Gfe

[rubintugger]

Hey,

GFE means Girl Friend Experience, we take that to include French Kissing and no fake moans and casual talking, cuddling and the like. As compared to a PSE which includes sex, sex, sex... hard and heavy, slam, bam, take it again ma'am, I mean beatch...

Now, I've had some GF's that were PSE's, including one that out-sexed me even with chemical enhancements. When she got a grip on you down there, she wouldn't let go. And that wasn't with her hand... but thats another story.

So, is a SP offered a True GFE, would that iinclude begging for sex, compromising on the actual acts, and if you stop seeing her, having her hound you to your dying day, disrupting your life?

Just wondering, input anyone?

Rubin

 

[Riderfan]

I'm too ugly to have ever had a girlfriend.
If you are speaking of a particular SP in your life then that sound not as much like GF as it does a STALKER. That's what happens when you are so damn good.

 

[Dr.Nick]

Are you saying that a SP turned GF is starting to make trouble for you? A few years ago I had a woman I met at a business function and then took on a few dates, began to stalk and harrass me. I had only been separated for 6 months at the time and she even hasseled my ex (which you can imagine really fucked things up). I initially tried to talk some sense into her but eventually had to get a restraining order. She eventually got the message and has since moved or that's what I heard. I must say I came close a couple of times to going to her place an giving her a good smack especially when her antics began to mess with my child custody negotiations. My buddy, who is also my lawyer, luckily talked me down.
Good luck. If you need to talk or whatever PM me.

 

[shedevil]

Well...

Hey,

GFE means Girl Friend Experience, we take that to include French Kissing and no fake moans and casual talking, cuddling and the like. As compared to a PSE which includes sex, sex, sex... hard and heavy, slam, bam, take it again ma'am, I mean beatch...

Now, I've had some GF's that were PSE's, including one that out-sexed me even with chemical enhancements. When she got a grip on you down there, she wouldn't let go. And that wasn't with her hand... but thats another story.

So, is a SP offered a True GFE, would that iinclude begging for sex, compromising on the actual acts, and if you stop seeing her, having her hound you to your dying day, disrupting your life?

Just wondering, input anyone?

Rubin

Perhaps you are referring to girlfriend without the hassles?

Providing a GFE can be tricky, because you can get those emotions that we cannot help but feel right?

I suppose part of the expecation of the GFE for hire, is a way to get around the calls, explanations and OBLIGATIONS.

The frills of the sex, minus the headache of the reltionship? Changed whenever you have the urge?

Is it that someone is troubling you?


Personally, I enjoy providing the experience and enjoying it as it is and no more.

Some more than others...

 

[rubintugger]

Perhaps you are referring to girlfriend without the hassles?

Providing a GFE can be tricky, because you can get those emotions that we cannot help but feel right?

I suppose part of the expecation of the GFE for hire, is a way to get around the calls, explanations and OBLIGATIONS.

The frills of the sex, minus the headache of the reltionship? Changed whenever you have the urge?

Is it that someone is troubling you?


Personally, I enjoy providing the experience and enjoying it as it is and no more.

Some more than others...

First, No, no-one is troubling me. At least not in that way. Although we've heard of that happening recently. It was just a thought I had whilst reading some online ads.

Yes, I think GFE means sex without the headache of relationship. My question is why someone would go that one step further and claim to provide a True GFE? What makes it a "true" GFE? My conjecture was that it was the headaches and begging that made it a "true" experience...

I like shedevils idea of a GFE... must take her up on that again soon. Last time was Mmmmmm... so goooood.

Rubin
(I have sex almost every day... almost on Monday, almost on Tuesday, almost on Wednesday....)

 

[gabrielle]

why a girl would refer to her gfe as a 'true' gfe

is it maybe because GFE seems to be 'promoted' more, since the has demand increased?
i'm just thinking that because of the increase in girls who offer this service, that there are those exceptional girls who provide the service above and beyond the average gfe. i think of myself like this.

just like the variations in all the other services, gfe would have its below/average/above just the same. some girls are just better at it than others??

 

[Dr.Nick]

Now that we have clarified the question (and you can all ignore my prior reply) the entire GFE thing is a YMMV issue. As previously stated all SP's claim to offer GFE service because that seems to be what the marketplace is demanding. I think we all have an idea of what that means to us individually and it is a matter of finding that one or 2 ladies who do it for you. For me, I do this because I am very busy, have a child (single parent) and at this point in my life don't have time for the hassles, demands, commitments of a "normal" dating relationship. For me a GFE is someone who I can see once a week or so, relax with, talk, share a glass of wine, have great sex, then go my way and not have to worry about her being pissed off that I didn't call the next day or I went golfing with my buddies instead of antique hunting with her.

 

[Dulcinea]

So, is a SP offered a True GFE, would that iinclude begging for sex, compromising on the actual acts, and if you stop seeing her, having her hound you to your dying day, disrupting your life?

Just wondering, input anyone?

Isn't this what boyfriends do? And who would complain about their gf begging for sex? sheesh

 

[gabrielle]

exactly demarco

it is code for whats on the menu without having to say specifics...as us girls aren't really supposed to say anything until we are outofthe public's view!!

