guys don't make the mistakes i did,

[westcoast555]

OK what lady?

whatever,
but you know how many pm's i have got,

from guys who have had pretty much the exact same experiance i have had with one particular lady.

you know how many pm's i have gotten from guys who have had emotional difficulties in this hobby,

funny actually
a hand full of guys bashing me some stalking me,

and a hand full of guys with pm's telling me the exact same thing has happened to them with the same lady.
or they have gotten into emotional difficuilties as a result of this hobby,

so what ever,
to each his own

i guess in my case though it doesn't apply,

I want my heart broken... TELL ME!

 

[ThreeTimes]

ThreeTimes feels your pain.

Well, this is a business world. Even girlfriends will not give you 100% of their hearts. What else can you expect from a SP? Unfortunately, the real world is not like the movie "pretty woman".

ThreeTimes is not saying your are naive, he is saying you are a very kind person and you should give your heart to someone who needs it.

 

[sevenofnine]

when i have an emotional connection with a lady or chemistry what ever you want to call it,
price doesn't matter.
no chemistry, not emtional content to a session,
i tend to think of this in terms of dollars and cents.
and is it worth it.
and quite frankly, i have to wonder,

certainly not at the rate i was going. and the price i was paying.

i imagine i will continue in this hobby at some point. but who knows when and with who.

i don't think i will ever quite get my head around this hobby, and the people in it.especailly the ladies.

 

[schizo_man]

i dont think you'll ever get your head around tying your shoes. Fuck.

 

[maroonedsailor]

If you're looking for sympathy, it's in the dictionary between shit and syphilis.
Any one who sees the same SP regularly is going to create a problem. This is obvious is it not? You wouldn't go regularly if you didn't have some kind of like for the girl and the fact is, if you see her regularly it's a relationship. You have a favorite barber, a favorite broker, a favorite mechanic etc. etc. but you don't fall in love with them do you? NO 'cause you're not fucking them or involving them in the intimate details of your life!!!!If you're seeing an SP for emotional fulfillment you are, by definition, a fucking IDIOT.
SP = sex
Wife/SO = love
Psychiatrist/best buddy pal friend = understanding

Try to remember which is which.

 

[myselftheother]

when i have an emotional connection with a lady or chemistry what ever you want to call it,
price doesn't matter.
no chemistry, not emtional content to a session,
i tend to think of this in terms of dollars and cents.
and is it worth it.
and quite frankly, i have to wonder,

certainly not at the rate i was going. and the price i was paying.

i imagine i will continue in this hobby at some point. but who knows when and with who.

i don't think i will ever quite get my head around this hobby, and the people in it.especailly the ladies.

Christ, get over it already! Are you suffering from real depression or just trolling? Who was she? Does she have a name? LAS?

If you get emotionally involved, you're in the wrong hobby. Is this effecting your marriage? Is your wife wondering what the fuck is going on with you?

 

[FunSugarDaddy]

If you're looking for sympathy, it's in the dictionary between shit and syphilis.
Any one who sees the same SP regularly is going to create a problem. This is obvious is it not? You wouldn't go regularly if you didn't have some kind of like for the girl and the fact is, if you see her regularly it's a relationship. You have a favorite barber, a favorite broker, a favorite mechanic etc. etc. but you don't fall in love with them do you? NO 'cause you're not fucking them or involving them in the intimate details of your life!!!!If you're seeing an SP for emotional fulfillment you are, by definition, a fucking IDIOT.
SP = sex
Wife/SO = love
Psychiatrist/best buddy pal friend = understanding

Try to remember which is which.

I won't even ask where the family pet fits into this

 

[lenny]

The problem I experienced is that the more time we spent outside of a session through emails, PM's, and chatting on IM, the cooler she seemed to get during our sessions. It's not like I ever proclaimed my undying devotion to her or anything, we chatted and she would refer to me as being more than just a client and she felt like we had become friends. But the service continued to get worse until it wasn't any fun seeing her anymore because the sessions sucked so badly.

