Has anyone ever tried to pay for sex from a girl who wasn't an SP?

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Has this ever been done? I like going on PERB for a good review and checking out SPs, but has anyone ever made an 'indecent proposal' to a non-SP? Either someone you just met, or somewhat know, or know very well? I think the idea of being able to have sex with women you meet in real life, every day settings is a way bigger turn on than going to visit an SP you saw on the internet. Even if you have to pay for it still.
 

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Has this ever been done? I like going on PERB for a good review and checking out SPs, but has anyone ever made an 'indecent proposal' to a non-SP? Either someone you just met, or somewhat know, or know very well? I think the idea of being able to have sex with women you meet in real life, every day settings is a way bigger turn on than going to visit an SP you saw on the internet. Even if you have to pay for it still.
I dunno...my challenge is all the guys that aren't actually into a girl, but just want it for free...imagine the shock to their system when I let them know that they can have it, for $200! :pound:
 

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Or a fantasy that needs to be played out. That might be how to approach the lady as well. You have a fantasy of having hot sex with a stranger and paying her for it.
But, you don't ask her directly. You ask her if she knows of anyone who might be willing to entertain such a proposition. Less likely to get a slap in the face, and if she is up for it, she may well tell you.
 

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Has this ever been done? I like going on PERB for a good review and checking out SPs, but has anyone ever made an 'indecent proposal' to a non-SP? Either someone you just met, or somewhat know, or know very well? I think the idea of being able to have sex with women you meet in real life, every day settings is a way bigger turn on than going to visit an SP you saw on the internet. Even if you have to pay for it still.
Murphy's law says you might get free play since there are woman out there that can't say no to a indecent proposal.
 

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I dunno...my challenge is all the guys that aren't actually into a girl, but just want it for free...imagine the shock to their system when I let them know that they can have it, for $200! :pound:
Yes agree Alex LOL
I usually point those guys to CL/ers/bp... I also find it really funny how offended those guys are when they ask me for NSA hookups and I ask for a rate... Whats with the double standard?! Nothing is ever free ;)


TBH before I was in this industry, I got propositioned a number of times... I accepted once and that was when I became interested in the line of work... I think some ladies would be very offended, I was just curious.


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Once while walking in Yaletown I said hello to a girl and she was so friendly and interested in me that I could not believe she was a normal girl.
I was not even looking at the time.
So I asked her if she would consider spending some time with me and it took her a little by surprise.
I don't think she really understood and then when she did clue in I think she was confused as to why I would have felt the need to ask such a thing...
This was like 12 years ago.
 

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Has this ever been done? I like going on PERB for a good review and checking out SPs, but has anyone ever made an 'indecent proposal' to a non-SP? Either someone you just met, or somewhat know, or know very well? I think the idea of being able to have sex with women you meet in real life, every day settings is a way bigger turn on than going to visit an SP you saw on the internet. Even if you have to pay for it still.
Yes, I have successfully done this once and ONLY once, but the circumstances were not typical. A female friend who I knew for several years,
was having a few financial difficulties. I DID NOT use this to take advantage of her. (keep reading).
We were having coffee one day, she was talking about her money troubles. She had a sense of humour and jokingly said to me "I'm going to
have to start selling my ass soon to get ahead." I was only (kind of) joking when I replied, "Let me know, I'll be your first client". She responds
with "Ya right, like you would pay for an escort." I told her it wouldn't be the first time, with a little smirk on my face. After that, she moved on,
to a different topic, but I could see in her face, her mind looking back and forth at the angel and devil on her shoulders. Then sure enough, she
pops up and asks, "How much does an escort make these days anyways?" After I told her the average $$ minimum, her mouth dropped to the
floor and said "Holy Shit, and guys pay that?" (At this point I think I seen a lightbulb on her head and dollar signs in her eyes). She never got off
the topic for the remainder of our coffee date. She once joked and said "When I was married, I gave sex to my husband every night and got
McDonald's once a week for it." After we parted that day, I was at home, she called me later and asked me if I was serious when I said I would
"be her first client". You can all anticipate the rest of the evening. It went well.
 

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Has this ever been done? I like going on PERB for a good review and checking out SPs, but has anyone ever made an 'indecent proposal' to a non-SP? Either someone you just met, or somewhat know, or know very well? I think the idea of being able to have sex with women you meet in real life, every day settings is a way bigger turn on than going to visit an SP you saw on the internet. Even if you have to pay for it still.
Thats what I'd do if I won the lottery, offer $$$ to every hot girl I met
 

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I've done it I picked up a very cute coffee girl at the casino when she got off work to give her a ride home, she was Russian. She told me she didn't make enough money if I knew where a better job was available, I told her I regularity pick up girls and pay them for sex. Long story short after parking for an hr talking to her I pulled out 4 greens and ravished a very lovely young thing. She worked as a SW for years later and frequented the Joyce strip area, I always got a great deal from her but she became a high priced gal, Maria she was gorgeous!
I would have been ready to die after that experience, Russian women are my fantasy.
 

