Have you shown up and walked away.

[Fdupcanuck]

Hey guys, after reading a post on here about fake pics, I thought I'd see how others handle the situation.
I've been B&S'd a few times and generally I listen to the little head and just go along for the drain.

But I am getting older and seem to have less patience for stupid shit. When they advertise 22 but look 50 when you show up. Or have slim bodies on the ad, and are roly poly in person.
How does one walk away? Do you say, "sorry but you're nothing like the pictures"? Do you give them a $20 and walk? I don't want to be an asshole; I'm sure a lot of these women didn't dream about being an escort when they were a kid, but rather need the money.
And is it safe to just walk?

Any advice will be greatly appreciated.

 

[Wolf082020]

There's couple Asian ladies working gorge st and cormorant st that post multiple ads, pics, #'s
I kind have idea who they are..try hard to make sure it's not bait and switch.
If I've ever gotten to that I actually would walk out.
I did tell one that if I've seen her before that I would walk. She did say she'd demand $50 but I was pretty sure I knew who she was and that I told her she had 6 ads up on LL

 

[happymoments]

Yep just politely excuse yourself and walk. The ladies already know they are BnS or already gotten a few who have walked knowing they are not what they look like, part of the job like sales when they say nope.

You do not need to be a donkey to them, but if you get hassled, you could pay them a few dollars if you're in that far til you get used to walking. Personally, I've found looking for recent reviews and photos to be a better way to avoid the problem altogether as dealing with the problem is much more difficult than to find reputable providers.

An example is CBK Kelsey 7700 has a website and twitter, Asian Fever has their site (although some vods might be dated they have up to date reviews as well and you get an idea without an BNS). TEMPGF puts up real photos as well as Coco Luxxxe VME and WCA. 1122 and outlook group are good choices as well. If you're into MP's etc, then go to the ones people have well reviewed already such as Dragon Spa, Sasa, great pharoah, QT, SL, Tiger (lately debatable LOL).

Point is, you can see the lineups but if you're browsing through LL late at night and TOFTT etc, it's a hit and miss, then just gotta get used to saying Not today and politely excusing yourself.

 

[Fdupcanuck]

Yep just politely excuse yourself and walk. The ladies already know they are BnS or already gotten a few who have walked knowing they are not what they look like, part of the job like sales when they say nope.

You do not need to be a donkey to them, but if you get hassled, you could pay them a few dollars if you're in that far til you get used to walking. Personally, I've found looking for recent reviews and photos to be a better way to avoid the problem altogether as dealing with the problem is much more difficult than to find reputable providers.

An example is CBK Kelsey 7700 has a website and twitter, Asian Fever has their site (although some vods might be dated they have up to date reviews as well and you get an idea without an BNS). TEMPGF puts up real photos as well as Coco Luxxxe VME and WCA. 1122 and outlook group are good choices as well. If you're into MP's etc, then go to the ones people have well reviewed already such as Dragon Spa, Sasa, great pharoah, QT, SL, Tiger (lately debatable LOL).

Point is, you can see the lineups but if you're browsing through LL late at night and TOFTT etc, it's a hit and miss, then just gotta get used to saying Not today and politely excusing yourself.

Thanks man, much appreciated! Basically, don't be a dick but don't take shit either.
Asian Fever is my go to when in Van. Love that site and the women on it! But you nailed it with late night, bad choices browsing lol. AND I'm going to be in Nanaimo for 5 months and know the pickings aren't a plenty.
Cheers.

 

[Class]

Some of the Asians have handlers who put the ads up and book the appointments. Having said that, the handlers are robbing them blind, expecting the girls to pay for the accommodation and then the take half of what is charged. They would do much better as independents but don’t have the ability to communicate well in English. The handlers are glorified pimps.

 

[happymoments]

Some of the Asians have handlers who put the ads up and book the appointments. Having said that, the handlers are robbing them blind, expecting the girls to pay for the accommodation and then the take half of what is charged. They would do much better as independents but don’t have the ability to communicate well in English. The handlers are glorified pimps.

now that's interesting indeed...

I guess the handlers have gotten away with it for soo long they can continue to do so ... guess they need better pimps LOL

 

[luvsdaty]

Been doing this off and on for a long time and I've only ever walked twice. Just said sorry this ain't gonna work,turned around and walked away

 

[RedDragon64]

Some of the Asians have handlers who put the ads up and book the appointments

This was my experience with an online provider in Singapore. They had pics of ~20 ladies to choose from so I printed their front page. When they lady arrived she looked alright, but didn't look like any of the ladies in the photos. I handed her the printout and asked which one was her. She looked, and looked, and finally pointed to one that obviously wasn't her. I handed her $20 for her troubles, opened the door and invited her to leave. It wasn't her fault, she had simply been sent over by her handler.

Then I had a long text exchange with her handler who kept insisting that all his web photos were photoshopped, but that she was definitely the girl in the pic. I told him I was a photographer and know what filtered/shopped photos looked like... and that none of his posted photos were shopped. They were all simple selfies.

Sometimes it feels better to stand up for your principals than to succumb to letting the little head do the thinking for you.

