If you get ticked into bait and switch or maybe not is it normal to haggle. Last escort I saw demanded 40$ more than what we agreed upon on the phone. Basically if you try to negotiate over the phone they will most likely stop talking by face to face and they see the money right there it might be a different story. Another time a girl cut me off within 7 minutes and claimed my time was up she gets to decide when my time started not me what do I do in this situation should I try to physically threaten her to get my money back I mean she worked for a short amount of time. How do I save money with escorts.
Haggling face to face
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How will haggling fix an already fucked up situation?
B&S : Just walk without any compensation. Dishonesty should never be rewarded.
B&S : Just walk without any compensation. Dishonesty should never be rewarded.
When you are inquiring, Ask the ladies' rates and what services you can expect and for how long the quoted rate gets you time with her... Ask her if any services are "extras" or does she offer an All-inclusive rate... if she is out of your price range, move on to a lower priced, well-reviewed lady.
I have had instances where I quoted prior to arrival, for a 2 lady stag and the rate I quoted was 1000 for 2 ladies for 2 hrs... when I got there they tried haggling and re-negotiating, and its worse when you have to stand up to a dozen tough dudes, and then once we were over that hump, they tried it again at a different event, and I got livid and they ended up paying the full rate and all was well in the end.... If you haggle with an sp face to face it is not cool and she will get offended. If an sp has charges for extras, she should make you aware of those when you are inquiring.. If she quotes you a rate and you show up with less than she quoted she will most likely get offended...
Never ever try to assault the escort over something so trivial as money or 7 mins of time!!... I personally have had instances where I've had to excuse myself towards the end of a session, this happens very very rarely, when I feel the person is repeatedly offending me or risks my safety or I discover they have taken a substance and unable to "finish" I have no patience for hard drug users who have issues and then want to go into overtime since they did not cum at a reasonable time within a session, especially if I've put a lot into the session and trying to help them "finish"... Escorts are people not cattle, most women know and are fully capable at defending themselves, so I'd steer clear at doing anything close to assaulting an sp, or you will either get a fight you did not expect, and/or get arrested... can't believe you would even consider that!!
I have had instances where I quoted prior to arrival, for a 2 lady stag and the rate I quoted was 1000 for 2 ladies for 2 hrs... when I got there they tried haggling and re-negotiating, and its worse when you have to stand up to a dozen tough dudes, and then once we were over that hump, they tried it again at a different event, and I got livid and they ended up paying the full rate and all was well in the end.... If you haggle with an sp face to face it is not cool and she will get offended. If an sp has charges for extras, she should make you aware of those when you are inquiring.. If she quotes you a rate and you show up with less than she quoted she will most likely get offended...
Never ever try to assault the escort over something so trivial as money or 7 mins of time!!... I personally have had instances where I've had to excuse myself towards the end of a session, this happens very very rarely, when I feel the person is repeatedly offending me or risks my safety or I discover they have taken a substance and unable to "finish" I have no patience for hard drug users who have issues and then want to go into overtime since they did not cum at a reasonable time within a session, especially if I've put a lot into the session and trying to help them "finish"... Escorts are people not cattle, most women know and are fully capable at defending themselves, so I'd steer clear at doing anything close to assaulting an sp, or you will either get a fight you did not expect, and/or get arrested... can't believe you would even consider that!!
There are two sides to his story.
One was a bait and switch.
One was a change in agreed pricing.
Both are common.
Acidking is hard to read but he is no more annoying than you are.
Acidking, well right off that names paints a particular picture for me. If you called or texted me and haggled you are likely blocked. That's usually my first course of action for haggling. If you did the same at the door you would have been asked to leave and never return. Black listed from the house. If you find yourself B&S'd your best thing is as BBB said, turn around and leave. If more did that maybe the B&S would be cut down in this hobby. And a SP changing her prices after the appointment begins is wrong, just as wrong as haggling. Neither should happen, ever. I have "extra's" like nuru but they are explained ahead of time and pre added or have the option to do at the beginning of the appointment but never sprung on anyone or for anything in the agreed services.
The reason I would not accept a haggled is that you would probably get haggled service as well. The service quality would be reduced by the haggled amount, a loss loss for both sides. Cheap isn't good and good isn't cheap.
The reason I would not accept a haggled is that you would probably get haggled service as well. The service quality would be reduced by the haggled amount, a loss loss for both sides. Cheap isn't good and good isn't cheap.
You don't seem very wise. The point of the review board is to ask other members if they saw an SP you may be interested in seeing. Maybe then you wouldn't encounter these mishaps.
Buy a fleshlight.
Haggling is poor form regardless of the situation. If someone surprise asked for more money than agreed on or it was a bait and switch just walk away. Are you seriously suggesting physical violence over 20-30$? You need a shrink more than you need an escort it sounds like.
I also agree with you Miss Hunter physical violence is never acceptable.
Can't put brains where there is none..just leave it alone.
Couldn't agree more both of you. Violence unacceptable either direction. (or even the mention/suggestion of it) Just walk away.
Haggling will NEVER work when it comes to this business!! Period. This is an industry where you have plenty of choices to choose from. Prices are towards the high end an towards low end. If you're goal is to avoid the higher end costly ladies and instead haggling the lower end ladies? Then you should be ashamed of yourself! That's shitty on you end!! These ladies across the board are making a living the best they can. They provide a fabulous service for us guys and because of that......the utmost respect, honesty and friendliness should be given to them. Nothing less.