 

[FullyErect]

I got that...

it is code for whats on the menu without having to say specifics...as us girls aren't really supposed to say anything until we are outofthe public's view!!

I got that part..... but whats code for whats definitely OFF some SP's menu... thats the rub (pardon the pun) since EVERYONE is saying GFE since THAT as everyone has said so far.. is where the demand is.

I understand that a lady wants to have her limits, she is one that has to live with the risk level she accepts. Not saying anything AT ALL against that. But we poor hobbyists need a way to sort the ladies out...no?

 

[Avery]

Isn't this what boyfriends do? And who would complain about their gf begging for sex? sheesh

I'm sure that rubintugger meant that the client would have to beg, not the SP. He was obviously being facetious.

 

[Avery]

In December, there was a poll on MERB (Montreal Escort Review Board) on what constitutes GFE service. This was because a lot of agencies were advertising that their ladies provide GFE, and some posters were disputing some of these claims. Here are the results of the poll.

The first (whole) number is the number of votes cast; the second is the percentage of the total.

BBBJ, DATY, LFK 5 4.13%
BBBJ, DATY, DFK 15 12.40%
BBBJ, DATY, LFK, MSOG 14 11.57%
BBBJ, DATY, DFK, MSOG 58 47.93%
BBBJ and DATY only 0 0%
BBBJ and LFK only 2 1.65%
BBBJ and DFK only 2 1.65%
BBBJ and MSOG only 0 0%
CBJ and everything else including good attitude 1 0.83%
Acronyms are irrelevant, what counts is if she feels like a GFE 24 19.83%

Total votes cast 121 100.0%

Of the 97 members who voted for an option related to specific activities, all 97 said kissing (mostly DFK) must be included, 96 said BBBJ had to be included, and 93 said DATY must be included.

 

[rubintugger]

In December, there was a poll on MERB (Montreal Escort Review Board) on what constitutes GFE service. This was because a lot of agencies were advertising that their ladies provide GFE, and some posters were disputing some of these claims. Here are the results of the poll.

The first (whole) number is the number of votes cast; the second is the percentage of the total.

BBBJ, DATY, LFK 5 4.13%
BBBJ, DATY, DFK 15 12.40%
BBBJ, DATY, LFK, MSOG 14 11.57%
BBBJ, DATY, DFK, MSOG 58 47.93%
BBBJ and DATY only 0 0%
BBBJ and LFK only 2 1.65%
BBBJ and DFK only 2 1.65%
BBBJ and MSOG only 0 0%
CBJ and everything else including good attitude 1 0.83%
Acronyms are irrelevant, what counts is if she feels like a GFE 24 19.83%

Total votes cast 121 100.0%

Of the 97 members who voted for an option related to specific activities, all 97 said kissing (mostly DFK) must be included, 96 said BBBJ had to be included, and 93 said DATY must be included.

Wow, pooning statistical analysis... whoda thunkit?

There seem to be a lot of acronyms that are overused or misunderstood, and I guess what I was trying to do with this thread was try to clarify one of the most common. Looks like I failed, cause while everyone has a similar idea, there was no definative answer arrived at.

One of the main problems is the root of the acronym, "Girlfriend". Everyone seems to have different expectations of a girlfriend, and definitions of a girlfriend. If we were to add some descriptors to the GF, like "Long Term Monogamous GF", then we can assume some BB activity would be involved. "New GF" might include a pre-coital wine and dine. "Making up after a fight GF" might be used to describe a more intense physical side to the sex. "True GF" might include the clingy emotional ties and call next day and flowers and catty behaviour and disbelief when the BF is caught "cheating". What other descriptors can you come up with?

Rubin

 

[Riderfan]

In December, there was a poll on MERB (Montreal Escort Review Board) on what constitutes GFE service. This was because a lot of agencies were advertising that their ladies provide GFE, and some posters were disputing some of these claims. Here are the results of the poll.

The first (whole) number is the number of votes cast; the second is the percentage of the total.

BBBJ, DATY, LFK 5 4.13%
BBBJ, DATY, DFK 15 12.40%
BBBJ, DATY, LFK, MSOG 14 11.57%
BBBJ, DATY, DFK, MSOG 58 47.93%
BBBJ and DATY only 0 0%
BBBJ and LFK only 2 1.65%
BBBJ and DFK only 2 1.65%
BBBJ and MSOG only 0 0%
CBJ and everything else including good attitude 1 0.83%
Acronyms are irrelevant, what counts is if she feels like a GFE 24 19.83%

Total votes cast 121 100.0%

Of the 97 members who voted for an option related to specific activities, all 97 said kissing (mostly DFK) must be included, 96 said BBBJ had to be included, and 93 said DATY must be included.

Avery, where do you get this stuff? This Banjo picking hillbilly is still trying to figure out the my bushels per acre this fall. Is there anything about Pooning you don't know.

 

[Avery]

Riderfan, it's no big deal. I belong to TERB and MERB, since I travel to Toronto and Montreal and see ladies there. I don't post much at all on either board anymore, though, since I usually see ladies I've already reviewed there.

All that stuff I quoted came from one thread. All I did was copy the poll results at the top of the thread and post them here.

And, I'm sure there's lots about pooning I don't know - it's a lifelong learning experience!

 

[Dr.Nick]

Man am I ever in big trouble with the SPCA.