Guys, Why Do You Stop Seeing SP's?

[Cock Throppled]

Guys, what makes you stop seeing SP's?

Is it lack of opportunity, lack of money, starting a new relationship, fear of discovery, fear of disease, boredom, being ripped off, bad service or something else?

 

[old pooner]

My SP retired and then I developed heart problems.

 

[cloud_9]

Specific SPs? Usually because they weren't "fun". If she's just letting you have sex for money with no attempt to make you comfortable and get you to like her, she's not fun. Basically, you're picking up that she resents having to have sex with you and it becomes to close to rape for my comfort.

All SPs? That would be because I had found a girlfriend that matches me on sexual needs.

I really like what Al said about it not being "fun" anymore. I've stopped for that exact reason! My last session was with a gal that was super hot, but seemed like she didn't want to be there. I had decided to take a break before that anyway. I was going to look for a girlfriend again. Because of this instead of taking a break, I just retired

The last time I quit was because I had a girlfriend and I don't cheat.

Not all Sp's are like this though and I realize that, but lots of them are. I always thought that a lot of these chicks just see us as "tricks" but I've made friendships with a lot of them. A couple are really sad about my retirement but want to remain friends. I have about 3 solid Sp friends from this hobby and no regrets

 

[jmmk]

Because it's alot like being a drug addict. It may be fun at the time but empty afterwards even after really good sessions. And for some reason instead of getting less it's getting to be more of a dirty feeling as in my soul.

 

[newatit]

my latest about to be loss is over contempt. It just feels that she is resentful of some things, seems to treat me like I am there for one thing only, not her personally and yes the fun is fading. It has gotten more mechanical and conversation is getting limited. Just got into this thing but already feel like retiring. Funny cause she is so likeable, but maybe worn out already. Kind of have noted too, that you hand around with a gal, you get into her life, then you give her one or two assists, and nothing really extra comes back to you, and its kind of like you ruined the relationship instead of building it. Yeh, time to retire too maybe, or just move on.

 

[johnniejetpack]

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?147128-I-m-done.&highlight=

you quit and you still made 125 posts since D-day? Brother you will be back in the saddle soon

 

[Lurker 123]

According to Chinese believe:
If you are with the same girl,
1st time is fasination
2nd time becomes more familiar
3rd time it is time to go!

 

[InTheBum]

For me it's a value for the money thing...

I don't like the feeling of being ripped off, and many (but not all) SP's give off that vibe...

Can't imagine handing some girl $500 for an hour of sex and getting shit service...it's basically like being robbed...

 

[XXXBod]

For me.. its this feeling like, why do I have to pay for it? I see couples every where. I see guys taking attractive girls home from the bar. Then there's me calling up an escort making an appointment. Its become way to easy just to pay for it, and way to hard to get it for free. I wont settle for a fat ugly chick no matter what... She has to at least have a nice body, nice heart shape ass or nice set of tits so I'm turned on enough to want to have sex with her. I'm not desperate enough to date or sleep with some one who is ugly. I would rather pay a hot escort then do that. But in the end, your just paying a hooker who will not reject you because your not tall dark and handsome but you are giving her money. It leaves you feeling empty and lonely in the end.

 

[cjac7214]

I guess it depends on where you are coming from. It seems a lot of the posts above are from guys that are not in a relationship and are maybe looking for something else that an escort can't provide - escorts do not provide real intimacy thus the feeling of emptiness. In my situation, I am married to a nice woman that won't fuck me. I do not need an emotional relationship - it would actually be a problem if I found myself in one. I pay escorts for sex and convenience, period, and if we get along, even better. Every escort I have ever seen (except for one) likes being an escort, likes sex and does not want a relationship with a client so this arrangement is perfect! I repeat with the escort's that I have great sex with and that I feel I have a nice connection with. To me, it's like having a fuck buddy, and paying makes that clear. I actually stop seeing escorts if I feel I am getting too close to them (this has only happened once) - not a good idea for me and definitely not what they want.

I would quit seeing escorts in a heartbeat if I was having great sex with my SO.

 

[XXXBod]

I would rather have a ONS with a girl in a bar or where ever and not pay for it or be in a serious relationship with some one and maybe thats why I dont like seeing escorts.

