Giving up your friends cause you found a gf?

[LittleAsianGuy]

Most of my friends often call nonstop when they are single. But when they find some girl they dissapear. I find it annoying and i tell these guys this.

 

[JustJess]

Most of my friends often call nonstop when they are single. But when they find some girl they dissapear. I find it annoying and i tell these guys this.

I have a guy friend....who does the exact same thing....I am no longer a friend because his new girlfriend can't handle me....like wtf?? But I can't blame her....it's his decision right...and it's just not cool.

 

[JustJess]

That now you have a new friend and some one whose enjoyment is other than with a male friend. But there is something to watch for here. Nothing worse than a female who wants you to give up your male friends for her. It is a form of control, it is unrealistic, damaging and you should run like hell. You might find coincidentally that she keeps her female friends, but keeps you from them too because she is afraid to lose you to one of them. End result is that you become very isolated under her wing.

Run like hell if you get this treatment. It becomes worse, never stops, and takes on other permutations and combinations.

In a healthy relationship you both would enjoy the company of mutual friends of both sexes in an atmosphere of trust. Not uncommon that one of you might not like one of the mate's friends, but usually you can perserve for an evening or two.

Although I appreciate what you are saying....he is talking of a male losing his friends to a femaile as was I.....but you know it's the same thing....

 

[rampart]

How about a girlfriend that has no friends female or male? These ones always seem to have issues. They make you their whole life and freak out totally when you have any contact with your own friends.

 

[ReluctantPooner]

I have a very close female friend, who I've always wanted to be more than friends. When I do start dating someone else, I could understand that person being worried about her.

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

omg i know a girl like this and she's nutso

How about a girlfriend that has no friends female or male? These ones always seem to have issues. They make you their whole life and freak out totally when you have any contact with your own friends.

 

[belmontkingsize]

Its normal to some degree to talk to your friends less when you have a significant other but totally cutting them off isnt right.

 

[Validator]

haha, yea, same here. There's a part of me that understands why...so i let it be. but what gets really annoying is when they're girls are treating like crap, controlling, etc and they are so whipped they have no idea..

In other words, i think it's one thing if they "sacrifice" their friends for a good girlfriend..and another thing for a b*tch of a girlfriend...

 

[MaxBoner]

Then they come back when they broke up or are on a 'break', then disappear again for months. Very annoying.

 

[Lurker 123]

Most of my friends often call nonstop when they are single. But when they find some girl they dissapear. I find it annoying and i tell these guys this.

When a girl found me, she would call me none stop. When she found another guy, she would also disappear!

 

[HeMadeMeDoIt]

Most of my friends often call nonstop when they are single. But when they find some girl they dissapear. I find it annoying and i tell these guys this.

If I had a penny for each time this has happened to me I'd be a rich man! Hell I've had a good friend recently tell her I liked to bang whores to make himself feel righteous when a few weeks earlier we were ordering in pussy together!

 

[TheGuy]

Most of my friends often call nonstop when they are single. But when they find some girl they dissapear. I find it annoying and i tell these guys this.

If your company can't compete with a blow job I wouldn't take that too personally; not too many men can complete.

Don't worry once the GF starts to bitch your buddies will be back!