GFE's are better with Regular visits

[Ghetto Child]

Highly recommended you never ask for GFE on a first visit. You can get it on a first time but it may be a waste of your money and her time. You may not have a enough chemistry with that SP to make the GFE worth while. A wise client commits to a GFE session with a girl he knowa that it will go well with.

Even the girls that provide the best GFE in town provide better GFE sessions with guys they know better. Repeats clients get better treatment since they are revenue that can be banked on. Comfort level is very important especially for DATY and kissing to happen.

GFE is very personal and I know very few SP's that can commit to a great GFE experience with a first time client. It requires more intimacy which is easier if you know the SP better and she is comfortable with you.

Very few SP's provide a full GFE experience due to the level of intimacy required to make it worth while.

It is hard for the SP to feel conformable providing a GFE to a complete stranger. With a couple of sessions she knows you better and may feel more relaxed with you then watch out because now that GFE may be more than your heart can handle.

 

[dick slap]

Highly recommended you never ask for GFE on a first visit. You can get it on a first time but it may be a waste of your money and her time. You may not have a enough chemistry with that SP to make the GFE worth while. A wise client commits to a GFE session with a girl he knowa that it will go well with.

Even the girls that provide the best GFE in town provide better GFE sessions with guys they know better. Repeats clients get better treatment since they are revenue that can be banked on. Comfort level is very important especially for DATY and kissing to happen.

GFE is very personal and I know very few SP's that can commit to a great GFE experience with a first time client. It requires more intimacy which is easier if you know the SP better and she is comfortable with you.

Very few SP's provide a full GFE experience due to the level of intimacy required to make it worth while.

It is hard for the SP to feel conformable providing a GFE to a complete stranger. With a couple of sessions she knows you better and may feel more relaxed with you then watch out because now that GFE may be more than your heart can handle.

I find that the second visit determines the level and sometimes 2 visits is all you need. However I've had some great first time GFE experience as well. Depends on the SP.

DS

 

[Ghetto Child]

depends on the Chemistry too..

You gotta find a girl that you click well with for a good GFE.

 

[Very Veronica]

Depends what you're after in gfe. Personally, i like fucking strangers. I'm way likelier to shove my tongue down some guy's throat (mr. halitosis excepted) that i don't know...if i get too much info on wife/kids/boring job/suburbia, i lose my hard-on.

 

[ace85]

You have such a way of putting things

Serious question VV.

When was the last time you propositioned a complete stranger off the clock??

Did he accept???

 

[Very Veronica]

Serious question VV.

When was the last time you propositioned a complete stranger off the clock??

Did he accept???

That's what clients are for, my dear.

Also, even though sex with strangers can be very hot, best sex is with my vvvip regular charity cases...so i guess i'm just a big softie after all.

 

[rockyy]

That's what clients are for, my dear.

Also, even though sex with strangers can be very hot, best sex is with my vvvip regular charity cases...so i guess i'm just a big softie after all.

hm. i might qualify... I only have one ball.

 

[Very Veronica]

hm. i might qualify... I only have one ball.

Well, that certainly puts you ahead of most guys.

 

[Randy Whorewald]

Well, that certainly puts you ahead of most guys.

So true So true!!

 

[Avery]

I can beat that! I don't have any balls! My SO has had them for years....

Ever since she found out about your hobby?

 

[rockyy]

Well, that certainly puts you ahead of most guys.

You never run out out do ya...?
Guys, help. I think I'm falling in love with Vee Vee...

 

[Oh_Claire]

What is GFE, really?

So many ppl talk about GFE and I keep wondering, what is it anyways? I used to have this idea that it was all about cuddling, holding hands, intimate talk, sensual passion that only real lovers could have, but I keep getting these comments:
If you were my girlfriend I could stick it in your ass
My girlfriends would never use condoms with me
I can cum in my gf's mouth

??? If I considered GFE to be how I am with my partners, then YOU would ALWAYS be on top, YOU would not get to slobber on my pussy, YOU would never get a blow job, or get near my ass with tongue, fingers, Especially cock! My boyfriends are never very lucky, they get the short end of the stick. I guess with a little incentive, throwing sexy underwear on and adding some lust to it is normal.
And I never, ever parade around in lingerie and high heels for my bfs. That's just a plus you get in the discreet, no strings relationship!

So back to my origional question, what do you (the gentlemen) consider GFE?

