Going Greek for the First Time - A Few Questions

[DChiu88]

Hey everyone,

So an SP I've been wanting to see for a bit does offer Greek services. Now, I've never partaken in greek with an SP before, and have only done it once (rather unfulfillingly) in my personal relationships.

I'm pretty much decided that I'm going to visit this girl this week. I'm just debating on whether or not to book the extra Greek service. A few questions that I have in mind, which might benefit from the perspective of guys and gals. My apologies if they're totally naive and clueless:

- Is it common practice to change condoms between regular FS and Greek? My personal logic would say yes, but then you see all the back-and-forthing in porn, so I wonder if that level of cleanliness is realistically achievable
- Any advice for a first time Greeker on making it an enjoyable experience for both parties?

Thanks in advance

 

[Cock Throppled]

You can go V to A without changing condoms, but never the other way.

Let your partner decide the pace. If she's experienced she'll be your guide.

 

[Sub-Slut]

With zero warning- spit on it and go for broke.


I think Cock Throppled said it best, communication is always the safest route. Don't be afraid to talk to your partner, as some genius/amazing person once said "if you can't ask for the type of sex you want, you're not ready for that type of sex." Something along those lines at least.

 

[lukom]

Cock Throppled nailed it. Let her guide you along. Communication is also important., don't be afraid to ask certain questions. Some SP's once they book you in for Greek the only thing they might allow in that session could be Greek without FS for example. Given that this is your first time, it's normal to feel nervous even with an SP you've seen before. I recommend that you book extra time than usual with this SP for 2 main reasons, 1) You'll be nervous and may need that extra time to shake off the nerves, and 2) Allow some time to talk things through prior to going there, you will have to do some foreplay that focuses on that area (and possible even more than vaginal intercourse). For all you know this SP may not be the right fit for you when it comes to trying Greek the first time as she may be geared towards clients who are experienced in partaking, if she isn't consider other options.

Good luck!

 

[papillion]

Hey everyone,

So an SP I've been wanting to see for a bit does offer Greek services. Now, I've never partaken in greek with an SP before, and have only done it once (rather unfulfillingly) in my personal relationships.

I'm pretty much decided that I'm going to visit this girl this week. I'm just debating on whether or not to book the extra Greek service. A few questions that I have in mind, which might benefit from the perspective of guys and gals. My apologies if they're totally naive and clueless:

- Is it common practice to change condoms between regular FS and Greek? My personal logic would say yes, but then you see all the back-and-forthing in porn, so I wonder if that level of cleanliness is realistically achievable
- Any advice for a first time Greeker on making it an enjoyable experience for both parties?

Thanks in advance

The fact your SP has greek on the menu suggest she is experienced at it, let her know its on your to do list, that'll it will be your 1st, and follow her lead.
No need to be nervous, anal is exquisite sex, enjoy the trip; and write a review

 

[nmjoff]

Let her pound you first then you will know what it feels like LOL

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Hey everyone,

So an SP I've been wanting to see for a bit does offer Greek services. Now, I've never partaken in greek with an SP before, and have only done it once (rather unfulfillingly) in my personal relationships.

I'm pretty much decided that I'm going to visit this girl this week. I'm just debating on whether or not to book the extra Greek service. A few questions that I have in mind, which might benefit from the perspective of guys and gals. My apologies if they're totally naive and clueless:

- Is it common practice to change condoms between regular FS and Greek? My personal logic would say yes, but then you see all the back-and-forthing in porn, so I wonder if that level of cleanliness is realistically achievable
- Any advice for a first time Greeker on making it an enjoyable experience for both parties?

Thanks in advance

Yes oh yes for God's sake it is necessary to change the condom! Even if the SP has done a thorough clean out first. I have a long time client who sees me for Greek exclusively, and he brings his own condoms every time, & changes every time he pulls all the way out.

 

[ddcanz]

….. but then you see all the back-and-forthing in porn, so I wonder if that level of cleanliness is realistically achievable

Virtually NOTHING in porn is realistic.
Let an experienced provider guide the session.
Try googling "anal for beginners" for some solid insight.

 

[Bridge]

Let her pound you first then you will know what it feels like LOL

There is a lot to be said for gaining this experiential empathy!!

