Guys!!!
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If you are going by the studly antics described in many reviews, it is all in their mind. 
I mean, it is all thru the mind. Control your thoughts and you control your body.
I mean, it is all thru the mind. Control your thoughts and you control your body.
I'd think beating your meat a few hours before would help. Of course with that you'd be sacrificing erection quality.
I find it interesting how no guys ever report having the opposite problem. As far as I know, I can't cum at all from just sex, let alone someone else's hand/mouth. It doesn't matter how hot the girl is, how long we've been going at it, or how long I've abstained leading up to the session.
I find it interesting how no guys ever report having the opposite problem. As far as I know, I can't cum at all from just sex, let alone someone else's hand/mouth. It doesn't matter how hot the girl is, how long we've been going at it, or how long I've abstained leading up to the session.
Great attitudeAnd that's a problem how? Like FO says, It's all through the mind. Figure out your psychological trigger & make that your goal in a session. Or not if you want to be Mr. Endurance. I often have the same "problem" & can wear myself out & give the poor SP muscle cramps if I can't hit my trigger. Today was one of those days so when it became clear at the 45 minute mark, I gave the lady a break & finished out the hour with some cuddling & a massage. And that was fun too.
A different SP I've see a few times seems to accidentally find my trigger way too soon in the session before the fun really starts & I'm done. So I don't tell the ladies what it is to avoid becoming another two-pump chump. I find it much more fun to participate in this hobby with a bit of mystery.
I know who I'm going to see.
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I have always found that jerking off helps. now what I mean is you need to practice getting yourself to the top of your excitment and slowing yourself down. Learning to build your tollerence to the stimulation. eventually you will learn when to slow down or in some cases stop and move to another sexual activity. I have enjoyed the above by hand by masterbation toys and even better by SP desires. the last one tease and denile can be F'N unforgetable.
In any case durring your interlude is you main concern the orgasam or the enjoyment of the sex. I have had sessions that I have throughly enjoyed and not cum, not my main concern.
anyways it is all about knowing your equipment and when to stop or slow down
happy pulling to you
I have always found that jerking off helps. now what I mean is you need to practice getting yourself to the top of your excitment and slowing yourself down. Learning to build your tollerence to the stimulation. eventually you will learn when to slow down or in some cases stop and move to another sexual activity. I have enjoyed the above by hand by masterbation toys and even better by SP desires. the last one tease and denile can be F'N unforgetable.
In any case durring your interlude is you main concern the orgasam or the enjoyment of the sex. I have had sessions that I have throughly enjoyed and not cum, not my main concern.
anyways it is all about knowing your equipment and when to stop or slow down
happy pulling to you