 

[littlejonny]

My interpretation is DFK and DATY.

 

[Aeiyah]

http://www.sexwork.com/Intimacy/GFE.html

 

[dick slap]

That's why we visit SP's

So many ppl talk about GFE and I keep wondering, what is it anyways? I used to have this idea that it was all about cuddling, holding hands, intimate talk, sensual passion that only real lovers could have, but I keep getting these comments:
If you were my girlfriend I could stick it in your ass
My girlfriends would never use condoms with me
I can cum in my gf's mouth

??? If I considered GFE to be how I am with my partners, then YOU would ALWAYS be on top, YOU would not get to slobber on my pussy, YOU would never get a blow job, or get near my ass with tongue, fingers, Especially cock! My boyfriends are never very lucky, they get the short end of the stick. I guess with a little incentive, throwing sexy underwear on and adding some lust to it is normal.
And I never, ever parade around in lingerie and high heels for my bfs. That's just a plus you get in the discreet, no strings relationship!

So back to my origional question, what do you (the gentlemen) consider GFE?

With that attitude your boyfriend would have no choice but visit an sp to have what most guys want - A lady in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom.

 

[Ghetto Child]

GFE: My definition

DATY Kissing, and some DFK but never anything uncovered on me. Put the girl at risk is not cool thing to do in GFE. The best GFE has a emotional level where you can forget for a moment where you are and get lost the moment.

The emotional state is the most important part of the GFE. This is thee heaven I keep talking about where you can get completely lost with a girl and loose all sense of time.

 

[CJ Tylers]

Well, GFE does not include unsafe or hurtful acts. Bareback, CIM and anal are not required for GFE. GFE usually means DATY, BJ's, French kissing, cuddling... lots of intense carnal action that someone might expect from an intimate relationship on a more normal scale...where lust and love occur.

??? If I considered GFE to be how I am with my partners, then YOU would ALWAYS be on top, YOU would not get to slobber on my pussy, YOU would never get a blow job, or get near my ass with tongue, fingers, Especially cock! My boyfriends are never very lucky, they get the short end of the stick. I guess with a little incentive, throwing sexy underwear on and adding some lust to it is normal.
And I never, ever parade around in lingerie and high heels for my bfs. That's just a plus you get in the discreet, no strings relationship!

No insult intended, but I wouldn't want to be your bf if that's your attitude. Honestly, most people are the other way around... more carnal with the SO and less so with the strangers.

When I settle down, whomever I'm with had better have a healthy interest in good sex. I'd never expect a BJ, but I'd expect that she'd be willing to do it (and perhaps want to do it) as much as I'd want to go down on her.

Sex, passion, lust...and all the sensual connections made during the act are a very big part of most relationships. Sexy underwear and a little lust doesn't cut it.

 

[littlejonny]

I'm afraid I've been spoiled by this lifestyle with the SP's. If a girlfriend didn't give me what I got from them, I'm pretty sure the relationship would have no future.

 

[Ghetto Child]

I agree with LJ

I'm afraid I've been spoiled by this lifestyle with the SP's. If a girlfriend didn't give me what I got from them, I'm pretty sure the relationship would have no future.

Some SP's do such a good job it is hard to go back to regular girlfriends.

 

[Clueless in AB]

Great Article

http://www.sexwork.com/Intimacy/GFE.html

This part of the second link at the bottom of that page was also informative:
Why Pay for GFE
A sexworker says:
I tend to see these men for an hour or so. Even the regulars I see usually less than weekly, maybe twice a month. One of the requirements for true intimacy is the time for it to grow and blossom. Two hours a month isn't much time. Sure, eventually I get to know and get comfortable with my regulars, to befriend them and know them as people, and to care about them. That's just not as possible with someone I see less often or only once.

Secondly, many have relationships. They do not come to me for emotional attachment, but a physical experience.

Third, when I am working, my entire being is focused on the man and giving him the maximum pleasure I can. My wants, desires do not interfere. This isn't how it works for a girlfriend. If I switched to a girlfriend role, the man would probably be disapointed, as he would be getting the same experience he can get in his relationship.

When I see these men, I am warm, friendly, accessible, accepting. I don't just rush them in and out. I try to make their visit a very pleasant experience. I think this is what so many mean by GFE. Many women in the biz don't bother, it's "I'm here, lets' get ths over with." attitude.
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It's that last sentence that created forums like this one that I, for one, are grateful for.