Getting played by a chick

[KYG]

So I dated this girl in the office for a few months, didn't work out and was a bit choked. I had a beer with a buddy in the office and found out he dated her just after me. We both didnt know. And then found out she dated a third guy in the office as well. Unbelievable! We were just absolutely surprised. Has this happened to anyone and what if anything should we do?

 

[Stew]

Were office protocols about dating violated? If so, it seems that all four of you would be in trouble not just her. Kind of hard just to turn her in, no?

Has this happened to anyone and what if anything should we do?

 

[KYG]

I dont think there were office rules about dating. It didn't affect work and it was all outside the office in terms of going out for dinner, etc.

 

[Stew]

If it was outside the office, it is unclear as to what you mean when you refer to whether there is anything you should do. She is free to date within the office and she did not say it was going to be a long-term relationship?

 

[belair]

I'm guessing KYG is feeling a bit used. Could also be some interesting gossip going around the workplace. Hmm...

 

[Stew]

Hmmm...is he going to call her --wait for it--a slut? A lot of men use women; it seems that there might be a few women who use men.

Life is bitter and ugly and we await the sweet release of death. Or we could just get laid and move on.

 

[belair]

girl talk

Hmmm...is he going to call her --wait for it--a slut?

I was thinking more along the lines of which guy is more fun in bed.

 

[Stew]

Or the ladies in the office could be gathering data on penis length when mocking is required at meetings?

 

[belair]

Or the ladies in the office could be gathering data on penis length when mocking is required at meetings?

Of course they are, silly man.

 

[sonoman]

If it was outside the office, it is unclear as to what you mean when you refer to whether there is anything you should do. She is free to date within the office and she did not say it was going to be a long-term relationship?

Shut up Stew. lol

 

[Ima]

Best to put a list up in the bathroom so everyone knows who tapped that a$$

 

[belair]

Best to put a list up in the bathroom so everyone knows who tapped that a$$

It's the women's loo you want to read.

 

[rescue911]

problem

the real problem here is not that you got played...she dumped you and you resent it.

 

[FortunateOne]

sounds like everyone in the office is super discrete, since nobody seems to know who is dating who and when.
You all should give lessons to Spitzer.

 

[KYG]

I guess everyone had to be discreet because of the working relationships.