 

[Sub-Slut]

Virtually NOTHING in porn is realistic.

Are you telling me that I didn't have to have sex with that plumber?

 

[Shanghai]

For the first time, perhaps consider skipping the vag, and maybe let the girl, the pro, do all the work. She is on top, lots of Italian first, then reverse cowgirl. Lots of lube. Use that superslidy thin silicone-base sensations stuff that doesn’t get all tacky after a while (not that water-based crap that evaporates too quick).

During this exercise, that’s how you’ll learn about the way she wants it specifically. Then, all you have to do is sit back and enjoy the show. You’ll get a lot of information from that kind of a session when she cums that way. (My suggestion is in the first session not to worry about you focus on your coming in her ass, just focus on lasting until she is done, then the rest after that will be gravy.)

Another important consideration is the warm up. While you eat her out and stick a finger or two up her twat and another up her bum and feel around and note the texture and little nooks and crannies and angles. Both cavities expand considerably during this warmup, and you’ll learn a lot about angles, tightness, amount of lube required and so on. Don’t forget to take breaks. Back rubs and DFK makout sessions are good breaks.

Most chicks I find when the cum, they want whatever’s in their butt out pretty darn quick, so it doesn't detract from their big O. Keep lots of wet wipes and towels around.

I remember my session with that MonicaMassage 60-year old chick that likes anal more that kitty... I just could not for the life me figure out how I was messing up and not get Mr Happy in properly even shoving a couple pillows under her belly (knowing the dude hubby was downstairs tapping away at the computer probably didn’t help much either). I had to be satisfied with a couples of Italians (which was pretty darn good because of her amazing ass muscle control). Eva/Kayla was one of my first tries at anal, she loves anal, that was a good example of a beginner fail on my part as I didn’t have a clue what I was doing and she was expecting me to take control.

Tinier girls are easier to learn on in my experience. The super pros that are too loose it’s doesn’t feel like much. Somewhat pointless. After all, ass is supposed to be tighter, not looser than ze pusszee. Nikki Luv I recall being like that. The bigger girls you either need a super long black dick to get past the “buffer” zone, or you better be experienced, or they need to be super spread-eagley.

One car chick loved using a vibrator while being ass-fucked, and would switch it up and shove her vibrator in her ass. It looked like a tapered long unicorn horn; she stuck that sucker up her ass while I filled up her kitty. So there you go with another option to consider.

Bonus if you open minded enough to have things stuffed up YOUR ass so you know what it feels like. Finger, vibrator, toy, cock... there is an enormous range of, “hmm that’s sort of interesting” to “oh my GOD how are you DOING that, to “your ripping my ass APART! STOP STOP STOP (no, keep going...)

TMI? LOL

 

[lukom]

Did you end up making a decision and going through it with anyone?

 

[Finewine60]

My first anal was the women requested it, she warmed up with a butt plug and a little lube and in I went.
Agree that women need to be relaxed and warmed up with fingers and or a butt plug.
Most women love Anal once they have done it.

For me I am always terrified to injure the women as anal injuries are hardest to heal.
As said previously relax and let the women control the situation.

Not sure why so many men want it, I find most pussy really tight anyway just my nickel

 

[lukom]

Not sure why so many men want it, I find most pussy really tight anyway just my nickel

It's a fetish for most part, and a lot of women do find pleasure from it when done right.

 

[lukom]

May we ask "Whats Right " ?

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Truth about anal it's not for everyone and doing it right means something different for every human body. Some women can actually squirt for example. The idea is to focus and read the person you're doing it with, communicating, and even most importantly getting to know the area of the person. Don't just go in, start with some foreplay there, fingers, lube, don't be afraid to go there like groceries. If you're grossed out to eat ass you shouldn't be putting your dick there either.


You'd obviously also want to do this with someone who is genuinely into this, not just someone who is looking to make an extra few bucks. Also there is more cleanup and prep involved, so be sure to give the SP fair notice and go as far as asking if that's enough notice you're giving them. I tend to prefer same day appointments, the less notice I need to give an SP the easier it is for me personally, but for SP's you need to give them as much as possible. Some are fine with an hour, others prefer way more than that... which is why it's always good to ask if they need more time...etc