Has an SP ever said "I love you" in the middle of a passionate session?
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I can't recall an SP ever saying it but I have heard it from 3 or 4 different dancers over the years, The first time, I can't explain how good it made me feel. That dancer meant a lot to me and her saying that meant so much to me... (I posted about it years ago -- and even copied the post over to my blog. It's the one titled A Strip Club Serenade for anyone who might be interested.)
The second time I heard it from a dancer, I didn't know what to think. Hard to explain the dynamic she and I had at the time. I've thought about posting something about this one at one time but I've never been able to think straight when it came to her. I'll try to make a long convoluted story short. Basically after my all time favorite VIP dancer moved on, I chose a dancer who I knew was an "all about the cash" type. Someone for whom I figured there was no way I was going to develop any sort of emotional entanglement. I had had enough of that sort of thing and I just wanted to be able to enjoy the physical aspect of things without the emotionally confusing side. And it worked for a while and I started to spend a fair amount of time with her and most of the time she'd be "on" and "in character". But you spend that much time with someone and every once in a while she'd let her guard down (or if she was playing the game, go into another "character" -- the truth is looking back, I can't even be sure anymore... I guess I never really was...) and in one particularly unguarded moment, as a response to some off the cuff joke I made, she said it. After that, she'd say it often in parting. One day, I finally broke and said it back to her. Within a week, she straight up tried to play me and everything between us went to shit (I also cryptically referenced this whole thing in a thread years ago. It too is one of my blog posts. Titled, "Is it foolish to utter the love word in the pooning world?" Again, if anyone is interested.)
There have been two more dancers that I can remember saying it but dancer #2 whom I wrote about above broke me when it comes to hearing it (or fixed me, depending on your POV, I guess) that, to me, it has become just another meaningless thing a dancer will say and I just react pretty much blankly to. Hell, the last one who said it to me was someone I'd known for years and with whom I had honestly had a GREAT rapport. I must have stared at her so blankly, she felt the need to repeat it as though she believed I didn't hear it the first time. I imagine that if she had said it years earlier, it probably would've meant a lot to me then as well. But now... I'm just not that guy anymore.
I love you can mean a few different things .
Not necessarily u want to spend the rest of my live with you.
I have one girl that I met as an escort and have been good friends for the last 8 yrs we are able to say to each other " I love you" and it means a lot to each of us.
Not necessarily u want to spend the rest of my live with you.
I have one girl that I met as an escort and have been good friends for the last 8 yrs we are able to say to each other " I love you" and it means a lot to each of us.
No i would actually prefer sp say L word. Im more into real GFE than just quick release.If an sp says it to a client without it being discussed beforehand as part of a fantasy roleplay scenario ...wouldn't it freak some (or most) guys out?
As much as I want the pleasure i kinda hope sp too have the similar pleasure with me. I currently live by myself in a secluded area cuz of the work and dont get to meet ladies so in a occasion when i see a sp i want to feel like i am being loved. Its just my preference
I thought she said "I love you", but when pressed about it later admitted she said "I loathe you".
Ciara flat out stated 'you wanna marry this pussy, don't you?' That was a bit strange, but she's a tad off-center so I took w/a grain of salt
um no not that i remember if one did I think It would really put me off unless i was using a hatachi on her or something.
This is why .
I
Remeber seeing a post in this forum
About a pooner who got way to involved with a particular sp . She found out about various personal problems he had and at the She would help him to solve these personal non sex related problems for free." Becase she loved him" and be his "life coach "
Think he had a weight problem depression and a couple of other problems he had that I forget what they where . I do not remember how exactly she did it. But she ended up taking everything from him that he had.
To the point where the man actually killed himself . Do not remeber the womans handle but acording to what the frend of the man who killed himself ( someone was asking about her services) she lived in a large house by herself and was hevily using drugs that made her paraniod .
I also read on another bbs service about a man who was using an expensive escort in Australia. He said that he felt she was his ideal woman because she actually was into the same books that he was . As he saw them in her bag when he had his appointment . There are women out there it seems that if a man is wealthy enough . They know how to appear as the ideal mate for months or years and they work on the man until all his possessions either are in the owned by the sp or he has liquidated them for cash to be with her or fund some bullshit story of hers.
Honestly prefer a girl that tells me it is so much for x and so much for Y etc. Than a strange woman saying to me " I love you how may i make your life better"
This is why .
I
Remeber seeing a post in this forum
About a pooner who got way to involved with a particular sp . She found out about various personal problems he had and at the She would help him to solve these personal non sex related problems for free." Becase she loved him" and be his "life coach "
Think he had a weight problem depression and a couple of other problems he had that I forget what they where . I do not remember how exactly she did it. But she ended up taking everything from him that he had.
To the point where the man actually killed himself . Do not remeber the womans handle but acording to what the frend of the man who killed himself ( someone was asking about her services) she lived in a large house by herself and was hevily using drugs that made her paraniod .
I also read on another bbs service about a man who was using an expensive escort in Australia. He said that he felt she was his ideal woman because she actually was into the same books that he was . As he saw them in her bag when he had his appointment . There are women out there it seems that if a man is wealthy enough . They know how to appear as the ideal mate for months or years and they work on the man until all his possessions either are in the owned by the sp or he has liquidated them for cash to be with her or fund some bullshit story of hers.
Honestly prefer a girl that tells me it is so much for x and so much for Y etc. Than a strange woman saying to me " I love you how may i make your life better"
I don't know what's wrong with you guys but I used to get it quite often. Nope wasn't money. But then I tended to have long term deals.
As they say actions speak louder than words and the special treatment I usually received was more convincing than the words. My experience!
Living in the short term now.
As they say actions speak louder than words and the special treatment I usually received was more convincing than the words. My experience!
Living in the short term now.
like was mentioned before me a couple of times yes.
but I have had a long term relationship with the lady, we are comfortable with each other, and saying it to each other.
and there are many different kinds of love to be honest with you,
I think if the feeling was one sided, it would be extremely uncomfortable, or light her eyes up with dollar signs.
me and the lady I see, kind of wait till were both on the same page, before we move on in what ever this is we have going on.
but I have had a long term relationship with the lady, we are comfortable with each other, and saying it to each other.
and there are many different kinds of love to be honest with you,
I think if the feeling was one sided, it would be extremely uncomfortable, or light her eyes up with dollar signs.
me and the lady I see, kind of wait till were both on the same page, before we move on in what ever this is we have going on.
maybe 4 years ago, Juile used to tease after the massage and prior to FS with some pelvic rubbing followed by full insertion without cover
some of the surprised pooner's would exclaim "WTF" and she would reply that she loved them
never a dull moment with some of these girls.....
some of the surprised pooner's would exclaim "WTF" and she would reply that she loved them
never a dull moment with some of these girls.....
I've had men say it to me before, during, or after sex and I've said it if it was a role-play scenario, or perhaps if they brought me coffee to an early morning appointment but more like in the "omg, I love you, thank you so much" sort of way.
