That's not very nice of them, sharing their private sex lives with co-workers. No respect there at all toward the husband/bf.
For me, pooning hasn't ruin me yet. No matter how good an SP is, there just isn't an emotional attachment. I want to be able to see my favorite girl more than just 1 hour at a time. I want the exclusivity found only in a relationship.
Pooning for me is just easy sex with hot chicks that I have little chance with in real life.