Has Anyone Had Feels For A Provider?

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Kimura

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I fell in love with one, still in love with her, she became one of my best friends that I see her weekly .she has a SO right now so I have to respect that but sometimes you just know life will come full circle, too much in common, too many feelings, too much caring about someone’s life and future . It’s hard but I’m happy because I still have a huge impact on her day to day life, that’s love ❤
 

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Different twist on this topic...has anyone avoided seeing a SP because they think they WILL develop feelings based on whatever info available (looks or more so, their personality via social media) ?? I am procrastinating booking at least 2 providers because of that. Also cuz I need to drop 20lbs to feel worthy 😛
Ive has too many social interactions to know that looks and credentials are not the thing that plucks Cupid’s bow. It looks great in theory but you can’t know until you meet the person. If you do, you’re falling in love with ideals and not the person.

I dated one SP that I knew I shouldn’t see them after the first time. Saw them 2 more times and then stopped for a month.

I went to see them one last time and the intent was to confess and then leave, expecting never to see them again.

The surprise was when they said they felt a lot of chemistry and was hoping I would come back. Dated until they went back to Asia.

I may get criticized here but if a woman is the fuel that sparks the will power to lose 20lbs, that’s great!

If you can stand to lose that weight it’a going to be better for your health and longevity/quality of life. As for being worthy. You’re worthy as you are. Big or small fat or skinny.
 
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I try not to. Why make an uncomplicated relationship complicated? Yes, I enjoy their company, but I like the "friends with benefits" vibe you get from seeing an SP
 
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hockeyfan42`

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Down to the conclusion, maybe it's time for y'all to sign up for Ashley Madison or Seeking Arrangement and use that hard earned pooning cash on there...
Yeah exactly, far less expensive, higher quality girls, and if you actually want a connection its way easier. plus theres plenty of girls on seeking who dont even want ppm and just use it to date rich guys
 
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heyhowareyou

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Yeah exactly, far less expensive, higher quality girls, and if you actually want a connection its way easier. plus theres plenty of girls on seeking who dont even want ppm and just use it to date rich guys
Oh ya i forgot the old saying, "money talks, bullshit walks".
 

Chuckerbie

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I had very strong feelings for a MP. Her passion was amazing. Of course nothing could happen as for a relationship. But as time went on I realized what she was giving me was just an incredible believable act.
But danm it I still think of her daily.
 
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I don't think sex is ever free. You'll always pay for it in some way.
While I agree that taking girls on dates etc is spending money for sex technically (albeit alot less expensive). Have you never had a girls from a dating app just come over for sex? or never taken a girl home from the bar or a house party? those are free. But I agree, usually when Im paying for an SP its paying her to leave and for the convenience factor since my fuckbuddies arent likely to come over during my lunchbreak, have sex and leave as soon as I bust a nut.
 
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Buddyguy66

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I must admit to the feels, then I'm reminded its bs when the only time I hear from her is when I book an appointment (or things are a little slow for her and she throws a lure out there)
 
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Once you go black

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While I agree that taking girls on dates etc is spending money for sex technically (albeit alot less expensive). Have you never had a girls from a dating app just come over for sex? or never taken a girl home from the bar or a house party? those are free. But I agree, usually when Im paying for an SP its paying her to leave and for the convenience factor since my fuckbuddies arent likely to come over during my lunchbreak, have sex and leave as soon as I bust a nut.
I actually prefer sex when you hang out ( either cause you met at a party / bar or on a date ) for a couple hrs first and the sexual tension builds organically before hooking up .
If I could afford it I’d pay for an hour of hang out time with providers first as well, and probably a half hr after for hang time in the sheets too .
 

Buddyguy66

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I actually prefer sex when you hang out ( either cause you met at a party / bar or on a date ) for a couple hrs first and the sexual tension builds organically before hooking up .
If I could afford it I’d pay for an hour of hang out time with providers first as well, and probably a half hr after for hang time in the sheets too .
I agree. Recently had a 4 hour date with a favorite. Lovely dinner fun intimate cuddle and chat after. It was WONDERFUL
 
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