 

[InTheBum]

I guess it depends on where you are coming from. It seems a lot of the posts above are from guys that are not in a relationship and are maybe looking for something else that an escort can't provide - escorts do not provide real intimacy thus the feeling of emptiness. In my situation, I am married to a nice woman that won't fuck me. I do not need an emotional relationship - it would actually be a problem if I found myself in one. I pay escorts for sex and convenience, period, and if we get along, even better. Every escort I have ever seen (except for one) likes being an escort, likes sex and does not want a relationship with a client so this arrangement is perfect! I repeat with the escort's that I have great sex with and that I feel I have a nice connection with. To me, it's like having a fuck buddy, and paying makes that clear. I actually stop seeing escorts if I feel I am getting too close to them (this has only happened once) - not a good idea for me and definitely not what they want.

I would quit seeing escorts in a heartbeat if I was having great sex with my SO.

Sounds like so many guys married long-term. Unfortunately, those that don't go out and see escorts, are miserable and tend to bring their emotional/lack of sex lifestyle to work...

 

[Big Dog Striker]

Unfortunately, those that don't go out and see escorts, are miserable and tend to bring their emotional/lack of sex lifestyle to work...

Sounds like the new Tiger Woods. I guess he'll wake up soon. Like what they say; everyone needs a hobby.

 

[westcoast555]

Because it's alot like being a drug addict. It may be fun at the time but empty afterwards even after really good sessions. And for some reason instead of getting less it's getting to be more of a dirty feeling as in my soul.

Well put.. I've had fantastic experiences poohing but you are right - ultimately you can never avoid the fact that you're paying for something that should ideally be given freely out of attraction. There's no 'conquest'. As the saying goes - you can't buy a thrill.

 

[Tugela]

For me.. its this feeling like, why do I have to pay for it? I see couples every where. I see guys taking attractive girls home from the bar. Then there's me calling up an escort making an appointment. Its become way to easy just to pay for it, and way to hard to get it for free. I wont settle for a fat ugly chick no matter what... She has to at least have a nice body, nice heart shape ass or nice set of tits so I'm turned on enough to want to have sex with her. I'm not desperate enough to date or sleep with some one who is ugly. I would rather pay a hot escort then do that. But in the end, your just paying a hooker who will not reject you because your not tall dark and handsome but you are giving her money. It leaves you feeling empty and lonely in the end.

It will only leave you feeling empty and lonely in the end if you are going into it thinking that you are buying an emotional attachment, because that is something that can't be bought. On the other hand if your mindset is that you are going in to it to have some fun, as entertainment, you won't get that feeling. You get what you pay for, and some things cost more than others. As long as you understand that beforehand you should have no regrets. It is no different than going to a movie or going skiing, and if you are left feeling empty and lonely after doing those things you have issues that go beyond whats normal.

 

[juniper]

I like seeing women on a regular basis. I stopped seeing the last one because I realized I no longer liked her, the same characteristics which I overlooked became annoying, she didn't have orgasms herself or, when, on occasion, she did, it took her a very long time (wasn't sexually excitable) and I noticed that when she was on all fours (at my behest) that she had gone from curvy to boxy. In short, I was no longer enchanted nor excited nor attracted. While I looked forward to her showing up at my place I became increasingly glad when she left and, "Yes," I did feel a certain emptiness with respect to my sexual contact with her. So, it was like when I used to have girlfriends. At some point, I would lose interest, dislike or even feel revulsion.

 

[jmmk]

It will only leave you feeling empty and lonely in the end if you are going into it thinking that you are buying an emotional attachment, because that is something that can't be bought. On the other hand if your mindset is that you are going in to it to have some fun, as entertainment, you won't get that feeling. You get what you pay for, and some things cost more than others. As long as you understand that beforehand you should have no regrets. It is no different than going to a movie or going skiing, and if you are left feeling empty and lonely after doing those things you have issues that go beyond whats normal.

I agree with you but I can have just as much fun or more for a longer time and often much cheaper doing a hundred other things.

 

[JFF009]

Well put.. I've had fantastic experiences poohing but you are right -

I love a good poo too...

 

[westcoast555]

I love a good poo too...

It's great isn't it? Pooning can be fun - but sometimes it can be a disappointment. But a good poo is something special

 

[wolverine]

I stop seeing specific SPs for various reasons: decrease in L/A/S, activities taken off menu, price hikes, other SPs raise the bar, too many retirement/comebacks, availability, my tastes in SPs changes, or we just get plain bored with each other.

I'd like to say I'd quit pooning if I'm with an SO but I don't think so. I could hook up with the lady of my dreams and I'll likely still poon because of the variety.

It will take nothing short of castration to remove pooning out of my system.