GFE means what, exaclty?

[NoAverageGuy75]

I know it is services "above and beyond the act itself", but, ummmmmm... what exactly does that mean?

What is GFE and what isn't? Should I ask for it? Should I pay for it? Should I not?

What is the difference between non-GFE and GFE?

Thanks
NoAverageGuy

 

[dirtydan]

I know it is services "above and beyond the act itself", but, ummmmmm... what exactly does that mean?

What is GFE and what isn't? Should I ask for it? Should I pay for it? Should I not?

What is the difference between non-GFE and GFE?

Thanks
NoAverageGuy

GFE: girlfriend experience. Essentially the Sp treats you really nice as if she was your girlfriend. Includes DFK, deep French kissing.

 

[Randy Whorewald]

GFE can mean different things to many people. You should ask the sp you want to see what her interpretation of it is.

 

[dick slap]

simple

I've found that generally GFE means that the sp enjoys sex and likes to please men. Some sp's can fake this really well while others are genuine.

DS

 

[broadwaybodycare]

I totally agree with you dick slap...

Some girls love what they do and really enjoy it..... and i think that is a true GFE experience.

 

[The Lizard King]

A GFE is when you pay for the following:
- be told that you don't talk enough or "communicate" and how you take her for granted
- be told how you don't do enough things together and you don't take her out enough or appreciate her company
- be told you watch too much sports
- be told you drink too much and/or smoke too much weed
- listen to what an asshole you are for hangin' out with your immature, degenerate friends at the titty bar after work
- listen to the rental talk about how her girlfriend's boyfriend treats her friend like shit and doesn't deserve her (he's at the 50, he's at the 40....)
- to fantasize about another chick while you're bangin' the one you're with because you're already tired of bangin' her
- to stop getting head or only getting "cheater" head, which is a glorified handjob
- get an elbow to the ribs for eyeballing hot chicks, especially the teenage Britney wannabees at the mall
- to be bitched at because you work too much
- hear how she's tired of you, you're too nice of a guy, treat her too good and how it's not an exciting enough relationship
- listen as to how much better she could have done in life if she didn't put a bunch of shit off just for you
- hear about how her biological clock is ticking

In general, to pay just to be beat down in life.

Did I miss anything?

 

[dick slap]

Ymmv

A GFE is when you pay for the following:
- be told that you don't talk enough or "communicate" and how you take her for granted
- be told how you don't do enough things together and you don't take her out enough or appreciate her company
- be told you watch too much sports
- be told you drink too much and/or smoke too much weed
- listen to what an asshole you are for hangin' out with your immature, degenerate friends at the titty bar after work
- listen to the rental talk about how her girlfriend's boyfriend treats her friend like shit and doesn't deserve her (he's at the 50, he's at the 40....)
- to fantasize about another chick while you're bangin' the one you're with because you're already tired of bangin' her
- to stop getting head or only getting "cheater" head, which is a glorified handjob
- get an elbow to the ribs for eyeballing hot chicks, especially the teenage Britney wannabees at the mall
- to be bitched at because you work too much
- hear how she's tired of you, you're too nice of a guy, treat her too good and how it's not an exciting enough relationship
- listen as to how much better she could have done in life if she didn't put a bunch of shit off just for you
- hear about how her biological clock is ticking

In general, to pay just to be beat down in life.

Did I miss anything?

Depending on who you are apparently YMMV

 

[TheGuy]

Gfe

I agree - once you move from lover to girlfriend you got to know it is all down hill from there. Love is the end of sex!

Regarding SP I feel that much of the time GFE is a method of charging $50 more for the same thing except you get a hug at the end!

 

[Randy Whorewald]

Some might call this GFE

 

[yoniluvrca]

I know it is services "above and beyond the act itself", but, ummmmmm... what exactly does that mean?

What is GFE and what isn't? Should I ask for it? Should I pay for it? Should I not?

What is the difference between non-GFE and GFE?

Thanks
NoAverageGuy

There has been a lot written about this. Ask 100 guys & you will get 100 different answers.

For me the GFE has nothing to do with a menu and can never really be guaranteed. I would not then pay extra for it. I think with some girls you have a better chance of receiving a GFE but it is not a "sure thing".

For me the GFE means that the Sp is open enough with herself that she can respond to you as if she were a girlfriend, even if only for the time that you have paid to be with her.

With a really good GFE you can forget that you are with a provider. The lines get a little blurry. It take maturity both on the side of the Sp and, more so, on the side of the customer-you.

If a provider says that she provides a GFE fine. But if she has two prices, one for 'normal' session and one for GFE, I would not pay the extra. I would be inclined not to see her.

 

[Luscious]

Gfe

We try not to use the term GFE as it means something different to everyone. What we do instead is label each of the ladies profiles either 'very open minded' or 'open minded' and have a link to what we mean by it:
VE's Open Minded Definitions

 

[yoniluvrca]

We try not to use the term GFE as it means something different to everyone. What we do instead is label each of the ladies profiles either 'very open minded' or 'open minded' and have a link to what we mean by it:
VE's Open Minded Definitions

This is a better way to go IMHO.

