Excuse me? Whether an sp is going through tough times or not, it is not her place to put it on a client. This type of behaviour causes less clients as they won't stick around if there is risk of being burned, played or threatened. I have heard a few disturbing stories in recent weeks from clients and if those ladies keep that shit up, we may as well get used to a drought of clients as that's where things will be headed. Those ladies should not be in this business, and if they can't sort there finances with the very good pay they recieve, it is their problem, not their clients. New ladies to the industry is not something new, there are plenty of things a good provider can do to stir up more buisness. As for providers that are not known for consistent service causing questionable or poor reviews, what did they expect to happen? You can't expect gentlemen to spend a pretty penny on those who have proven to be more a negative experience for multiple reasons time and time again. And to those, they did it to themselves.
Although I have to agree with a majority of what your saying that it makes SP's look bad in general anyone of them asking for a loan. This apparently happened with a very reputable SP that provides a good service. It may not be poor money management, it may be she's slower then usual or there's something she may want to buy / invest in that is going to take more then a few weeks work to pay for, she asked about loan sharks.
I remember there was one club owner years ago that made loans to many dancer's. I never borrowed from him because he kinda scared me & other then needing the money to buy a house & went to Thunderbay & danced my ass off for a month. It was a long hard month away from my kids & home, but I made the down payment. It may have been easier to borrow it & pay back in installments but I'm very anal about monies owed. I'd rather have it & not have any paying back to do. It weighs heavy on a persons mind.
I'm just speculating here, maybe shes burning out & did in a very distasteful way by leading someone on first then inquiring about place/places for a loan. Loans easier for her & she can take some time off. I don't even recall reading an amount, if there was one I missed it.
I'm going to use an example here. I know a wonderful man & I've asked him to do some photo's this week. I did mention in the email that I would like to get a room but lets see what my finance's are like at the end of the week as I'm saving for my trip next month & of course bill's to pay like everyone else. That can be taken by him in many ways, he may think I said that in hopes he will rent one if I can't afford to. No what it meant was if I have some extra money floating around I'd like to get a room so I can have some different backgrounds then just my own place all the time. February one's were done in a hotel by a very funny, witty, fantastic member here
thanks again.
This is where we all go making assumption's about people & their situation's again. If it's not pimp's it's drug's, now it's loans. I'm just saying I have seen so many people with their assumptions & really who are we to pass judgement on someone we don't know, or maybe we do. Her situation what she wanted the money for. Her money management skill's. Then there's the 2x200 a day+7 blah blah blah. Another assumption that SP's phone's are ringing off the hook, our doors are a revolving door, we have nothing but time to sit around daily to take call's constant.
The original poster hasn't even been back to comment on it again. I took the original post as a question & then a warning. No one else has come on & even said oh I know who your talking about, she said & did the same to me. Certain SP's know from past experience that when a post gets out there with information about personal things it can be hurtful mentally & financially. Puts them into a situation that could put them in harms way. I myself being one with that crazed fellow making false accusations, slandering me & causing me much grief & anxiety. The original poster didn't fall for it & if someone does, Karrma is a real bitch.