 

[inti-mate]

Had that experience at a massage. But felt guilty once there. The person was completely different than the picture. When the massage started, it was really bad, so after 10 minutes I just paid the fee and said something has come up and had to leave. They got paid and could book someone else. I got out of there. It is such a challenging situation. It was a private residence and their own business so they didnt have to pay half to an owner.

 

[Bollsdeap]

I've definitely stuck it out a handful of times when I showed up and the girl on the bed was not the girl in the photo.

I've walked out only three times. One was MUCH older than advertised. One looked waaaaay too young. And one was just too .... well, ugly. Likely a homeless woman and/or a SW who scraped together enough for a motel room for the day to try to make some cash.

One of them (the old one) hassled me by text after I walked. But after I assured her I would not badmouth her in the reviews, she let it drop.

After many years in this hobby there have been many others where I knew it was going to be bad and should have walked. But, once you get a head of steam ...

It's a live-and-learn hobby.

 

[ThickAF]

I used LL for a long time, still check it out but honestly I should have walked on more. I have walked when the door opens and they don't match their photos. Just excuse yourself out and leave. It's easier than you think and you'll thank yourself you didn't just waste $$$.

 

[Chuckerbie]

I’ve walked a few times, never an incident. As has been mentioned: be polite and clear and realistically they don’t want you to be there if you don’t want to be there.

Twice from bamboo a long time ago. On arrival I enquired about FS, the lady didnt do it or wasn’t interested in it with me. I politely declined the appointment at that point and left. No issues.

I showed up at SU once & the lady was loaded - bad smell of booze. We went to the room, she was tripping in her heels and was out of it. I told her I didn’t feel comfortable spending time with her when she was under the influence. She was irritated and said she had to talk to the mgr. I waited in the front room , the mgr came out and said I could leave or see another lady. I left.
Another time @ SU I walked, no chemistry- nothing you can do about it. I brought it up, and said I’m happy to cut the appointment short. “You’re not getting and $$ back” were the first words out of her mouth. I said I understood and wanted to leave anyway. She was irritated but I left.

 

[Chuckerbie]

I never have, but I sure wish I had on occasion.
If going to an Asian independent or agency one just has to expect the photos are phoney.

 

[Fire And Ice]

It wasn't really a "walk", but one time I went for a massage, and the provider was much older than advertised. I followed through with the appointment and got a decent massage. When it came time for the flip I politely said "I'm good, thanks". I knew there was no way in hell I was gonna get hard for her!

 

[TheBestClientEver!]

Yeah, there was a complaint thread on here someplace, like at the place where the service providers complain about clients that are rude, offensive, act really inappropriate in a variety of ways ect ect.... One thread, the ladies where all talking tons of crap about this guy, who would book an date, show up, and as soon as the Sp opens the door he would see them, and kind of smile this insincere smile and walk away with out saying a word. They were saying it was such bad behavior, but this is a problem they were causing for themselves. This was happening because the poor guy wasn't searching diligently for the sp haveing "my pics are accurate" on their site, or near their pics. It's a huge mistake and could be avoided, and it's also a huge mistake the sp are dishonest, they basicly are luring clients into booking dates with someone that won't be there. But it's a mistake! They should say their pics are "touched up" (that'll never happen for obvious reasons) or just have accurate pics... (that might not happen either for obvious reasons) but I've seen lots of sp's who look alot older, rougher around the edges, not all smooth ect ect. One lady said she was 38, but when she opened up the door and we were face to face, she was probably 58....This is the big mistake, because we as clients and them as sp are both spending lots of time to do our thing, and not being upfront or honest is 10lbs of "not good" in a 5lb bag.

 

[Wolf082020]

Can we agree that majority of fake ads are asian?
bait and switch

 

[TheBestClientEver!]

I never take them seriously and never look at them for more then a second. I hear so much trouble about the Asian fakness...

 

[Bridge]

Thanks man, much appreciated! Basically, don't be a dick but don't take shit either.
Asian Fever is my go to when in Van. Love that site and the women on it! But you nailed it with late night, bad choices browsing lol. AND I'm going to be in Nanaimo for 5 months and know the pickings aren't a plenty.
Cheers.

There are some great people in Nanaimo. Do your research, ask around, stick to a few people, and don't go off the grid! Talk to Lady Vanessa.

 

[Bridge]

Thanks man, much appreciated! Basically, don't be a dick but don't take shit either.
Asian Fever is my go to when in Van. Love that site and the women on it! But you nailed it with late night, bad choices browsing lol. AND I'm going to be in Nanaimo for 5 months and know the pickings aren't a plenty.
Cheers.

Or Chelsea ..... check the reviews here and elsewhere.

 

[TOMMYG]

Hey guys, after reading a post on here about fake pics, I thought I'd see how others handle the situation.
I've been B&S'd a few times and generally I listen to the little head and just go along for the drain.

But I am getting older and seem to have less patience for stupid shit. When they advertise 22 but look 50 when you show up. Or have slim bodies on the ad, and are roly poly in person.
How does one walk away? Do you say, "sorry but you're nothing like the pictures"? Do you give them a $20 and walk? I don't want to be an asshole; I'm sure a lot of these women didn't dream about being an escort when they were a kid, but rather need the money.
And is it safe to just walk?

Any advice will be greatly appreciated.

Easy. Give them nothing, turn around and walk. It is not good for anyone to stay, it just encourages them.