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You do understand that to do so is procuring and contrary to Section 212(1)(d) of the criminal code (one of the protitution laws not overturned in the Bedford case) and carries a penalty of imprisonment not to exceed ten years?
doesn't procurement require that you are doing it for a third person? i.e., acting as a pimp? i don't know, it's just an impression i had
 

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I was curious about this csenario because I know girls might need a little incentive to get frisky, even if they don't want to be an sp. Some situations I could see this working are:

With a girl you've met that you've been texting with. You know her, but don't have any mutual friends. If it doesnt work you never have to see her again.
Possibly with a female friend who needs money, who has talked about sps and strippers without morally bashing them.
A girl you know who isn't an sp but is friends with some, and she isn't too uptight about things like sex and drugs.
 

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You know when you are out and your server is more than a little flirty? Yah, I have thought about it but never followed through with it ;)

This topic reminds me of when Little Asian Guy was posting this stuff. :D
 

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Nerd, your line - "Once while walking in Yaletown I said hello to a girl and she was so friendly and interested in me that I could not believe she was a normal girl." cracked me up.

Word to the wise - when women are friendly and interested in you DON'T offer them $ for sex. ;) If they want money you will learn that quickly enough.

Here's one for you, unrelated to propositioning, but still dumb. I was driving in downtown Van and noticed a truly beautiful young woman sitting at a bus stop. As I drove by we made eye contact that compelled me to circle the block. When I got around to her again I pulled over and offered her a ride. She accepted. As we drove we both were smiling a lot and chatting like old friends, very comfortable we both were. I was so relaxed and comfortable with her and my guard was completed down (the guard that stops one from saying stupid things) and I told her she was incredibly beautiful. She smiled and thanked me for the compliment. I went on to say that she reminded me of a GUY that I went to school with. :) Really. Talk about a mood killer. What I said is that she reminded me of a guy, what she heard is that I said she looked like a guy. Man, we drove in near silence the rest of the way to her place. She slammed my car door and stomped away. I tried to explain but there was no explaining that level of stupid. And she was fine, and we had hit it off so wonderfully to that point. Since then I try not to tell women they look like guys. :)
 

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Nerd, your line - "Once while walking in Yaletown I said hello to a girl and she was so friendly and interested in me that I could not believe she was a normal girl." cracked me up.

Word to the wise - when women are friendly and interested in you DON'T offer them $ for sex. ;) If they want money you will learn that quickly enough.

Here's one for you, unrelated to propositioning, but still dumb. I was driving in downtown Van and noticed a truly beautiful young woman sitting at a bus stop. As I drove by we made eye contact that compelled me to circle the block. When I got around to her again I pulled over and offered her a ride. She accepted. As we drove we both were smiling a lot and chatting like old friends, very comfortable we both were. I was so relaxed and comfortable with her and my guard was completed down (the guard that stops one from saying stupid things) and I told her she was incredibly beautiful. She smiled and thanked me for the compliment. I went on to say that she reminded me of a GUY that I went to school with. :) Really. Talk about a mood killer. What I said is that she reminded me of a guy, what she heard is that I said she looked like a guy. Man, we drove in near silence the rest of the way to her place. She slammed my car door and stomped away. I tried to explain but there was no explaining that level of stupid. And she was fine, and we had hit it off so wonderfully to that point. Since then I try not to tell women they look like guys. :)
lol, Yes, I think that telling a girl she looked like a guy would be up there with asking why she didn't shave her mustache. There are times when a guy has planted his foot in his mouth so firmly that he knows he has no hope with that girl no matter what he says or does.
 

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You know when you are out and your server is more than a little flirty? Yah, I have thought about it but never followed through with it ;)

This topic reminds me of when Little Asian Guy was posting this stuff. :D
I have had a server ask if I'd be interested in "helping her out"
Never went back to the restaurant. To me, TOFTT with a lady that has no reputation is for the young guys that haven't already been burned.
 

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I have had a server ask if I'd be interested in "helping her out"
Never went back to the restaurant. To me, TOFTT with a lady that has no reputation is for the young guys that haven't already been burned.
Funny same here but I was with an SP after a fun afternoon we went out for drinks and appies. We were both very attracted to the server and I thought at one point the SP might just grab the server. I was thinking the server might not be ready for this one haha. Then the server said she had a cold and was going home, sigh. Woulda Coulda Shouda.
 
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yeah probably a good idea not to tell girls they remind your of a guy you once knew...
Nerd, your line - "Once while walking in Yaletown I said hello to a girl and she was so friendly and interested in me that I could not believe she was a normal girl." cracked me up.

Word to the wise - when women are friendly and interested in you DON'T offer them $ for sex. ;) If they want money you will learn that quickly enough.

Here's one for you, unrelated to propositioning, but still dumb. I was driving in downtown Van and noticed a truly beautiful young woman sitting at a bus stop. As I drove by we made eye contact that compelled me to circle the block. When I got around to her again I pulled over and offered her a ride. She accepted. As we drove we both were smiling a lot and chatting like old friends, very comfortable we both were. I was so relaxed and comfortable with her and my guard was completed down (the guard that stops one from saying stupid things) and I told her she was incredibly beautiful. She smiled and thanked me for the compliment. I went on to say that she reminded me of a GUY that I went to school with. :) Really. Talk about a mood killer. What I said is that she reminded me of a guy, what she heard is that I said she looked like a guy. Man, we drove in near silence the rest of the way to her place. She slammed my car door and stomped away. I tried to explain but there was no explaining that level of stupid. And she was fine, and we had hit it off so wonderfully to that point. Since then I try not to tell women they look like guys. :)
 
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