I have had several serious relationships since my hayday as it were. I shared that info with one. She was threatened by the experience more so than being disgusted or horrified. I would not share it again as it is frankly not their business.
Getting out of pooning: Is it possible or am I in this for life?
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I would say that's the million dollars question that everyone in this board asks them selves , escorts and clients
Should I tell the person I am in a relationship with about my past sexual exploits
If you have gilt about not being able to tell the person uou love about all the things in your life , and you are afraid they will judge you,reject you and every other negative thing you can think of . Then your not with the right person.
I guess that is why I have not looked out side the escort world for any real friendships or relationship, because there is less judgement from those that do it.
Now that being said there still is judgement from SPs. And I have found that many won't have a relationship with some one that was in this hobby or saw escorts ..because they are afraid he will go off and see escort when in their relationship. Of course they should know that then is a sign that it's not working.
So much of why know one wants to accept that other had sexual relationship with others is partly there own insecurity and allso this need to possess the other rather then accept them for who they are and that they are individuals and had a life before them and livery a life out side of whet ever they each have together.
We are the sum of all things that we think , do and Imagen. And that is the person that you want the other to love , not a fantasy which does not know the truth.
Should I tell the person I am in a relationship with about my past sexual exploits
If you have gilt about not being able to tell the person uou love about all the things in your life , and you are afraid they will judge you,reject you and every other negative thing you can think of . Then your not with the right person.
I guess that is why I have not looked out side the escort world for any real friendships or relationship, because there is less judgement from those that do it.
Now that being said there still is judgement from SPs. And I have found that many won't have a relationship with some one that was in this hobby or saw escorts ..because they are afraid he will go off and see escort when in their relationship. Of course they should know that then is a sign that it's not working.
So much of why know one wants to accept that other had sexual relationship with others is partly there own insecurity and allso this need to possess the other rather then accept them for who they are and that they are individuals and had a life before them and livery a life out side of whet ever they each have together.
We are the sum of all things that we think , do and Imagen. And that is the person that you want the other to love , not a fantasy which does not know the truth.
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You are still as wise as always Hatrick. Gotta say i have missed the community from time to time.
What percentage of escorts in later relationships tell their partner about their past? The number of escorts the guys has been with would pale in comparison to the number of pooners an escort would have seen.
I hear you on that Elmore. I'm one of those guys who do the 90 or 120 min dates. Touch wood most times I walk away with a great feeling and sometimes it's a wtf am I doing feeling? Choosing the right partners has worked most times. The $700 and up ladies I've seen are mostly low volume which usually equates to a quality date.
Assuming everything is open on the table without judgement then yes. As we all know during the heat of the moment those words are spoken that can not be retracted. Rarely works out with a happy ending so it's best to keep to ones self.
well maybe the lady he gets in a relationship with is his long time escort.
that is one way to get out.
I dunno if you want out bad enough you will get out,
im out, I guess not technically because I still see the lady I see, but were friends not interested in seeing any one else, period,
and not at all worried about her and me, what happens happens.
but I have had a long go, married forever, seeing my sp it seems like just as long but over a decade.
I dunno, im ok with whatever happens, I think were wired for whatever, don't fight it,
figure out how to make it work,
I think if your hooked addicted you need to do something about it, not a good place to be, trust me I know,
but, you enjoy doing something, you need to figure ways so you can keep doing it. for the rest of your life if need be.
its not really a bad place to be seeing hookers. it really depends on you,
