Glad I am not the only one

[WingedHorse]

I read with interest a posting by another perbite who noted he did not do intercourse with SPs, even when paying for FS.

I always thought I was the only one.

I am wondering how many others out there pay for FS but do not do intercourse?

I will do the deed on occasion, but as a general rule, I do not.

It is often an issue with Asian SPs. Sometimes they seem very disappointed and appear to take it as a criticism of them. I have even had some Asian SPs slide up my body after a BJ and push my cock inside them so we end up doing intercourse even when I did not want it. Not that I did not like it, but it was not what I was looking for.

I appreciate most perbites will likely find this unusual. I am wondering if there are others that just prefer oral play like me, and try to stay away from intercourse?


WH

 

[sevenofnine]

Like some one said in a different thread, the older I get just the location moves, less full service more oral.


You know it really depends on the lady. I enjoy oral or a hj, I tend to prefer it.

For some reason some ladies, I don't know sex doesn't quite do it, it just feels uncomfortable, or no sensation at all.

And I think it really depends on how ofton you see one lady. I mean the lady I see I have seen a lot.
So the same thing all the time gets rather boring, But when I first started seeing her yeah I preferred oral.

But after seeing her for quite awhile I apprciate sex with her, It is enjoyable feels quite nice,
we usually do various postitions and activities touch on everything.

But I get were your coming from, if a women has magic hands or a gifted mouth. There is nothing quite like it.

 

[ironguy]

I can relate.....actually fs is great but overrated and sometimes too frenetic and hurried, (unless you can find someone into the tantric scene, another one of my bucket list fantasies)...... now a great slow and relaxing massage, especially if I get to do the massage for a beautiful lady laying naked in front of me and a bonus is if I get to bring her to multiple big o's using my hands, fingers and of course my lips and tongue....after that,..... anything is acceptable...even fs

 

[papillion]

Some SPs are better at oral or HJs than vaginal intercourse, my last GF was an example

 

[Cock Throppled]

Am I missing something here?

Why pay for FS if you're not doing it?

Why not pay for BJ and upgrade if you later decide to go for FS?

 

[Elmore]

Am I missing something here?

Why pay for FS if you're not doing it?

Why not pay for BJ and upgrade if you later decide to go for FS?

I gave up trying to figure out why others do what they do...and so have some escorts have spoken with.

One said "the guy books for 1 hour and spends nearly the entire session on DATY and DATO!: I said well if that is what brings him pleasure then I guess that is what he does. And she said but the guy never comes and neither do I for that matter.

I am sure escorts could tell some crazy stories about what guys do in their session.

 

[addicted2lov]

Indeed - if you know for a fact you don't want intercourse why pay for it? Unless you make it clear to the lady from the beginning it creates the expectation that FS should happen during the session. Quite frankly I think there is no best place for my cock than a wet vagina. BJ, HJ or greek are just marginal enhancers for the session unless the fantasy of the moment dictates otherwise but that would be an exception not the rule. Sometimes I may not cum during the session and the ladies are usually surprised and slightly confused as if there was something wrong with them. Besides, a woman that is at least half decent warmed up will want it inside her so unless I clearly go into the session as a receiver it doesn't make sense not to FS. The FS in itself may not feel right for a number of reasons - like anatomical differences, mental and physical state, mechanical factors such as condom or amount of lubrication, etc. So in my opinion is important to at least sample it at least with a new provider just so I know if it's worth coming back.

 

[WingedHorse]

Am I missing something here?

Why pay for FS if you're not doing it?

Why not pay for BJ and upgrade if you later decide to go for FS?

Good question. The reason why I stay away from intercourse is because I have never liked using condoms, and as I have gotten older I have just decided screw it (ignore the irony of this phrase), keep the condom off, let's just do mutual oral and have us both get off. 69, as you can probably imagine, is one of my favourites, particularly if CIM is involved.

Now, why do I pay for FS? Because I want a GFE with everything except for the actual penetration. Just paying for a BJ or an R&T does not get you that. Also, I am not short of funds, and I quite frankly feel that if a beautiful young woman is willing to engage in sexual acts with me, she deserves to be paid well, regardless of whether I actually want to do intercourse. Therefore, I pay for FS, because it gets me the GFE I want, and everyone leaves happy.


WH

 

[Lady Companion]

Everybody defines a fabulous experience differently. As long as everyone is happy with the liaison, then there is no right, wrong or normal. Less than 20% of my suitors desire FS, so I don't view it as an unusual concept at all.

It's about creating a custom tailored sensual experience which surpasses expectations. For my suitors, this includes connecting in a real and meaningful way and having the comfort and trust to fully let go so the experience can encompass the entire mind, body and spirit. I enjoy all activities, but find sensuality far more tantalizing than overt sexuality. When you have a genuine connection with somebody, oral can be far more intimate than FS. It allows much more teasing, eye contact, flirting, tenderness etc. It also engages more of the senses, which when done right, provides a much more powerful climax.

That is the beauty of the world. There is somebody for everyone.

If you are simply looking for a list of acronyms or alphabet soup, then by all means, find the least expensive lady who will happily provide that for you.

An experience isn't defined by the boxes you check off. It is defined by how shared time makes your heart sing, and how you are left changed for the better afterward.

Who and what are you going to remember when you are 90, sitting on your porch in a rocking chair and reflecting upon the meaningful interactions in your life?

 

[VanessaofBC]

Everybody defines a fabulous experience differently. As long as everyone is happy with the liaison, then there is no right, wrong or normal. Less than 20% of my suitors desire FS, so I don't view it as an unusual concept at all.

