think the point of the this post snowballed off topic a bit. not a pimp, not a troll, not forcing her. it was a possible option but before jumping into anything wanted to research it first, hence this post. i only posted here because i have an account and we both discuss the matter together afterwards. don't even know if she is going to do it but honestly if she did she wouldn't be coerced into more, it would just be the hj. anyways we got the basic info we needed, thanks. and tbh at this point i don't think she is even going to go thru with it... seems like too many "what if's" and can be problematic. ideally she was thinking of seeing the same couple people regularly and all is great but i don't think it works like that, a bit too ideal.






