a photo of a young lady and it's of a 95 pound person....and she's over 200, that needs to be brought up in a review...but it should be done with honesty, and perhaps a little compassion...I've seen both sides of the coin here in the past.
The shame should be in the false image in her advertisement, and perhaps her shame in how she feels about herself, and how she projected that image to her customer in a misleading way.
We are all built different, and we all feel different about ourselves....but you are what you've been given...just embrace it.
You are right, you can give an honest tasteful review, without being insulting.
Truer words have never been spoken by somebody who never wrote a review himself.
It can be a hard decision. I didn't bring myself to say anything in public about an advertiser who used old photos and got unexpected extra 30 pounds on her. False advertisement definitely. Yet I saw nothing wrong with her new body type, and more importantly remembered good old times with her.
But make no mistake, this kind of warning would be shared in private between members who, you know, actually contribute to the review forum.
Girls that society generally views as attractive tend to not need to be SPs to make ends meet
I agree. I’m not talking about false advertising. With the industy becoming more open to women of all shapes, there’s no reason to post fake pics. If someone is being dishonest it’s perfectly fair to write a bad review within the boundaries of using some tact.
Ex. “In her ad’s she claims to be a spinner but in Reality she is actually a BBW. She appears to be using pictures from 5-10 years ago.
Given how much things have changed, she shouldn’t feel the need to lie in her advertising. Since she was deceptive in her ad, I opted not to stay for session. I don’t want to send a message to anyone that it’s okay to be deceptive in their advertising.”
There are ways of writing reviews without being an asshole.
I make a strong effort to always keep my pictures current. I have never tried to be deceptive about how my body has changed. Yes, I used to be very fit, and much leaner than I am currently, & you can find those pictures floating around, but you know what? I have clients who have been visiting me consistently since I began, & they still enjoy seeing me as much as they ever did. Not all of them of course; some have a preference for a slimmer bod & can't get over how I used to look compared to how I look now. Another, more recent suitor, however, was alarmed at the notion that I might want to shed some of the belly. In fact, he practically begged me to keep my softer & more voluptuous curves. At the end of the day though, regardless of how much thicker my thighs are, what's between them is as tight sweet & juicy as it's ever been...& what's between my ears hasn't changed either. A lot of what makes a provider (or a person) sexy is their personality, their imagination, their intellect, & their libido. NONE of that is determined by how flat my abs are..
Honesty!!!!
Everyone is entitled to have their opinion of the kind of SP that they find attractive. In my opinion if the lady is confident with her body, and advertises herself with honest pictures and an honest description then all the power to her! I personally have a friend who is not the ideal partner for a lady that is considered a perfect 10 by society and told me himself that he prefers to see a SP that has a pretty face, is confident and if she's carrying some extra weight it makes it more comfortable for the both of them. He leaves feeling good about himself instead of feeling like the SP was cringing and faking it the entire time So why is it necessary to body shame another SP just because she's not ones type? If a SP is honest and posts and describes herself exactly as she is and is not your type just pass by and find your type. If society as a whole would stop body shaming, and expecting everyone to look like an airbrushed photo shopped picture in a magazine it would save a lot of us grief, time and money. Honesty is key. If the SP is honest, and if all this bait and switch and extortion and fake ads used just to lure an honest guy would cease then the honest SP wouldn't feel unsafe, and wouldn't ask so many questions, etc. I know a girl personally who is a SP and some nights she gets up to 10 fake bookings that go all the way to say that they are on their way and the time they will be there, and all of these fake ones seem to be asking for the same thing, for the same time and it frustrates her to the point where she sometimes just removes her post and both her and the good guy lose out. ( she is a good looking young lady with a great body and a kind heart too so it's sad that this happens to her)This doubt and gameplaying and crap that happens from both sides has to come to an end and we can all just have fun and enjoy life. What I don't like is guys going around acting like they are Brad Pitt when they are more of a Danny Devito type. That's just the same thing as a SP pretending that she is someone she's not. I have had amazing experiences with SP's who may not be a perfect 10 in societies standards but to me I remember a specific one that was the most beautiful and amazing person I have ever encountered. Just be honest and respectful guys, and the same goes for the SP ! Love each other!!! There is too much hate in this world already:hug:
Everyone is entitled to have their opinion of the kind of SP that they find attractive. In my opinion if the lady is confident with her body, and advertises herself with honest pictures and an honest description then all the power to her! I personally have a friend who is not the ideal partner for a lady that is considered a perfect 10 by society and told me himself that he prefers to see a SP that has a pretty face, is confident and if she's carrying some extra weight it makes it more comfortable for the both of them. He leaves feeling good about himself instead of feeling like the SP was cringing and faking it the entire time So why is it necessary to body shame another SP just because she's not ones type? If a SP is honest and posts and describes herself exactly as she is and is not your type just pass by and find your type. If society as a whole would stop body shaming, and expecting everyone to look like an airbrushed photo shopped picture in a magazine it would save a lot of us grief, time and money. Honesty is key. If the SP is honest, and if all this bait and switch and extortion and fake ads used just to lure an honest guy would cease then the honest SP wouldn't feel unsafe, and wouldn't ask so many questions, etc. I know a girl personally who is a SP and some nights she gets up to 10 fake bookings that go all the way to say that they are on their way and the time they will be there, and all of these fake ones seem to be asking for the same thing, for the same time and it frustrates her to the point where she sometimes just removes her post and both her and the good guy lose out. ( she is a good looking young lady with a great body and a kind heart too so it's sad that this happens to her)This doubt and gameplaying and crap that happens from both sides has to come to an end and we can all just have fun and enjoy life. What I don't like is guys going around acting like they are Brad Pitt when they are more of a Danny Devito type. That's just the same thing as a SP pretending that she is someone she's not. I have had amazing experiences with SP's who may not be a perfect 10 in societies standards but to me I remember a specific one that was the most beautiful and amazing person I have ever encountered. Just be honest and respectful guys, and the same goes for the SP ! Love each other!!! There is too much hate in this world already:hug:
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You can and should mention it in a review, without body shaming or being nasty. All you have to say is something like, "She's significantly heavier than her photos suggest, but it didn't bother me".
I have been 123lbs and I have been 223lbs and not ever has my weight ever changed the sexual skills that I possess. It's simple aesthetics and personal interests...
The guys who are “body shaming” have serious self esteem issues of their own. They hang out on reviews boards looking for high fives and pats on the back for being brutally honest when they’re really being assholes of the worst kind.Seems like most of the men that do the most shaming are the ones that hate themselves for whatever reason , but personally I think that kind of mindset is usually a big red flag about a man or a womaan ( judging others so superficially is just insensitive and mean ) , they are usually very unattractive on the insidejust IMHO
They’re confusing being an asshole with being honest. Most of the time being an asshole just makes you an asshole. Being honest requires compassion and respect for people other than yourself.
You are right Felix....I do deserve some shrapnel thrown my way for that.....but I have my reasons for not reviewing.
