After noticing that my post and entire thread about Kristi (EC) has been removed I have decided that I will no longer be using https://perb.cc. I posted an honest and respectfull review of this lady and was attatcked for it and eventually made to disapear - the thread vanished. I will continue to see my favs like Monica and a few other fine ladys we have here in Winnipeg but not be a part of this "review" board.
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Hey Johnny! I have no idea what happened to your thread. It seemed like an honest post and not without a bit of controversy. Constructive criticism can benefit everyone.
From what I read on that thread it was very mild compared to some of the flaming wars that preceded it. Perhaps something put it over the edge and hopefully the mod was in touch with you to provide an explanation.
We perberts do not want to lose any fellow posters and you are so close to your 100th post as well!
Everyone experiences frustrations on this board and once in a while, you just gotta grit your teeth and put up with shit! Now if someone is treated unfairly though, that is a different issue.
Hope this is resolved in a friendly adult manner and that you hang in there with us.
M
From what I read on that thread it was very mild compared to some of the flaming wars that preceded it. Perhaps something put it over the edge and hopefully the mod was in touch with you to provide an explanation.
We perberts do not want to lose any fellow posters and you are so close to your 100th post as well!
Everyone experiences frustrations on this board and once in a while, you just gotta grit your teeth and put up with shit! Now if someone is treated unfairly though, that is a different issue.
Hope this is resolved in a friendly adult manner and that you hang in there with us.
M
johnyj,
I am curious why your review disappeared. The review seemed honest and not directed to be negative to the lady, your expeience was YOURS and other may have a different and better expereince with her.
I only hope the review wasn't pulled because the lady complained to the mods and had a perceived negative review pulled.
Sorry to hear you are leaving.
Coach
I am curious why your review disappeared. The review seemed honest and not directed to be negative to the lady, your expeience was YOURS and other may have a different and better expereince with her.
I only hope the review wasn't pulled because the lady complained to the mods and had a perceived negative review pulled.
Sorry to hear you are leaving.
Coach
Easy boy
i don't have any idea why the thread was pulled, but I rather expect it has nothing to do with kat's rejoinder to you. I don't think you were attacked at all by Kat. he insisted he respected your opinion and was just noting that he had a different sort of experience. If we can't have that level of disagreement then the whole board should be just shut down now.
As for the pulling of your thread, you should contact a mod for an explanation. Modicus said he was going to leave the review up, so it may be that Kristi herself has asked to be put on the "no review" list. which means no comments or reviews .... good or bad.
If that's the case, don't pack up and go home. Lots of people have had that happen to them and the reviews (even if posted for a short period) are still useful to people.
I thought your review was tactfully done. A good example of how to do a negative review. And I also thought Kat's disagreement was in the proper spirit. Kristi probably complained, and Modicus ruled in your favour. However, under the way fred zed runs the board, if a sp want to be completely off the board she can be. That's her choice. There's been lots of discussion about the no review list, but its not likely to change anytime soon.
I hope you stay on the board. Shit happens sometimes.
Tom
i don't have any idea why the thread was pulled, but I rather expect it has nothing to do with kat's rejoinder to you. I don't think you were attacked at all by Kat. he insisted he respected your opinion and was just noting that he had a different sort of experience. If we can't have that level of disagreement then the whole board should be just shut down now.
As for the pulling of your thread, you should contact a mod for an explanation. Modicus said he was going to leave the review up, so it may be that Kristi herself has asked to be put on the "no review" list. which means no comments or reviews .... good or bad.
If that's the case, don't pack up and go home. Lots of people have had that happen to them and the reviews (even if posted for a short period) are still useful to people.
I thought your review was tactfully done. A good example of how to do a negative review. And I also thought Kat's disagreement was in the proper spirit. Kristi probably complained, and Modicus ruled in your favour. However, under the way fred zed runs the board, if a sp want to be completely off the board she can be. That's her choice. There's been lots of discussion about the no review list, but its not likely to change anytime soon.
I hope you stay on the board. Shit happens sometimes.
Tom
I did not recieve an explanation on why it was removed, I MP s the mod but no answer yet. I took time to write my review so that would not offend Kristi and this is was happens. If she complained and had it removed thats even more pathetic.
Thats all I have to say now, I'm quite disgusted.
Thanks to all the guys on here who have helped me out lots over the past years and to all the wonderful ladies I met.
Thats all I have to say now, I'm quite disgusted.
Thanks to all the guys on here who have helped me out lots over the past years and to all the wonderful ladies I met.
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I can appreciate that man.johnyj said:
I expect its hard for sp's to read reviews of themselves, especially when they are negative. I certainly wouldn't want to read any reviews of myself.
Add to that the negative consequences to their business of a negative review and you can understand why they might complain. Also, her recollection of how things went might be honestly different than yours. I expect that sometimes we are far more attuned to every second of the session that the sp.
Anyway, live and learn. Lots of sp's take negative reviews in their stride. Others get really upset. it varies. I don't think the mods took the review down b/c there was a complaint. Like I said, modicus already seemed to rule that out and he's the boss on this street corner. However, if she asked to be put on the no review list, the mods hands are tied.
Tom
I already had a review and it entailed the Fat Bastard and the geek from Seinfeld not to mention a genetic limitation! You are right Tom, I don't know how I would react to a negative review! I suspect not too well at all.....tom25 said:I expect its hard for sp's to read reviews of themselves, especially when they are negative. I certainly wouldn't want to read any reviews of myself.
Some SPs will take it with a grain of salt (unless they go on and on about a little detail) and others react a bit more aggressively.
Johnny's review was quite mild and it is too bad if the whole thread got pulled because of a knee-jerk reaction by the SP in question. I have been in situations at a MP where due to lack of choices, I took an SP that was not at all my type and liking.
I'm sure that SPs can sense if we're not really into the session and an SP taking pride in how she performs in her profession could construe that to be a bit of an insult. Saying that, the next guy walking in could think she is the greatest and all would be cool.
Come on arbitrators, let's fix this ok? Negative reviews are as important as the great ones as long as they are not insulting and degrading and show a bit of class and subtlety!
M
Don't leave
Don't leave johnny.
I also searched around and found no sign of any mention of why the thread was deleted. Other posts have been deleted after an sp has complained and it may be best if specific info is not provided about a complaint. It could be an sp not even involved. Maybe it is best to put it behind us and maybe better it is gone if some think it is controversial. Not very consoling to johnny who never did anything wrong. I hope johnny does not leave though as he seems to be a down to earth honest poster.
Don't leave johnny.
I also searched around and found no sign of any mention of why the thread was deleted. Other posts have been deleted after an sp has complained and it may be best if specific info is not provided about a complaint. It could be an sp not even involved. Maybe it is best to put it behind us and maybe better it is gone if some think it is controversial. Not very consoling to johnny who never did anything wrong. I hope johnny does not leave though as he seems to be a down to earth honest poster.
its true that this has become more of a discussion board than a review board. Lots of guys post both here and on theeroticreview. Despite all the complaints that reviews on here aren't accurate, I'm not sure the reviews on TER differ that much. The girls with good reps get good reviews. But its advantage is that its just reviews. not all the BS.ihatebullshit said:
Tom
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