I donno, maybe Violet is right, and what I experienced was the sp's way of either making sure that I kept her boundary, or it was the sp's way of ensuring hers.

Did you stop communicating with her as a "friend" when you ended
the sex sessions with her?

If i were in that situation i might have ended the sex sessions, since
they sucked anyway, to see if she would still remain "friends" when
the cash donations ceased.

If the "friend" aspect was enjoyable to you both, then why not
keep it up, even if you decided to see another SP for sex?

 

[lenny]

but i know there are guys out there that are crazy in love with an sp, or feel they could be getting there, maybe the same sp,

Pretty sad, but we are all here in this hell hole to get high and evolve.

I would not advise seeing a shrink, as they have nothing to offer
any better than PERB posters, a religious priest, or the bar crowd,
and these won't charge you 200 loonies an hour.

In fact, they have motivation$ to fuck you up.

Save that dough for your sexual entertainments.

Also maybe stop watching the Hollywood chick flicks, like Notebook,
which are brainwashing everyone.

"Never let anyone get too close...It can only end badly.
Lesson learned." {Riddick, Chronicles of}

"Love is one big illusion I should try to forget".

http://www.lyrics007.com/Michael Learns To Rock Lyrics/Thats Why (You Go Away) Lyrics.html

Just my 2cents US, or 3 CDN.

 

[Bartdude]

Good example of why I have this dipshit on IGNORE.

 

[HB40]

How do you see that "dipshits" posts if you have him on ignore?

Good question, I also wonder if someone quotes a person on your ignore list, do you see those?

I guess I could put someone on ignore to find out, but I just love everybody soooo much.

 

[Bartdude]

Once you quote, all can see, the ignore function doesn't extend to quoted material.

 

[trackstar]

5 pages later

 

[wess]

"The vast majority of women in the business hate it. They need the money but hate the work. They often require drugs to dull the pain and disgust of having to allow a stranger to use their bodies while performing all sorts of acts.

The "Johns" may not be decent, kind, nice, or attractive...in fact they may be dirty, smelly, and repulsive; they may like aberrant or deviant sex acts that a woman finds repulsive. The may be abusive, hurtful, and disrespectful. Doesn't matter.

These women learn how to pretend the guy is great when behind their backs they laugh at how they can manipulate the Johns to believe they are really great guys. They are paid to pretend a guy is wonderful when in fact he may be the farthest thing from a decent man."

Linda Greene
Massage Brothel worker for 8 years (Toronto)

The Prostitute that wrote the above obviously has little respect for us Johns. I am deeply saddened by this, you think she would be more appreciative since it is us Johns that pay her for her Prostitute services! [angry face].

How many people work because they love it Linda Green ? Most people work for the money, i sure as hell do.

 

[Rotcod]

but i know there are guys out there that are crazy in love with an sp, or feel they could be getting there, maybe the same sp,

Here is my take. When I fall for a girl, I tend to fall HARD, but thanks to experience and the wisdom that comes with age, I have learned to guard my heart from rejection (although it does still sting).

When I started doing this, I came with the expectation of meeting incredible ladies, and having lots of fun (as well as having the freedom to further explore my sexuality). And so far, I have accomplished that goal; some of the ladies I have met have proved to be very interesting, in addition to being good in the sack (well most of them, I have dealt with a few duds). That being said, there have been a few ladies that if given the chance, I would not oppose a romantic relationship, and by contrast there have been a few ladies that I would never see again even if they paid ME!

I have said this before and I will say it once again, if you cannot separate reality from the fantasy a sp brings, or if you start to develop feelings for a lady, STOP. Do not see her again, and if necessary quit seeing escorts altogether.

Poke me with a fork, I'm done.

 

[anonanon]

Poke me with a fork, I'm done.

That depends, are you tasty?