It's about creating a custom tailored sensual experience which surpasses expectations. For my suitors, this includes connecting in a real and meaningful way and having the comfort and trust to fully let go so the experience can encompass the entire mind, body and spirit. I enjoy all activities, but find sensuality far more tantalizing than overt sexuality. When you have a genuine connection with somebody, oral can be far more intimate than FS. It allows much more teasing, eye contact, flirting, tenderness etc. It also engages more of the senses, which when done right, provides a much more powerful climax.

That is the beauty of the world. There is somebody for everyone.

If you are simply looking for a list of acronyms or alphabet soup, then by all means, find the least expensive lady who will happily provide that for you.

An experience isn't defined by the boxes you check off. It is defined by how shared time makes your heart sing, and how you are left changed for the better afterward.

Who and what are you going to remember when you are 90, sitting on your porch in a rocking chair and reflecting upon the meaningful interactions in your life?

Wrapped up so eloquently, thank you CA!

 

[J.O. Henson]

Amazing this thread appeared now. I recently had discussions with a lady about just this. Personally I don't always need the FS to happen. To be honest I rarely take advantage but keep it on the table just in case it's one of those days. What I've found is to re-assure the lady that it's my choice and has no bearing on her looks or any other reason that may go through her head. I have never left a session unsatisfied. As long as I'm leaving happy with the session then that's what matters. Those I choose to see have never let me down.
Additionally maybe I'm old school or something but I'm in it for the connection. I get maximum pleasure sometimes from simply treating her like a princess and having a sensual session maybe reversing the roles and seeing what she'd enjoy. As long as that connection is there. If that means giving her a massage, then the look of her enjoyment can be as enjoyed by me as much anything. I feel you do have to have a level of respect for these ladies maybe to a fault even. Yeah I may be a bit different in my view of this hobby but I pay to make me happy.
In my view if I just wanted a blow up doll experience I'd go by one.
But this is just my opinion. Yours can be different and that's not right or wrong.

 

[kpax]

I get it.

For me, I get plenty of intercourse at home but lack in the foreplay. When I see a SP, I really want to just have a session of tons of foreplay followed by an oral release. I find the acts of kissing, daty touching and exploring much more stimulating. Many of the girls I have seen regularly get this as well...they have boyfriends too that would rather just get to the act.

 

[Jessica James]

Maybe what he means is he pays the full gfe rate even though he isn't having intercourse . I'm not sure if clients are aware of this but we are not unionized everyone in the sex industry regardless if it's a escort service or independent massage /escort charges whatever they want . If your looking for piece meal sessions that's cool but it's a whole other deal with a
Lady that creates an atmosphere where you are not limited and it's all inclusive

 

[hornygandalf]

Classy Angel provided a really interesting number with the 20% for FS, which although I found surprising, I suspect indicates that at the upper end, there really is a different experience and range of services being provided and paid for than at the Asian micro's. It would be interesting to hear from other ladies if the experience of Classy Angel is atypical, or more common than we would expect.

This is also the kind of thing that should get greater exposure in the media over the next year with the discussions around sex-trafficking and the need to criminalize the 'johns' but some sections of the political elite. It is a much more complex and nuanced issue with sex trafficking really only a small part of it... I suspect.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

snip...It would be interesting to hear from other ladies if the experience of Classy Angel is atypical, or more common than we would expect.

If a lady in this business has a clientele that is asking for FS only 20% of the time, that is more likely a massage/healing-type business, not an escort/courtesan/companion business.

As I mentioned in the other thread, there is a lot more to the business than the sex but sex is definitely part of the business. If you want another perspective, here it is. 100% of my clients see me for FS, along with their full-body massage, their foot massage, their cuddling and kissing on the couch while we sip on a glass of wine, and almost every acronym that you might find in a GFE session, with the exception of bbbj and greek (not an acronym, but you get it)!

 

[hornygandalf]

snip... 100% of my clients see me for FS, along with their full-body massage, their foot massage, their cuddling and kissing on the couch while we sip on a glass of wine, and almost every acronym that you might find in a GFE session, with the exception of bbbj and greek (not an acronym, but you get it)!

Thanks... and the other parts of the GFE session are prominently promoted as part of your experience while less so with many other ladies.
Sounds like there is some market segmentation very clearly going on with Classy Angel in a different segment as you suggest.

 

[cherise]

all of this really makes me chuckle..personally,my rates are all-inclusive--you are paying for my time, NOT services!
if you were to look at the individual acts, seems to me bj or hj should cost MORE,as not only do they require more physical effort (not to mention discomfort from odd angles)but there is no sexual gratification for the lady administering it.

think about it ...1 hr session bj only ,thats a lot of strain on the neck ,back, elbows ,etc.
no sexual brelease for the lady
i hr session hj....all of the above plus hand cramps
1 hr session fs....switch it up rest a while while he does some pounding and everybody leaves satisfied

 

[johnsmit]

There are so many reasons we see the girls for..
FS .. is only one.....and i never looked at as I was paying for one thing or the other..

I usually just selted for regulares.. saw them many times.. and it was my social.. I booked thier time.. payed them bscause. they could do with the money.and some times I had sex .. other times. just spent some time together.. Many time i just wanted to do a photo shoot...
Thats whats it about...

 

[alcxd]

For me it is alot to do with the company, attitude, relaxation, etc.
Where else can you just spend a few hours with a beautiful woman, & totally relax.
It's my break from reality, do not think about anything other than .................... :cheer2:

 

[PlayfulAlex]

For me it is alot to do with the company, attitude, relaxation, etc.
Where else can you just spend a few hours with a beautiful woman, & totally relax.
It's my break from reality, do not think about anything other than .................... :cheer2:

Very nicely said...she should make you feel extra special, and the date supremely worthwhile (whatever acronyms take place during the event)!