Guys, Why Do You Stop Seeing SP's?

[MrBrown]

I guess it depends on where you are coming from. It seems a lot of the posts above are from guys that are not in a relationship and are maybe looking for something else that an escort can't provide - escorts do not provide real intimacy thus the feeling of emptiness. In my situation, I am married to a nice woman that won't fuck me. I do not need an emotional relationship - it would actually be a problem if I found myself in one. I pay escorts for sex and convenience, period, and if we get along, even better. Every escort I have ever seen (except for one) likes being an escort, likes sex and does not want a relationship with a client so this arrangement is perfect! I repeat with the escort's that I have great sex with and that I feel I have a nice connection with. To me, it's like having a fuck buddy, and paying makes that clear. I actually stop seeing escorts if I feel I am getting too close to them (this has only happened once) - not a good idea for me and definitely not what they want.

I would quit seeing escorts in a heartbeat if I was having great sex with my SO.

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[87112]

Because we are out of money. DUH!

 

[Joe King]

The vast majority of sp's despise men and only do what they do for money and the opportunity to control men,most are smart enough to hide their contempt for business reasons.
When they become unable to hide it any longer i move along to the next one.
It certainly feels good at the time but at the end of the day its a cold and empty business for all involved.

 

[angnjon]

All of the above...lack of funds, better use of my money to buy / do things that interest me longer than an hour, emptiness afterwards, novelty wearout, poor service / no service, misrepresentation of appearances (overuse of old / photoshopped images - usually overweight in person) et cetera et cetera

 

[sevenofnine]

i guess maybe this is stupid considering what everyone else has said,
don't know how to explain it,

i guess its because i get to close, it feels like its just time to bring my stuff over to her place and stay
i don't want to put words in my sps mouth or the couple of sps that i have gotten close to.

but they have kind of hinted or flat out told me i don't have to go.
don't know why, you have to ask them but i have gotten that from a couple of sps.
it just feels so right and natural. i pay them for a certain amount of time on the clock and we don't rush it,
i don't demand or ask for anything really after awhile it just flows our session,
we both seem to enjoy it, and when the time runs out its like just stay would you,

at first is very flatterying, and i go wow.
but after that i kind of wonder, where am i.
i have a wife at home kids waiting for me,
and i have this sp, telling me i can stay for as long as i want.
its like what the fuck do i do now\

we both have lives, what is she asking
its confusing actually,
you pay for an sp so well in part so there is no emotional involvment,
but we just become so close and relaxed and comfortable with each other,
like i said i don't want to put words in any sps mouth,
but when an sp hints or just flat out tells you to stay as long as you want what are you supposed to gather from it

in part i wish we wouldn't get so close.
i was with a women great women great sp,
but we got to close, and she tells me to stay lets just hang out on the weekend and stuff,
fantastic women but just not for me.
not kind of what i need,
i still see her rare though we email once inawhile. are close still close we shared alot of stuff over many many bottles of booze and late nights.
we will always be close,
it was just time to move on.

seeing some one again, the sessions are slow relaxed were just comfortable with each other.
and again there is no time, i pay for so many hours. but she wants me to stay.
again nice women, a very nice women.
but what the hell does that mean when an sp askes you to stay and says as long as you want.
its very comfortable relaxed, yet confusing when stuff like that happens
we just enjoy each other.
but again, i have wife kids job etc, she has people to,
its just wierd,

you see sps so you can have sex without a relationship.
but in the end you do, or i do, have a relationship with these women,

and i don't want to speak for the women involved but i would think its mutual.

i still pay her but its not like were sp and john.
its just weird.

any way im not doing this again.
im done with this hobby.
for alot of reasons.

but in the end,
its because me and the sp seem to get on so well and we become so close it ends up a friendship but i still pay

and it just feels kind of wrong to pay a women and expect your getting sex.
or pay a women and you become really close.
were really close but we both have our own lives that we have to go back to.

in the end, im done with this hobby,
i hope any way.
i went through the ads recently saw there menues

there women not just sex toys.
i have never been able to treat an sp like my sex toy.
i treat her like an amazing women that she is. or as best i can any way

we end up friends.
and then i keep wondering where do i or we go from here.
and the answer is no where, because we both have our own life, or it just wont work.

don't know when my last session will be,
but for all intents and purposes im done

i guess because i love and respect women to much, and enjoy there company,

to pay them money just cheapens it, for both of us.