LAG, like you i've been scammed before. Had my fill of nice indies that tell the truth, and had the bullshitters that lie to their teeth. To all the guys who think about quitting the biz, just do it. The best SP i seen was this UGLY MONGOLOID BITCH on 12th and Clarke. Claimed she was Eurasian but was instead some native scamming. Saw it in the Westender. After taking my lumps i said no more. Plus i'm tired of having to wear a condom. Get a steady GF or wife and just go bareback. This hobby was fun in the beginning but it gets tiring, expensive, and the good ones are few and far between.
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yup there arent many quality SP out there. That's why I rarely see these gals now. Only reason i used a SP this week because a friend mines wanted too see one.
I don't believe it's easy to put a cap on the oldest profession. I did the $200/hr scene and it left me empty x 3. My balls, my wallet, and going home to an empty house just personified the experience being all to short. No biggie for her she just made 200 bones for an hour of work, and when you leave she will have someone booked right behind you.
Well unfortunately I'm not going home to a brass band, or to fuck 10 more chiks. What I'm saying is this was not curing my need for entertainment. Decided to get more involved at work with the extra curricular activities, consequently I made more friends and less time for the kinda chiks you have to pay for.
I still head DT to make a deposit once a week or so. There are some things I still need, but a $200/hr gf was not one of them. Until I decide on rejoining the girlfriend game with chiks I don't have to pay for to be with, a green or two once a week is great.
Like I always say my next GF will have no idea what "a big one is", "have nothing to do with the track", "have a relatively regular 9-5 job", "and not smoke"
Well unfortunately I'm not going home to a brass band, or to fuck 10 more chiks. What I'm saying is this was not curing my need for entertainment. Decided to get more involved at work with the extra curricular activities, consequently I made more friends and less time for the kinda chiks you have to pay for.
I still head DT to make a deposit once a week or so. There are some things I still need, but a $200/hr gf was not one of them. Until I decide on rejoining the girlfriend game with chiks I don't have to pay for to be with, a green or two once a week is great.
Like I always say my next GF will have no idea what "a big one is", "have nothing to do with the track", "have a relatively regular 9-5 job", "and not smoke"
Well there HiTrack you hit a few nails on the head with that one. When my marrage was in the toilet seeing a beautiful woman then going home just drove that point home like a nail! That's probably why I spent most of my time on the street then as opposed to escorts. Now that things at home are going good, for whatever reason I don't feel empty when I go home, instead I feel empowered (not trying to explain it just a fact)... As a matter a fact one of the things I want to do is make love to my wife (again can't explain but it the way it is).hitrack said:
But yes I have been there, the temporay high then the deep low afterwards, that is why I always say this is not a hobby it is an obsession (ok or addiction). quite frankly If I had kept feeling that way about it I would have quit!!....
oberon
Hitrack, i'm glad you are almost retired like me. Like you, i'm tired of the 200/hr gf that's not there to stay with me in the middle of the night. Yes, we all have to pay in a relationship in some manner but i rather have the possibility to dream that it's going to last than have an hour of dreaming and bang, it's all over. Keep on with your efforts and hopefully you'll leave this hobby.
Oberon i'm glad things are better with you and your wife. But i wasn't too sure reading your post, have you quit this hobby or sometimes indulge yourself? I agree that this is an addiction for some/most people and i wish they would quit to save themselves of heartache and money. For some this is avoiding real relationships. I don't want people using this hobby as a social crutch and then look back at the years they could have spent building a relationship that could last forever.
Oberon i'm glad things are better with you and your wife. But i wasn't too sure reading your post, have you quit this hobby or sometimes indulge yourself? I agree that this is an addiction for some/most people and i wish they would quit to save themselves of heartache and money. For some this is avoiding real relationships. I don't want people using this hobby as a social crutch and then look back at the years they could have spent building a relationship that could last forever.
Sorry for the lack of clarity, my wife and I actually came to a sort of semi open marrage agreement (surprised the f**k out of me). While she does not want to hear about anything I do she accepts it as long as I remember where I live and who comes first! which is of course more than fair. She can do what she wants too but I really don't know if she does....Retired said:
I've never had false expectations what a Sp could do for me. But i expect i used it like a few good number of these members here for an escape route. Unfortunately used it too long and it ruined some possible long term relations as well as drained my funds, tho not entirely.
Not bitter towards SPs at all, just the ones who lied/cheated me of services/money. What i basically wanted to rant about was how damaging this hobby can be to many johns who don't let go and keep escaping by using providers. I think far too many of us get deluded into thinking we are casanovas or lovemaking machines when remember, we are paying for their services. Not everyone makes 6 figures and i don't want the ones to throw away their hard-earned money.
Not bitter towards SPs at all, just the ones who lied/cheated me of services/money. What i basically wanted to rant about was how damaging this hobby can be to many johns who don't let go and keep escaping by using providers. I think far too many of us get deluded into thinking we are casanovas or lovemaking machines when remember, we are paying for their services. Not everyone makes 6 figures and i don't want the ones to throw away their hard-earned money.
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SOrry to hear your bad experience with this scamming SP at Clark and 12 Ave and happy for your retirement.
Like many other members here (like Vancouverman said), to me , I am just doing it as a hobby. It does not hurt me if I go to see just my regular ladies...
Its like a get-away for me once in a while...
Good luck...
SOrry to hear your bad experience with this scamming SP at Clark and 12 Ave and happy for your retirement.
Like many other members here (like Vancouverman said), to me , I am just doing it as a hobby. It does not hurt me if I go to see just my regular ladies...
Its like a get-away for me once in a while...
Good luck...
well, with Victoria said about her client from yesterday..., that non-perb client of hers scored pretty high...
this fellow set a pretty mark for me...and everyone...
But I have confidence that I will for sure beat out this fellow...
this fellow set a pretty mark for me...and everyone...
But I have confidence that I will for sure beat out this fellow...
Re: the bitter ashes
Read the wise man's post again -- I couldn't have said it better myself.
Read the wise man's post again -- I couldn't have said it better myself.
Grendleaxe said:
I am neither embarrased nor ashamed with what I do with my life, I have reasons for what I do, but I did not come into the game with false expectations. Its my form of entertainment, an epensive piece of entertainment, but entertainment none the less. I haave a good time when I am with a lady and that is all that I expect. She treats me with respect, I treeeat them with respect that is all you can ask.
