Got stood up! Time waster..

[Hollybaby]

Well, I'm pretty grumpy right now.

I was supposed to do an outcall to Richmond for a 2 hour appointment.

I get there, and no answer at the door, and the cell phone is turned off. I knock a few times, loudly, and no answer, and phone for 20 minutes. The phone wasn't even turned on. No phone call or email to cancel..

You know, it takes me 1.5 hours to get to Richmond from where I live, which is why I have a driver's fee for anywhere outside of Downtown. And I have to pay my driver for driving, whether I work or not. So tonight I paid my driver for nothing, and wasted 3 hours of my time.

UGH!

Ladies, please PM me for this guy's info so he doesn't waste your time as well. I'm not posting anything of his info because I'm giving him a chance to explain what happened. (It's not hard to call or email, unless there was some emergency of course)

 

[CalgaryJenn]

Well, I'm pretty grumpy right now.

I was supposed to do an outcall to Richmond for a 2 hour appointment.

I get there, and no answer at the door, and the cell phone is turned off. I knock a few times, loudly, and no answer, and phone for 20 minutes. The phone wasn't even turned on. No phone call or email to cancel..

You know, it takes me 1.5 hours to get to Richmond from where I live, which is why I have a driver's fee for anywhere outside of Downtown. And I have to pay my driver for driving, whether I work or not. So tonight I paid my driver for nothing, and wasted 3 hours of my time.

UGH!

Ladies, please PM me for this guy's info so he doesn't waste your time as well. I'm not posting anything of his info because I'm giving him a chance to explain what happened. (It's not hard to call or email, unless there was some emergency of course)

That sucks Holly, really bad I have only been stood up once. I have a ? for you though, didn't you call just before you left to confirm the appointment? I always do before I even jump in my vehicle and waste my time. Guy's are ass munches when you do this!

 

[Hollybaby]

That sucks Holly, really bad I have only been stood up once. I have a ? for you though, didn't you call just before you left to confirm the appointment? I always do before I even jump in my vehicle and waste my time. Guy's are ass munches when you do this!

No, we had spoken the day before, and I thought that would be fine, since it is for every other client I see

Maybe this is a good lesson when doing far away outcalls. Thanks for the tip

 

[Quarter Mile'r]

Sorry to hear you got stood up Holly, how in hell can someone not have
the etiquette to at least call and cancel?

You say your loss, well your time and money in this case yes but I will say
one thing the loss is definately his. Not yours !!

He doesn't deserve to see a sweet gal like you baby!


...........QM'r

 

[ms.belair]

We're in a touchy business, there is no real protocol set up for either punters or sex workers to follow.

What I've noticed is that we attempt to follow normal rules of politeness, and this is apparently not understood by many. I've been guilty myself of forgetting an appointment, try as I may, I'm an ass when it comes to scheduling.

My guess is the guy who stood you up had a way worse day than you, no, I'm not guessing, I'm pretty sure he had a way worse day. Not that it would make you feel any better...

 

[OTBn]

the peckerwood musta double booked - don't ya just hate when that happens?

 

[Avery]

We're in a touchy business, there is no real protocol set up for either punters or sex workers to follow.

What I've noticed is that we attempt to follow normal rules of politeness, and this is apparently not understood by many.

The protocol is identical to that used in any other type of business appointment. If you're going to be late or have to cancel, you call. What could be simpler?

Maybe I've been very lucky, or maybe it's just karma. I've done a lot of pooning in my time. I've never stood up an escort (I've had to cancel or reschedule a few times, but I always called), and I've never been stood up by an escort either.

 

[BS Detector]

Sorry to hear about that Holly. Three hours is a LOT of ones time to waste and you are not even counting the time to get ready. You should mention the name cuz you KNOW it would be mentioned if the shoe was on the other foot.

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

If every SP that ever got 'stood up' posted a 'Why me?" thread, they'd need their own section there'd be so freakin' many. Shit happens. Unfortunately, it's part of doin' biz, and all the complainin' in the world won't likely stop it. You can always drag each and every one thru the public wringer, but I'd hazard a guess that the numbers would quickly dwindle.
Cancelling outcalls is another solution.

 

[ladysharah]

hey holly!

hey holly..your right that is really mean and you sure don,t deserve that sweet lady.his loss he missed out on a real gem.thank-you for the info.. much appreciated.hope your night get,s better. sharah

 

[Rod Steel]

That really sucks Holly. Sorry to hear you were victimized by such an inconsiderate jerk.

 

[gravitas]

Unfortunately, it's part of doin' biz, and all the complainin' in the world won't likely stop it.

Well, now I'm confused.....I agree with fuzzy


Holly,

maybe you could ask fred for a discount on your next advertising payment

 

[James]

1.5 hours from Vancouver to Richmond? 3 hours return? You need a new driver.

That said, the behaviour of he who booked the appointment does need to be adjusted.

 

[Hollybaby]

1.5 hours from Vancouver to Richmond? 3 hours return? You need a new driver.

I don't live in Vancouver. AND it was rush hour. So yes, it takes 1.5 hours. My driver is excellent, and got me there right on time, even though we had some difficulty with finding the place and the stress of rush hour traffic.

 

[Very Veronica]

Holly you're a smart girl so i'm kinda surprised you don't do a pre-session confirmation call. It's 'duh' rigueur in my books. You simply cannot expect the guy who has a hardon & $400 in his pants for you one day to have that the next day. Secondly, i simply wouldn't go to a call that requires 3 hrs of commute...who has that kinda time? Further, it sounds like you went to a private home...again, something i don't do, too risky.

Sorry to be such a biatch but that's exactly how you survive this crazy biz.

 

[Ilovethemall]

shocked I am!

VV I am shocked that you would insuiate we cannot keep our pants or money or hardons checked for one day!! My God woman, I think I had patience for almost 30 or 40 minutes once!

 

[littlejimbigher]

Every SP I book in advance with expects me to confirm the day of the appointment. I would expect the the same in reverse. No confirmation, no client.

 

[Cock Throppled]

I work in a business that requires many precisely-timed appointments all day, and yes emergencies come up all the time, but I have never been late or missed an appointment without calling to either buy some time, re-schedule or explain why I can't make it. Short of an earthquake and and the car being swallowed by a giant crater in the earth - it is ALWAYS possible to make a call. I see what happened to Holly as spite and the guy, if he is a perb member, should be mentioned.

 

[Hollybaby]

Sorry to be such a biatch but that's exactly how you survive this crazy biz.

You're not being a biatch, you're being honest, which is what will help me in the end. Thanks

 

[hitrack]

1.5 hours from Vancouver to Richmond? 3 hours return? You need a new driver.

Sheeeeeeeit, I could make it down to ditchmond in 25 min from anywhere in the city.