You have to also remember, these ladies have a shit load of expenses that come along with their work.
From the sound of your post....this industry isn't for you. And if you want to avoid losing money to fear of " bait & switch" ? I strongly suggest not getting yourself involved in visiting escorts. Or, call, ask questions and get your info right up front. Then make your decision.
That's all I can pretty much add.
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I'm going to bite my tongue on the physical violence threats because there's never ANY reason for a grown ass adult to physically threaten another. If your immediate reaction is to do this when something isn't going your way then you should likely consider some personal reflection on your own attitude.
Haggling insinuates that we are items or property to purchase, not human beings. You are purchasing someone's time, not themeslves directly. Some providers offer specials, others do not. If you find someone's rates to be out of your range then the appropriate course of action is to continue looking for someone who is in your budget. There are plenty of very reputable escorts at every price point.
You always have the option to walk. Arguing (even if you're in the right) is likely to get you no where and if the lady in this hypothetical scenario is upselling or being intentionally dishonest you're just best off taking your money and leaving.
Also another point to keep in mind, not all providers are the ones handling their booking requests. Many have agents/handlers/what have you who will promise certain services or price points without the provider's knowledge. I don't condone this practice but to willfully pretend it doesn't exist is also foolish.
Haggling insinuates that we are items or property to purchase, not human beings. You are purchasing someone's time, not themeslves directly. Some providers offer specials, others do not. If you find someone's rates to be out of your range then the appropriate course of action is to continue looking for someone who is in your budget. There are plenty of very reputable escorts at every price point.
You always have the option to walk. Arguing (even if you're in the right) is likely to get you no where and if the lady in this hypothetical scenario is upselling or being intentionally dishonest you're just best off taking your money and leaving.
Also another point to keep in mind, not all providers are the ones handling their booking requests. Many have agents/handlers/what have you who will promise certain services or price points without the provider's knowledge. I don't condone this practice but to willfully pretend it doesn't exist is also foolish.
Forget for a moment that this is about escorts - lets just think of it as a generic business transaction. Any attempt to resolve a business dispute using violence, or even just threats of violence, is likely to make things worse, not better. Furthermore, someone is likely to end up in jail and it won't necessarily be the person who did the cheating.
A person who thinks that physical threats might be an acceptable tool in a business dispute is not a person with whom I would want to do business. I know it happens, but that's getting into the realm of gangsterism.
I am also going to point out that OP seems to have no issue with using physical violence. If he got rough, aggressive or entitled with the provider she would have been well within her rights to end the session the MINUTE she felt her boundaries would be disregarded. After any time in this industry, there is one thing a woman knows: men who negotiate rates will negotiate services too. Not talking about upsell, but asking/insisting that you provide him "just this once/just for me" with service you do not ordinarily provide or are uncomfortable with! It's true that there are two sides to every story, but we aren't hearing hers. We don't know why she asked him to leave after a mere 7 minutes, but I bet a lot of us have theories...
Couple things to do and not to do:
Do-Agree on time location price and service offered and if she has a website read it thoroughly (and if a micro agree on the girl you are seeing)
Do Not-Haggle on price or services
Do-Show up on time with the donation and in a good headspace (not under the influence) pay the donation without being asked
Do-If the girl behind the door is not what you were expecting, leave
Do Not-get upset and cause a scene
Do-shower when you get there (even if you already did) and yes actually get wet and use soap...
Do Not-tell her you dont need a shower because you did before you left (not a good start)
Do-have a good time (for your allotted time)
Do Not-push boundaries or try and stay longer than agreed upon
Do-say your good buys and carry on, write a review whether you had a good time or not
Do-if she tries to upsell during the session or changes what was offered, either carry on or say no and walk, you can ask for money back but don't expect it will happen
Do Not under any circumstances let the situation turn violent, it is only money, the best thing you can do is go here and write about your experience
If both parties are on the same page from the first inquiry to you leave the suite chances are both will have a good time...
When I go to the restaurant I don't piss off my server.....for obvious reasons
When I go to the Barber I don't negotiate a price for again obvious reasons
When I go to the dentist I do not try to negotiate a set price
When I go on a vacation I do not try to negotiate a lower travel fare
I could go on for ever ....
But to try to haggle with an sp who has set her donation rate is not only disrespectful it is stupid....I would bet %100 of the time your service provider who was disrespected would be counting the seconds she could get you out the door....no fun
There may be many issues that are not good for a client or sp that do happen...but a set rate is something that should be respected...if its too much move on....
if you feel the need to be violent towards an sp you should be in therapy or jail!
When I go to the Barber I don't negotiate a price for again obvious reasons
When I go to the dentist I do not try to negotiate a set price
When I go on a vacation I do not try to negotiate a lower travel fare
I could go on for ever ....
But to try to haggle with an sp who has set her donation rate is not only disrespectful it is stupid....I would bet %100 of the time your service provider who was disrespected would be counting the seconds she could get you out the door....no fun
There may be many issues that are not good for a client or sp that do happen...but a set rate is something that should be respected...if its too much move on....
if you feel the need to be violent towards an sp you should be in therapy or jail!
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I'm pretty sure most if not all pooners have had bad experiences. Physically threatening a girl/lady/woman is just wrong. If you paid for an hour session to learn boxing from a pro, when he/she cut you short by 7 minutes will you physically threaten him/her? If you won't, think of what you will do in that scenario and apply it here.
For bait and switch, I've learn to walk.
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