Has anyone done this...

[CisForCookie]

You set something up with a SP based on her pictures/ad...you show up at the in-call but it's not the girl in the picture or a huge misinterpretation of that girl...

have you ever left?

Is this problematic for you or is it quite alright...(no activities have taken place, you've simply have just met you haven't even sat down or taken off your coat). What would you say to her for not wanting to continue the session and would you just pay her a green for taking the booking but sorry you don't want to proceed any further...

 

[logsplitter]

Is this problematic for you or is it quite alright...(no activities have taken place, you've simply have just met you haven't even sat down or taken off your coat). What would you say to her for not wanting to continue the session and would you just pay her a green for taking the booking but sorry you don't want to proceed any further...

Hey if I telephone someone and the voice on the pick up is unfamiliar I hang up (Sorry wrong number). Same goes here.

 

[Avery]

This issue has come up on other boards before. The general consensus is that if it's a bait-and-switch, i.e., it's not even the same girl, you should pay absolutely nothing, and leave.

If she doesn't match her description, it's a judgement call to a certain extent. If she told you she weighed 120 and she's more like 220, she doesn't deserve anything. That's a blatant misrepresentation. If she said 120, but weighs around 135, i.e. only a minor exaggeration, and you still don't want to see her, perhaps you should give her something and say, "I'm sorry, but you're not what I expected", or something equally polite. Don't be nasty, just be polite but firm.

 

[Up_My_Kilt]

bait and switch

hey honesty in advertising pays ... I (we) are paying for a service ..if the person is dishonest about her looks .. what does that say about the service she says she will provide?

I say leave right away

 

[chuck]

This issue has come up on other boards before. The general consensus is that if it's a bait-and-switch, i.e., it's not even the same girl, you should pay absolutely nothing, and leave.

If she doesn't match her description, it's a judgement call to a certain extent. If she told you she weighed 120 and she's more like 220, she doesn't deserve anything. That's a blatant misrepresentation. If she said 120, but weighs around 135, i.e. only a minor exaggeration, and you still don't want to see her, perhaps you should give her something and say, "I'm sorry, but you're not what I expected", or something equally polite. Don't be nasty, just be polite but firm.

I would agree wityh Avery, leave if it is definitely the wrong description of the girl. If it is just something like the weight or say the age ie. saying she is 24 and in fact she is actually 30 or whatever. It should be at your discretion otherwise nobody would be pooning.

Yeah..... I reached 200 bring out the bubbly!!

 

[sexysynners]

I think the girls should be upfront and honest..
What one guy may not like the other one will... There is a type for everyone.
Also, in today's technology,such as perb and other sites...why would you go in blind? Do some homework,do your research and you should get what you are looking for.

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

Tell her "You're not the girl in the picture" and walk out. Pay nothing.

 

[gotsome2004]

Cancellaton fee

I like the idea but really now, you`re in her room with your shoes and jacket off and she`s standing there right in front of you expecting the agreed donation. You`re trapped!
The only way to avoid these unpleasant encounters is to get good reviews ahead of time. When I heard about perb I gave warning about a bad sp in my first ever post:

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=19977

Interestingly enough the agency responded to my post with a free courtesy session should I return to Vancouver.

 

[bigben]

In the sales business, this is called "bait & switch". Something is advertised, then when the buyer comes around, the advertised product/service is intentionlly replaced by another product/service in the anticipation that the buyer will pay for the replacement.

Don't fall for it... if you didn't get what was advertised you have the 100% right to walk away. It's false advertising and it's dishonest and the SP only stands to lose repeat clients.

The sad thing is that most of the SPs who advertise falsely don't need to! As has been stated, tastes vary greatly and Winnipeg is fortunate to have enough great SPs to suit every almost taste.

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

...You're trapped!...

Trapped?!?!?! WTF???
What is she going to do? If you grab your shit and head to the door. Beat the crap out of ya? Call the cops? WHAT??!
wow...

 

[logsplitter]

Sometimes, I presume, there may be a good reason for a 'stand in'. eg. you have an appt. with her. Something comes up and she cannot make her appt. with you and respectfully she does not contact you because that would not be appropriate for her to call you. Anyway instead of leaving you standing at the door and her not opening it because she is not there she asks a friend to step in for her (many sp's have friends in the business).

In such a case where the lady is not the one that you thought that you booked you say where is so and so. If she says she asked her to stand in due to an unavoidable delay then you have every right to say I accept or I pass and it should be received properly by the sp and no tip required but you may consider a green if you are the generous type and appreciate the consideration given.

If she is the same lady but not what was advertised I would tell her to clean up her ad and walk away. No tip no nothing!

 

[Avery]

Sometimes, I presume, there may be a good reason for a 'stand in'. eg. you have an appt. with her. Something comes up and she cannot make her appt. with you and respectfully she does not contact you because that would not be appropriate for her to call you. Anyway instead of leaving you standing at the door and her not opening it because she is not there she asks a friend to step in for her (many sp's have friends in the business).

A much better way of handling such situations is for all the ladies to implement a confirmation policy. They should require all clients to call, perhaps one hour before an appointment, to reconfirm. That way, the clients can be informed of any problems that may have cropped up, and the SP can make the offer of another lady if she wishes. As long as an accurate description of the substitute SP is given to the client, that should spare both him and the substitute SP from potential embarrassment at the door.

If the situation is an emergency that requires the escort to be away from home, she can surely leave a brief message for her clients on her answering machine. That way, when the clients call to reconfirm, they'll know the date is off. Simply having a surprise substitute greet the clients at the door is not an acceptable practice, IMO.

 

[farmboy]

Hmmmm...

Its kinda like going to a restuaraunt and ordering New York steak , and they bring you a hot dog as a replacment (same price)! What would YOU do??
I am still constantly amazed that in a industry that is STRICTLY customer service oriented that there is handfull of girls out there who misrepresent them selves so badly! A slight discrection is understandable, but in some cases they are so far off, that it is totaaly unbelievable. There is stretching the truth , or "forgetting" to mention something, but outright dishonesty only gives the whole industry a bad name, and creates a huge amount of distrust.
If your 200lbs and 50 years old, you might as well be upfront about it , rather than waste everyones time. If there is a market for 200lb , 50 year olds, those clients willcome to you , and if you have to lie to get someone to at least show up & then run, may I suggest a different line of work!
Enough Said! Thats why I like my regular!

 

[BYSON]

i have been surfing 3yrs and i notice some of the sp's havn't had a birthday in 3 damm years

 

[ace85]

They are counting on guys not walking out.

The whole purpose of the misleading information is, not that you won't notice when you get there.

I recognize that some girls might think they are a little more attractive than they really are.

Also some men have no clue how attractive a 145 lb woman might be (thinking the number means fat).

But over all these ladies are simply counting on the fact when some guys get there, the guy will either not care and pay her anyway, or not have the heart to reject them and walk out.

The funniest thing is not that these girls BS, but some guy will say "well she said she was attractive, but she was really a troll, I am so pissed of that I had to pay 200 to spend a 1/2 hour with that beast".

If you hand over the money in any situation you lose the right to complain about the girls attractiveness.

 

[Herb_The_Perb]

I like the idea but really now, you're in her room with your shoes and jacket off and she's standing there right in front of you expecting the agreed donation. You're trapped!

Why did you take your shoes and jacket off?