The GFE happens, like the GF, on her own time & schedule

 

[Hollybaby]

I agree that this can mean different things to different people, and you should ask the SP what she means when she says "GFE"

For me, it means doing things you'd do with your girlfriend minus the fighting. Lol.

So that includes MSOG, digits, DFK, CBJ, DATY, having conversations, cuddling, etc.

Some people think that a GFE means that an SP does BBBJ, but I've seen girls use the phrase "safe GFE" to mean that they use condoms for BJs.

I've never really thought of Greek as part of the GFE.

I think non-GFE means that the SP doesn't really want to talk to you, or kiss you or have DATY..but I may be wrong.

 

[Quarter Mile'r]

Some might call this a GFE?

I'll bet a six-pack that SHE doesn't !!

............QM'r

 

[Quarter Mile'r]

For me, it means doing things you'd do with your girlfriend minus the fighting. Lol.

Hi ya Holly !

I think now from what you stated above that maybe some SP's could
arrange a good quarrel with their client if he so wishes for a "true" GFE
then. ( A quarrel first and then, like, make up sex afterwards?)


............QM'r

 

[Cinnamon Girl]

I stopped using it

I think its over used & not clear on its meaning.....realistically a girlfriend will give her boyfriend a bbbj, bbfs & whatever else she is comfortable exploring. Reaching a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship takes time & effort; courtship. SP/gent relationship is a casual no strings, fly by night affair of passion.

GFE meant to me: Genuinely Friendly Experience - you will instantly be comfortable, I put thought into making it a great experience with extra details. More on personality than service, I already believe if you have too many restrictions you are in the wrong business.



LMAO qtr mile r - good one! IMO SP's are offering something wayyyyy better than a GFE, guaranteed hassle free.

 

[Avery]

This question keeps coming up.

Here are the results of a poll on MERB in December. The first number is the total votes for the option, and the second number is the percentage of the total vote.

BBBJ, DATY, LFK 5 4.13%
BBBJ, DATY, DFK 15 12.40%
BBBJ, DATY, LFK, MSOG 14 11.57%
BBBJ, DATY, DFK, MSOG 58 47.93%
BBBJ and DATY only 0 0%
BBBJ and LFK only 2 1.65%
BBBJ and DFK only 2 1.65%
BBBJ and MSOG only 0 0%
CBJ and everything else including good attitude 1 0.83%
Acronyms are irrelevant, what counts is if she feels like a GFE 24 19.83%
Total 121 100.0%

Of the 97 who voted based on activities, 96 said BBBJ is a must, 92 said DATY is a must, and 75 said DFK is a must.

Anyone who posts a review on MERB and refers to a CBJ-only provider as a GFE is immediately chastised (or worse) by many other board members.

When I post a review, I never use the term GFE unless the session included DFK, DATY and BBBJ, and MSOG was at least on the menu, time (and my libido) permitting.

 

[therealrex]

When I first heard the term a number of years ago it pretty much meant what it apparently still means in Quebec: bbbj, dfk but then once the girls found every guy wanting gfe they all included it in their ads whether they changed their services or not so now I'd say it means nothing.

 

[curvy_nympho]

I agree with Gina Lee

"GFE meant to me: Genuinely Friendly Experience - you will instantly be comfortable, I put thought into making it a great experience with extra details. More on personality than service, I already believe if you have too many restrictions you are in the wrong business."

To me, offering a GFE, means paying attention to the client's desires for a certain type of lingerie, music, drink, activity, etc. It means that there was some communication beforehand and probably some general conversation during the session to make the client feel comfortable and at ease. I often converse with regulars about things other than sex in between sessions. I care enough to ask about their last business trip or the hockey game they attended last week or whatever else they have told me. When there is some affection involved, I think my clients feel more comfortable sharing their fantasies or feel at ease to do or say things they might not normally have the courage to do or say.

For me, it also means that the client is concerned that I enjoy myself too. If I relax and get into the session, the client himself seems to enjoy it that much more too. (i.e moans, wetness, etc.)

Just my two cents.

Bella

 

[Avery]

When I first heard the term a number of years ago it pretty much meant what it apparently still means in Quebec: bbbj, dfk but then once the girls found every guy wanting gfe they all included it in their ads whether they changed their services or not so now I'd say it means nothing.

When the ladies advertise themselves as GFE, it's definitely a case of caveat emptor. Some of them are truthful; some aren't. I don't trust ads that say a lady is "open minded" either. I rely on reviews from well-established board members.

The regulars on MERB are very vigilant about false advertising, particularly agencies that describe ladies as "GFE", when they're not. As a result, the better agencies, at least, have learned to be honest in using the term. When it appears on their web sites, it means what the poll said it means.