one of the girls i work with, who i wouldn't really say i'm going out with but i wouldn't say i'm not with either, bought me a $700 jacket for christmas. i wasn't expecting it, but now i gotta get her something nice. it's not about the money, but what the fuck do i buy that shows i put in that much effort or thought? any help from the ladies or guys would be appreciated.
gift help.....desperately needed
- Thread starter kalel
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a simple necklace and bracelet set from tiffany.
http://www.tiffany.ca/Shopping/Item...-p+36-c+287465-r+501323338-x+-n+6-ri+-ni+0-t+
http://www.tiffany.ca/Shopping/Item...5-p+9-c+287458-r+501323338-x+-n+6-ri+-ni+0-t+
http://www.tiffany.ca/Shopping/Item...-p+36-c+287465-r+501323338-x+-n+6-ri+-ni+0-t+
http://www.tiffany.ca/Shopping/Item...5-p+9-c+287458-r+501323338-x+-n+6-ri+-ni+0-t+
EVERY guy is gonna pull a tiffany's or spend a wad of cash on something that she can get herself (I'm assuming she's well off too). So get her something that rings true to her on a deeper level - like something that plays on an inside joke experience u too share. Do something different and if she doesn't like it cuz of the $$value, then that says something about her character and that maybe u shouldn't be dating her. It makes for a good way to see what she's made of...and u too. I mean, any guy can get her jewelry, right?
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i suppose, but i'm going to send a girl to tiffany's to go get the gift. i couldn't pick out jewelry to save my life.
mmmm tbh. I once bought a girl a big candy cane shaped container filled with skittles. She loved it. Sometimes its really not money, its thought.
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kidding. most of the girls around me are really good with my son and decent friends who, whether i've stuck it in them or not, deserve to be treated nicely. and i don't mind buying them stuff to show that appreciation, but in this case i find myself trying to play catch up. i wasn't expecting anything nor did i want her to think that she's "the one" right now. i'm casual dating at best since i can't commit due to time constraints or the fact that my son is my life.
so you see where i'm going with this
kidding. most of the girls around me are really good with my son and decent friends who, whether i've stuck it in them or not, deserve to be treated nicely. and i don't mind buying them stuff to show that appreciation, but in this case i find myself trying to play catch up. i wasn't expecting anything nor did i want her to think that she's "the one" right now. i'm casual dating at best since i can't commit due to time constraints or the fact that my son is my life.
Oh my god, I have a Dyson and I totally love it! Haha, this is my dorky moment...I would have loved the Dyson Vacuum Cleaner.
I am just a sucker for things that I can actually. Jewelry just doesn't do it for me anymore. It was ruined by the guy that would buy jewelry to make up for not enough time spent.
Anyway-
I do think jewelry was a good pick over the handbag. I have absolutely no interest in handbags, so I don't agree that buying an expensive handbag is a safe bet when shopping for a woman...but a nice piece of jewelry is pretty much always appropriate. Even if she's not a big jewelry fan, it's nice to have something to wear to parties, special occasions, etc.
Until recently I didn't have any nice jewelry of my own, and always had to borrow a friend's when I was invited to a wedding, or a special event.
When it comes down to it, I would always go for a personal gift over an expensive gift, but since it sounds like you don't know her too well (yet) then this is probably a good bet
I totally agree with you here. Although, I cant imagine getting or giving something so expensive from someone that I really was not serious with.
I like the gifts where thought was put into it. No matter the price tag.
Something that would reflect on what that person personality or passions are.
For example. I love spiders. Anything that has to do with a spider..and I would flip over it. Or crystal jewelery. My tastes are simple. So if I received LV bag and a crystal spider necklace.....I would totally freak over the necklace. The bag??? It isnt me.
love and laughs
April
Awe thank you Hunsperger. That was sweet of you to say so. I always try to be nice... and put others feelings before mine
And a very Merry Christmas to you.
Heres to having Santa bring
all that you wish for.
love and laughs
April
