Hair Removal

[Bloodrite]

I know the subject of hair removal has been brought up a few time, but this is a little different. Basically I am looking for some advice on how to get my GF to shave her pussy without offending her. I love daty, but it is not too much fun when you expect to find a little man in a boat and all you get is a ball of fur.

A while back I approached the subject with her and she got rather upset and said that she wanted to look like a woman and not some pre-teen chick. I don't totally get that(wouldn't the boobs be a give away?). Anyways, after a few months without bringing the subject up, I noticed she did shave for me, but went the total opposite way I was expecting. Instead of doing the normal patch/landing strip she went bald there and left everything else untouched. Now I do a fair amount of manscaping for her(she doesn't like really hairy guys), so is it too much to ask the same?

Any suggestions, or tips on how to approach this sensitive subject would be a great help to me.

 

[Very Veronica]

Great way to traumatize the girl & when the hair grows back, you often get ingrowns. Just a barbaric method imo. Shave or laser is all i'd ever do down there. Why don't you track down a porn with kittie shaving? Sorta like watching those home reno shows together but different. Would certainly inspire me!

Random spa certificates are always good but let her choose what she wants done otherwise she may misconstrue it as 'she's not good enough'..& no ulterior motives with those gifts! Mmm, now i'm daydreaming about a sapphic spa/kittie massage experience..

Send her to the nicest spa you can find that does Brazilians.

 

[Bloodrite]

Both great ideas. I will see if I can find a porn that involves shaving for starters. And the whole "not good enough for you" thing is what I am afraid of. Dont have a clue how women think but I can see how she would make that kind of connection. The way I see it, less hair = more time spent down there.

 

[Amber_xoxo]

How long have you two been together? Is it so long that she just doesn't care anymore because you guys are so comfortable together? I find it odd nowadays when I hear that woman (Or men) really dont do much to that region. If she is nearing her 60's, then maybe I can understand but by then, it should be graying and thinning out down there anyways!

 

[Bloodrite]

We have been together for almost a year(should probably find out the anniversery date). I am 28 and she is 27. Outside of the bedroom and watching the odd chick flick she is sort of a tomboy and doesnt like to act all girly. That might be part of the problem I guess..damn free relationship therapy.

 

[Amber_xoxo]

Right..well if shes a tomboy I guess that is a touch understandable though...but I cant imagine all of her gf's being tomboys either ? Dont they talk about this sort of thing...or else she might be the type thats very much into womans rights, and the " if he cant accept me for who I am the WHATEVER" type...lol. I actually work at a spa and do braziian bikini waxes on a daily basis and a lot of the newbies that come in, simply say that they were talking to gf's and wanted to give it a whirl! Well I wish you luck with this!

 

[sarahpassion]

It sounds like she just doesn't really get it!

If she shaved off all the top, and left the other areas hairy. You should let her know that you by no means, want her to look pubesent, and she could even leave the patch.
Or you could poor her a nice bubble bath, and take the lead. I used to shave my ex all the time. He never even used to trim, but now totally sees the benefits of it.

 

[babygurl]

To be honest, I would just tell her straight up.... It might be a sore subject with her but would she rather you lie and tell her its fine to look like a bush man?? I would want my boyfriend to be upfront with me if something was bothering him. Not to mention, you said something about she doesnt like hairy men.... maybe grow yours out and wneh she asked you to trim it, tell her to do the same.

There's always one more way..... Ask her if you can shave (or trim) her. Tell her you think its sexy and a turn on....

Ive always gotten brazillian waxes and never had any complaints so this is the best advice I can come up with...

Although I have told guys to trim.... I think it embarassed them a bit but someone had to.

 

[Ima]

Send her a link to this thread...

 

[MissSunisa]

Take her for a night or weekend get-away.
Make sure the Room has a Jacuzzi.
Make her feel loved, appreciated, set the mood.
Buy a nice bottle of wine. You know your going to have great sex in the jacuzzi.
Do a stunning performance during DATY. Focus on her only.
I promise she'll let you shave her yourself.
That is very erotic.
Nothing looks better on a woman than a Brazilian.
(Do a good job)!!

Yes!

The thought of a guy who loves DATY is such a turn on. You're not selfish at all to want a little grooming on her side.

An ex of mine caught me by surprise when I had a bit of hair once. You know what he said? It drove me wild ...in terms of being turned on.

In a sexy voice, he said, "You know, I would love to shave you baby. It would be so hot." So, we took a bath together, and all innocently, I let him take over and carefully shave my intimate parts. It still makes me ..... thinking about it.

Try it, ........take a bath together, and whisper to her, how you've always wanted to shave her.............then after the bath, give her the best DATY of her life.

 

[Evan]

role play

Sounds like you should try a little role play. Doctor/patient works good. After doing a little exam on her, tell her she needs to have a penile insertion. In order to prep for the procedure, you will have to shave her clean. I'm sure you can use your imagination from this point. The element of surprise may be a big turn on for the both of you!

 

[Bloodrite]

Take her for a night or weekend get-away.
Make sure the Room has a Jacuzzi.
Make her feel loved, appreciated, set the mood.
Buy a nice bottle of wine. You know your going to have great sex in the jacuzzi.
Do a stunning performance during DATY. Focus on her only.
I promise she'll let you shave her yourself.
That is very erotic.
Nothing looks better on a woman than a Brazilian.
(Do a good job)!!

Well I did pretty much just that on Valentines day. Everything minus the shaving. After another wonderful daty session I brought up the subject about some of the benefits about being shaved. Got her convinced to try it, but she has to let the mons grow back first so she will have a patch and not be totally bald. Also got her a session at a spa that does waxing. If she wants to try that instead of shaving. Thanks for the advice and ideas everyone. So excited now.