Hard and can't cum

[Guardian Angel]

Have you ever gotten hard and after what seems like an hour still can't cum?

I like to think that is good for the ladies (if you aren't just pounding away), but there are some times when I can only finish with a BJ or Hand job. Still feels great, in fact stand back when I finally blast, but I was wondering if others experience the same?

Thanks
G.A.

 

[Aeiyah]

It happens to everyone. For anyone who hasn't experienced it yet, it will. It happens when you start to get tired. For me, if I've been hard and stimulated for longer than 15 - 20 minutes and haven't popped yet, there is a good chance it's not going to happen. The more you think about, the chances are that it's not go to happen increases.

 

[puter]

Have you ever gotten hard and after what seems like an hour still can't cum?

Yup... I believe you are referring to "Delayed Ejaculation"

 

[tedsweettangv]

yes, I am never sure why though I think it is over sensitization of the head.

 

[MrPeterNorth]

I have this as well... rarely can I bust one in less than 45-50 minutes. It's good be known as the energizer bunny, but sometimes I just want to cum in under 10 minutes!

 

[maxx50]

it is mental...

I have mentioned this before .. that I actually seldom cum with a woman . Twice and both time I had to real work at it mentally
No if i want to masturbate to porn in the morning . less then five minutes.. go figure.
If you have had a lot of sex .. maybe it is just not the same any more ...me it is probably not a enough sex .
And then there are ways is the age thing check on the Internet under Mens health there was a great article on sex and aging

 

[smackyo]

been there more then once. it sucks.

 

[sonoman]

It happens when you start to get tired.

Dead on. It's difficult for me sometimes when I'm tired, when it's too warm or humid, or when I'm hungry. I usually find that it needs to 'feel good' right away; if it doesn't, it takes a lot longer to get into a groove where I can really feel the friction.

 

[geek]

I've been hard for almost 2 hours, that's definitely a testament to the sp .

I have found that the more comfortable I am with an SP the better it is for me so I tend to see the same set of sp's over and over again. One sp I've seen more than few times gave me an orgasm so strong I had wobbly knees for a good two hours. Another sp, the first time I saw her, managed to get me to orgasm multiple times without cumming, the orgasm was so strong my eye's rolled into the back of my head and left me quivering for more than a few minutes. Both were handjobs.

For me this was/is a mental issue. A long, long time ago (and in a galaxy far, far away) I suffered a personal trauma that made it very hard for me to get close to people. In order to deal with the trauma I shut down my feelings and with my feelings so went my sense of touch, taste and smell. I didn't have a problem trusting people just being close to them.

Slowly but surely though I am getting better.